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Wednesday is on my mind... nothing else, just Wednesday

2nd interview on Wednesday next week, not looking forward to it one bit, I don't know why I have a 2nd interview and they will NOT tell me, this is so unfair of them. I firmly believe they do not consider peoples feelings in the slightest, is it too much to ask them to show compassion during these processes... I guess it is

Good luck mate for Tuesday, I know it's nerve racking, try your best to stay positive

8th of December is hopefull decerning day in my life, let it be a change for the good lord!

When is Richi boy 21?

Big big day mate, may god be with you and I wouldn't be nervous about the CO, I found them pleasantly polite and reassuring, I know it doesn't get you your visa but it helps to know they don't treat you like dirt in the embassy like the doctors do in the medical

Another interview on the 8th of December, please lord let it be good news, I'm so tired of being kicked when I'm down

Still waiting for the Consular Officer to send my approval, this waiting game is killing us... I would rather be told refused than stay in this place of uncertainty

I need to proof read more, hope you can make sense of what I just said

I don't think they are going to issue me a visa because of this hateful woman, she display signs of mistrust and hate towards drinker present and past, If I get a visa it won't be because of her

You're doing better than me then Richi, I had a phone call from the Physician not 1 hour ago, she is going hell for leather on my drinking from year back. Remember I told you I had a non-immigration visa medical and got refused well, she pulled it and phoned me tomight and said my answer in the medical on Friday to not match the medical 3 years ago... she is making it personal almost

Getting tired of all this bull !!!

How is Richi feeling today? anymore news? any letters or emails mate?

keep talking and keep hope on top of anything else, I hit the bottom of the barrel many times and it was all because I listened to the wrong people and I didn't put my worries out there for others to listen to and put back in to perspective for me

I wish you all the best on your application, I do also hope I gave you some help, it isn't always about paper work, worry is a lar...

I can only give you one bit of advice, if I were to go through this again I would expect less and fear nothing, the process is so fearful, not because of pain or illness but because I am so scared of not being with my wife in the USA.

I wish I had watched my feelings every step of the way and talked more about them, I got so disillusioned because of my head thinking the worst... kee...

I was beside myself with fear because of her high horse arrogance, I work in conditions that can kill me in the blink of an eye but this doctor scared me more. I will not hesitate to take legal action agaisnt her if it turns out her personal opinion sways my visa decision, she made personal judgements in front of me and I think she is breaking the rules of conduct... thank you for your reassurance

throwing not through... dam these typo's

It does look like a lot of good reviews doesn't it Rich, if they are to be trusted then the two of us will be eating turkey on Thanks Giving and through snow balls at Chrimbo.

I must be honest mate, I don't know how I would react if they issue a denial, nearest pub or just so broken I get lost trying to come home on the train, I hope we both leave victors and happy for life

Was interesting reading that interview description you sent me, as you said, it does give some hope and lesson the fear of the interview, it does seem ppl are suggesting the medical is the hardest part of it all.

no not know... lol... still tired!

I'm not going to say you have your visa for sure, I'm in know position to assume such a thing but if common sense were the deciding factor then for sure you will be out there soon Rich, really do wish you all the best and I hope your interview is soon.

Only god knows m8, but I will say, when you get over you're going to have get in touch again so we can touch base and laugh off all the past conversations. Got my wife on here now so will be gone for the night, keep your chin up and stay positive, you are sounding more positive than a week ago which is good.

I hope my hard luck has all been spent at the Medical office Rich, yours too, I had a young man for my non immigration visa in 07 and like you I hope this time it is someone with compassion.

I failed to mention I was reading a book whilst laying in bed!

I found my own cure in panic attacks, I was laying in bed one day when I lived in Torquay/England, the book was about the reasons panic attacks happen and how the body reacts under a panic attack, it didn't contain a cure but what it did do was give me an understanding of them and in the understanding of them I found myself not fearing them, and in not fearing them they finally stopped