Nonamus

Yes, he was working when in Morocco.

The deal we had when he quit his job was that he would work on the house. He has done some, but doesn't finish anything

His English is excellent; he went to class here to improve

I make about 10 times what he made the year he did work; I know that bothers some men.

I haven't just sat around for five years; i've been trying to help him to try. Sometimes, I back off thinking that my nagging is hurting more than helping.

He has all kinds of "plans"' but doesn't carry through

I think that I will try the specific date suggestion. If I have him choose the date, he can't say much if he misses it.

My husband has been here six years. I helped him find a job when he first arrived. He worked there one year and was unhappy, so he quit. He won't look for another job. I've brought home applications, told him about openings, offered to send him to school, tried to help him start a business. Nothing is working. I told him last month that he needs to look for something or else I will throw him out. He says that yes, he knows he needs to get a job. Still, he does nothing. He spends his days online, his nights out with friends. I'm at a loss at what to do.