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It sounds like the put you in AP until they the requested items (more evidence and sponsor)... But Im not exactly sure on that. If you have your interview this morning, you might have ran into my sweetie- Mr. Abugah?

Oh, sorry to hear that, letting the embassy know of the incidence, and reporting to the police is the first, and most important fix... I think it is nice to have a copy of the police report of the incidence too. Does he have a copy of his documents maybe left at home? or you? especially the appointment letter, and/or the copay of the passport biographic page? He would try to use that to get the access to the embassy and by God's grace he would be able to explain what happened and see how it will be from there

WOW!!! I am soooo sorry that this has happen to you guys! I'm sure its very frustrating! But it sounds like you have done everything right as far as reporting. Was he on one of the buses from the North? If so, the company should also have reported and be able to provide some type of statement. As far as the embassy goes, I'm thinking he will need to work on getting another passport ASAP! I know someone who got a new passport within a week! However, just like anything else in Ghana, its all about who you know and usually how much you are willing to pay (sadly). I'll ask around and see what I can find out...

Very good to hear!

YAAAY!! Sounds like GREAT news is on the horizon!!!

I'm so sorry to hear this! Especially as a fellow muslim, I do understand how predjudice can be a real negative influence on an individual's life here. I will be praying for you guys. I know this is probably very disheartening and discouraging but, InshaAllah, may God make it easier for you!

Glad you brought this topic up... something to definetly think about!

Oh, I am very sad to hear this! Sometimes this whole process just seems so unfair! I pray that the AP doesnt last too long and that you are able to be with your loved one very soon.

I have been using that same number and can't get through to an actual human. Just the voice recording instructing you to go online or email??? It seems as thought their system is not too customer friendly.

Make we chop pidgin! I dey come...

for me, when I first put in my service request, I got a letter in the mail stating I should basically "wait patiently". My congressmen then called (I think that was her 3rd phone call to them), and they said at the end of the sixth month I would be automatically expedited. THe process is just crazy! Anyway, hope you get your NOA2 very soon!

Someone did mention in an earlier post that they might be going to the online scheduling for K-1 process.... But I really have no idea WHAT they are doing in Ghana! Things change so frequently and with little notice.

wow! So you can't get the SS card untill after three weeks in country? That's interesting...

As everyone else has stated, you can contact your representatives... but it seems that USCIS is really taking their time lately. My NOA2 took a little bit over 6 months.

All I can say is WOW! I really hate to hear that your husband was treated so poorly! I saw your facebook post and will continue to make dua for you and your family.

I believe this process is only for NON-immigrant visas, which is for a temporary visa. The K-1, K-3/CR-1, fiance and spouse visa are Immigrant visas (used for permanent stay).

Thanks guys for all the good inputs! I'm making a list and making additions to my itunes library and get very excited about all this good music! Just makes me wanna dance all day!

Those are ALL very good songs! I super HEART African Queen and I'm actually planning to walk down the isle to that song! I think it's just the perfect African love song and describes our relationship so well! It's on my Ipod play list (believe it or not, they have alot of West African music on Itunes)!!! I also LOVE Psquare (almost ALL of their music, including "no easy" and "bizzy body") lol. I like Yori Yori too. Sometimes I really can't tell which songs are Nigerian and which are Ghanian, because I always heard them alot in Ghana.

And there are a few hip-life songz that I can not wait to play! A song called "make me fall in love" (I think his name is Banj??). Brandez and 4X4 also have a few songs I like. I'm so excited to introduce everyone to some lifely African music. I know people will be shocked at how they "get down" lol.

Any other suggestions???

Trying to take my mind of the wait... so I'm creating a wedding playlist! I want to play a nice mixture of r&b, dance music, hip life (Gh version of hip-hop, which I LOVE), and oldies. Looking for a lil advise on specific songs. What your all-time favorite dance and love songs? New, Old, Fast, Slow...

I was going to say the same thing. I packed two laptops on my way to Ghana last time and they were slightly damaged when we opened the bags. Ghana is REALLY rough on lugguage, and yes they can open bags and take things out (How will anyone know who did it??). I would think that packing a CPU would be a little more challenging to secure. I've also mailed laptops to Ghana and found that to be alot less of a headache and have never had one damaged.

That does sound strange... but you know the embassy in Ghana seems to be known for doing things "differently". From what some have said here, it sounds like the want to make sure the medical is still good when he gets here for your application to change status. I guess just allowing for more time on it, just in case? Girl I have no idea, and with it being Ghana, you can never really know. As stated before I would just leave as soon as possible and not worry about it. As they say in Ghana "That's Ghana for you!" lol. When is he planning to fly out?

I agree pretty much with what everyone else said. Here is the official info for B2 visa applications: http://travel.state.gov/visa/temp/types/types_1262.html

I think in Ghana it is pretty difficult to prove ties to the country and to produce hardcore evidence that the person will definately not stay in the U.S. once the visit is over. However, it doesnt hurt to try. The only "risk" is that it will cost you about $400-$500 (don't qoute me on the exact cost) to apply and get all the required documents. Good Luck! I know every bride wants to have their mother by their side on that special day.

So I just noticed that my NOA2, Approval Notice states that it is Valid from 2/1/2011 to 6/1/2011. What does this mean???

I keep calling the NVC phone number and getting a busy signal everytime. Anyone know why?

Totally agreed... I'm 3 days shy of my six month mark and still nothing... Almost feels like we are the neglected step children.

Sent 7/27/2010

Noa1 8/3/2010

I think I may have been misunderstood here just a little bit. I'm not saying that I don't love my country... I absolutely do!!! So much that I'm serving in the military and willing to give my life for it. However, I'm a firm believer of knowing both sides of a story. I never imagined I would love Ghana as much as I do. I've traveled all over the world to several countries and was ALWAYS glad to come back home to the good ol USA. However, after spending 5 months in Ghana, I really started to understand our countries difference. As a social worker, examining the societal problems of both the US and Ghana, I came to terms that for ME Ghana was a place where I found a remarkable peace that I have never felt here. The resilience and joy of the people is amazing!

It is very true that we have diversity in the U.S., which I enjoy very much! I love the fact that we can all learn different things and perspectives from each other. With that being said, I believe because of this each person experience is very different. I'm a dark skin girl from Texas who grew up in poverty. So I think that shapes my perspective alot. And now that I'm in a career that serves with what we call "vulnerable populations" I see that its not always as easy as "work hard, be smart, and have a good heart" to obtain the American dream. I have seen a lot of good people become statistics and what I like to call victims of society. Just a few things to consider when examining the world's RICHEST country:

On any given night, anywhere from 700,000 to 2 million people are homeless, according to the National Law Center on Homelessness & Poverty (44 percent did paid work during the past month)

Over 70% of all African American children are born out of Wedlock

It is estimated that 40% of all marriages have ended in divorce as of 2008

So I think when the question of "how hard is it" is asked... we need to tell the WHOLE truth.

As far as what I said about the average american being mean and rude... thats purely from my perspective of what I have seen when other Americans travel abroad. Before I left for my international internship i was told by my advisor (who specializes in international social work) "Don't be an ugly American". And sadely this generalization tends to be true on many occassions here and abroad. I'm often told "Wow you are so nice, you don't seem like a regular AMerican". At first I defended us and said what does that mean, but after seeing 60 students (graduate and undergraduate) on a trip to Ghana leave HORRIBLE immpressions, after hearing the horror storries from Ghanaians, Asian Americans, Hispanics, etc., I now know what people mean by those sterotypical phrases. I think it stems from us being so blessed, yet so overworked, and the lack of real social interaction. Also, we have been taught that America is the best country in the world. We are constantly told that we are the best in EVERYTHING. And we tend to carry that attitude around with us, often in small ways without even noticing.

Living in Ghana was really uncomfortable for me at first. I challenged everything with, "well in America its done like this". Simply by comparing was an unconscious statement of being better. It was only when I choose to actually take time to UNDERSTAND the differences that I begain to really see the true beauty of Ghana. As I said before, each person is different and values different things. I place value on sprituality, morals, family and community. And after a while I just realized that I value these things more than "paved roads". Some things are just priceless.

I'm totally NOT trying to scare you, but I know that I am the type of person who likes to know the WHOLE story, both sides, so I know what I'm up against. Just to prepare myself I guess so I know how to proceed accordingly. However, as I said before Each place as its positives and negatives and with God EVERY challenge can be overcome. I believe that you will find your way here in the U.S. just fine. There are over 100,000s of Ghanaians who have done it. I will keep you in my prayers and know that you won't be alone when you come. There are people here who are very loving and caring. I'm sure you will find them and live very happily with your soon to be husband. And In the end, that's all that really matters.