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Lets hear the details of your sad story,Idocare.

Please, give us your ex's phone number or e-mail so we can investigate your claims. You seem to be phoney. You are all over the internet telling your sad story.This is not the only forum you post your sad story (sic) as you claim. But you claim it is.Thats a lie and you know. Please, Idocare tellus what you are up to. Quit fooling the world!

The forum should sympathize with Idocare because she seems to have a serious mental health problem and serious problem with relationships. Otherwise, how else can we explain her being hung up on one expired relationship for 10 years and jeopardize the future of her little son by posting his name all over the internet. Get help Idocare. I have mental health referrals for you, if you care.

Well a word is enough for the wise. You are destroying your little boy's life, without knowing it. His father may resent him as well, because of what you are doing. I will really like to hear his side. Your story captured my interest and sympathy but I think you are taking things too far.When an African man hates their ex, they also hate their children.Just a tip. Be carefl,woman. Save you ...

If you keep fighting your ex and he is not fighting back, then you are fighting in vain. If you have issues with him report to immigration or go to court, inteasd of posting his business and your sons business for the whole world who does not realy care.

If I talk to him he find out about the posts. Iwill honestly advise you to leave the guy alone and move on. Being uptight and unforgiving will hurt you more than him. If you want God to settle things, you cannot continue to fight it your self,or else will be pissed off and deal with you. In Cameroon, this is our belief. Let things go.

Idocare, if you don't mine, can you give me your ex's phone number so I can talk to him and tell the forum his own side of the story. It has been your side all along. The way you harden you heart, you are hurting yourself more than you think. Exposing yourself to diseases and old age wrinkles.Think of little Victor with no father because of your actions.

Your son will not be able to visit his father's country,Ghana, the way you are going. What you are doing will hit the boy more than you. Right now he has no father. Are you proud of that? Your case is nothing compared to mine, but your approach will make matter worse. He could file libel suit against you with your posts. Be careful. Pull these potsts. I am trying to help you here. Listen to...

I don't come to this site very much but from your comments, it is hard to tell who the evil one is.I believe he has moved on. you should do the same. This is life. If you continue to wish him evil and he is not wishing back, the evil could come back to you. You are destroying your son's life. I don't think he and his family will be happy to see you talking abou them on the internet....

You should be praying for Victor to succeed,rather than smearing him because it will benefit your son in the long term. Putting his business on the internet will make matters worse, if he finds out. Your young son may not be happy that you are putting his business online. Protect him as you should.The way you are going,your son may never have a relationship with his father. Delete the posts.

Hello Idocare. I feel your pain. I will really like to hear Victor's side of the story. You say he is a doctor. I assume you did not marry him because of that.I don't believe that smearing his name and his family on the internet will help the relationship between you and your son and him and his family.Stop posting your sons name all over the internet. You should be protecting him from ...