Lucy NY

I often worry that I have to work harder on the relationship going through this process than if we were just a committed couple with vague thoughts that maybe one day we'll have to decide where we are going to live, etc. But I work as hard as I have to. And then work harder still.

Hang in there kid.

Chin up..Our time is coming! Think of the time that you just had and the wonderful days to come when this is all over. It's hard I know, I haven't seen Kenny since May. Thank goodness we have the internet!

I know, it was great him being her ebut there was a whole host of other issues going on for him with his family which seemed more strained this time then the last vacation. Just really hope he doesnt associate that with having a bad time I guess. I swaer without the internet we would not of made it, skype etc is a huge help for us. I find this so much hard work sometimes, but when we do get to see each other it kind of puts things in perspective as to why we are all doing this!!