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    Son's birth Certifcate still in mother's last name!

    in Removing Conditions on Residency General Discussion

    Posted

    ...that is what I am saying; for example,

    my name is Jone (1st name) Tony (2nd name) Edger (last name);

    The name on my son's certificate is Tony (1) Julian(2) Thomas (Last my wife father's name)

    Because I was not here in the US when my had him,

    my wife used my second name for our son's first name.

    Now, my son's new cetificate is beaing processed and I am running out of time.

    Anxious fellow....

    My name is not on the certificate as the father because I was not here to sign hospital papers.



    ...that is what I am saying; for example,

    my name is Jone (1st name) Tony (2nd name) Edger (last name);

    The name on my son's certificate is Tony (1) Julian(2) Thomas (Last my wife father's name)

    Because I was not here in the US when my wife had him,

    my wife used my second name for our son's first name.

    Now, my son's new cetificate is beaing processed and I am running out of time.

    Anxious fellow....

    My name is not on the certificate as the father because I was not here to sign hospital papers.

    Son's birth Certifcate still in mother's last name!

    in Removing Conditions on Residency General Discussion

    Posted

    I am in the process of removing condition but my son's birth cerificate is still in my wife's father's name. My wife had my child while I was in my native country so when she gave birth, her child took her father's name. Now, I am here, we have applied for a new cerfificate in my own name but we still waiting for it to arrive...I have to months left to submit my I-751 document.

    What do I do? Submit the document the way it is, that is with my son bearing my wife's last name???

    Anxiously waiting to hear from you.

    Thanks.

    REMOVAL OF CONDITION

    in Removing Conditions on Residency General Discussion

    Posted

    My conditional Green card is expiring on the 06/21/13

    When is the right time to post my package to the Department of Home Land Security?

    Now, is it that the package will have to be sent exactly before the 90 days?

    OR

    Within the 90 days before the day of expiration? meaning I can still have my package posted even when I have 80 days left?

    I need to know.

    Anxiously waiting for your answers.

    Thank you.

    Petitioner doesn't want to get married

    in Adjustment of Status (Green Card) from K1 and K3 Family Based Visas

    Posted

    That's the thing, I DID. If I knew you personally I would suggest you call my mum and friends and ask. We discussed divorce and our views on it. I looked into divorce in Iowa (where we would marry and eventually settle) to make sure it wouldn't be too hard or expensive. I didn't even empty my bedroom or take all my clothes when I first went over. I told them that I hoped it work, I think I even have blog entries (a private online diary type thing) where I talked about how I would feel if it didn't work out. How embarassing it would be to return home but how that would be better than stuck in a country to be honest I wasn't even sure I LIKED at the time. Let's be honest here, it's completely different for me being a single girl, with a loving family back home with a place to return to. It's also not THAT big of a deal if it didn't work out. Relationships don't work out. It would simply be like moving towns (and that's how I thought about it for the longest time).

    If tony told me to go I would be so heartbroken that he even suggested it that I would NOT stay and fight and he knew/knows that. In the beginning things were still fragile and "new" having never lived permanently together, and given my last "live in bf" situation sucked I was entirely prepared NOT to put my name on a lease or anything permanent until I was sure, to ensure I could leave. Tony also told my mother he would pay for a return flight if it didn't work out but she had money just in case. I'm not a pessimist, I'm a realist.

    And so again, lets be real, it doesn't work out after 2 weeks they didn't know each other well enough. I'm not saying I knew tony well enough, we've been married 18+ months and I'm still learning more about him/us but I was realistic about my expectations and I had no kids to worry about so it wasn't a huge risk.

    Yes, I agree with you...we all took that big risk...the 90-day limit is to see if the two are compactible for marriage otherwise, each would go their seperate ways... life is really unfair! Now where is the LOVE we talked about all the time????

    Petitioner doesn't want to get married

    in Adjustment of Status (Green Card) from K1 and K3 Family Based Visas

    Posted

    No I'm not kidding. Have you read the posts about the sort of trouble some immigrants who are desperate (and some just because they're a$$holes) cause? it would be the best way to protect himself. Invite a friend and he's "ganging up on her". Even if she did end up leaving she could make his life hard and it would be smart to protect himself.

    It honestly don't matter WHAT went wrong. This is his life and his choice. Just because she has kids doesn't mean he should change his mind or go against what he feels out of guilt. This just causes more trouble/hassles down the line. The fact she's refusing to leave indicates to me she's after the GC and not him. I don't care if I sold everything, if 2 weeks after i arrived my guy told me he didn't want me any more I'd be gone.

    Selling up everything for that first flight (to activate the K1) is a bit foolish... esp as many couples (unfortunately) don't know each other as well as they should and some haven't lived together outside of a quick visit. It's no joke and the reality of "forever" sometimes is too much for people. Even those that think that knew each other well are having or have had relationship troubles and are considering returning home. Tony and I were together a while before I immigrated and I was still nervous that the "forever" reality of living together would be different to the visit/s. I sold/donated my stuff when I went home the last time. Maybe I'm overly rational but I certainly didn't want to be in a difficult position if it didn't work out.. it would suck yes but I'd be okay.

    Not to be rude but his OP actually SAYS that he is the petitioner and that his wife is a K1 and has 2 k2 kids.

    Just imagine yourself being sent back when you entered the US by your guy? What will be your story when you are back home? What will you tell your parents, friends, and even your enemies? I want you to visualize yourself in such situation and then attempt the question again...Do you really love this your American guy or...?

    Petitioner doesn't want to get married

    in Adjustment of Status (Green Card) from K1 and K3 Family Based Visas

    Posted

    No I'm not kidding. Have you read the posts about the sort of trouble some immigrants who are desperate (and some just because they're a$$holes) cause? it would be the best way to protect himself. Invite a friend and he's "ganging up on her". Even if she did end up leaving she could make his life hard and it would be smart to protect himself.

    It honestly don't matter WHAT went wrong. This is his life and his choice. Just because she has kids doesn't mean he should change his mind or go against what he feels out of guilt. This just causes more trouble/hassles down the line. The fact she's refusing to leave indicates to me she's after the GC and not him. I don't care if I sold everything, if 2 weeks after i arrived my guy told me he didn't want me any more I'd be gone.

    Selling up everything for that first flight (to activate the K1) is a bit foolish... esp as many couples (unfortunately) don't know each other as well as they should and some haven't lived together outside of a quick visit. It's no joke and the reality of "forever" sometimes is too much for people. Even those that think that knew each other well are having or have had relationship troubles and are considering returning home. Tony and I were together a while before I immigrated and I was still nervous that the "forever" reality of living together would be different to the visit/s. I sold/donated my stuff when I went home the last time. Maybe I'm overly rational but I certainly didn't want to be in a difficult position if it didn't work out.. it would suck yes but I'd be okay.

    Not to be rude but his OP actually SAYS that he is the petitioner and that his wife is a K1 and has 2 k2 kids.

    Just imagine yourself being sent back when you entered the US by your guy? What will be your story when you are back home? What will you tell your parents, friends, and even your enemies? I want you to visualize yourself in such situation and then attempt the question again...

    how can I stop the ROC for my soon to be ex-spouse

    in Removing Conditions on Residency General Discussion

    Posted

    I am just curious, but how can I stop the AOS for my spouse. I realized a mistake was made and would like to bring this forward and put a cease on her application. We got married in October of 2010, went for our interview in March of 2011. Unfortunately, after that time we became separated and as of till this date are no longer together. I would like to know what are the proper protocols to take. Our application was granted and she received her Visa, since she went back to her home country this past December.

    She informed me that there is a temporary green card, and she has already submitted the paperwork to remove the "hold" and to make this permanent.

    Any information and direction on how to go about this, will be greatly appreciated.

    Has she received her green card yet? If she has not received it and she is out of the US, then she would not be able to come back into the US again, unless!!!!

    Thanks to all who helped

    in Adjustment of Status (Green Card) from K1 and K3 Family Based Visas

    Posted

    I just want to say thanks to Visajourney and to it's members who helped these last few months on the AOS process. Today I got approved for my 10 Green Card and me and my wife are relieved and glad this chapter is over.

    It was a very strange interview. We were expecting to show a lot of evidence and questions answered. In fact, it seemed more like an interview for a 2 GC.

    I would like to personally thank JimVA, Vanessa&Tony, Harpa Timsah and everyone else for their helpful information we have been give.

    Tonight I am going to get drunk as a skunk :devil:

    Congratulations! But watch it! This is US...and getting drunk might put you into trouble with the law...might not know how but...moreover, there are better ways to be grateful...Thank God and be good! This will do. Congratulations one again. Enjoy!

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