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Xin chao I'm not defending China at all and truly love my experiences with the viet public, but a reality check is in order. Without the backing of the worldwide community, there is little you can do to stop the absolutely massive and well armed Chinese. If you were indeed faced with the total might of the Chinese, without worldwide intervention, you will be occupied without a doubt. I'm talking military logistics, armament, and capability, not what is "right". The entirety of the viet forces would be little more than a speed bump to China's massive, well trained, well armed ground forces.

I do not doubt the commitment and will to fight of the noble Vietnamese, and I'd gladly stand in arms with you, but to infer you would do anything more than be overrun and die quickly is a dream. Fortunately the international community will not allow such aggression from China.

in the land of the viet , wars happend all the time . it is true that middle kingdom want to rule the world again and we have bad luck to be living right next to them , but fear not , as soon as we got some nuke we will nuke em back to stone age lol, now only if the vietnammese goverment at home hurry up and get all those nucleus electrical powerplans that they been talking a bout in the fast few years buid we will be ok. the internal community

will not do anythings to the chinese because they dont have anymoney to do anythings lol.it is up to us to fight for our land now ,as alway.

ill name my kid AN , it a vietnamese name , easy enough for people to pronounce it .

better becareful with this pholy , nothing worst than an angry husband .

good luck with her interview . it will be better if your lady stay cool during her interview , that will help a lot.

hey pholy , so what if she a spy , at least your spy can cook .

the vc goverment actually do send their spy out in to the us and other countries so they can keep an eye on vietkieu who they consider troublemaker and report their activities back to hanoi , that all they do . no worry pholy , your spy wife not gona kill ya and burn down your house , or anythings like that , you are safe for now .

I def don't belong in the latter half. Even though I give up a few things, but it is all worth it. Not only does she do the regular wifey stuff, she also helps me work on my vehicles.

nice bike , nice wife too . looking at the picture i think i got more tools than you

wow this guy sure can write your writing skill will put my esl teachers to shame.

.errr... i mean to say your writing skill will put my esl teachers writing skill to shame

wow this guy sure can write your writing skill will put my esl teachers to shame.

tb need to be treated before they can give her the visa and turn her loose in the usa ,it is for the common good, or else she will infect a whole bunch of people .i know the waiting game in ap kill yet if you wait long enough you two will live a happy life together. back in 2009 me and my wife got married in vietnam and it took me 2 years before she get the visa and come to the us , now she is pregnant and ill be a father soon. as you can see a bit of waiting actually product a stronger relation ship in the end.

what you can do is move to vietnam and stay there with her for a while if you can not put up with being apart from her. back in 2010 i got fire from my job so i went back to vietnam and spend a few months with my wife while we wait for the visa interview day , those are some of the best months of my life .

Tuyen never planned on coming back. I checked her belongings and she took all her jewelry and nail polishes with her for a "2 week" stay at her brother's. She hasn't told me directly what she plans on doing. She is ignoring me since she went to OC. But I have a pretty good idea. Since coming back from VN she distanced herself from me and my family. She bought new luggage when she got back from VN, but didn't have a trip planned. He's going down there this weekend to check things out. I told him that if she want a divorce she needs to talk to me directly over the phone or in person. Looks like my journey is now over.

am sorry that this happened to you , there are plenty of women in the us , some day you will find the right one . if i am you i will drag out all her stuff and burn it. at least you dont have to stuck paying child support . living the single life is not that bad at all kevin , being free to chase a different woman every few weeks ,live like a cave man and all the other happy stuffs.just dont go crazy over this .

this one is out to all my vietnamese brothers , with all the problems that china military been making out in south china sea how much time do you think we have before the 4th indochina war begin . the first 3 wars actually kill a lot of vietnamese and badly damaged our country , will our country even survive this one? i been reading the new lately and unless chinese goverment

or vietnamese goverment back down in their stupid game of who own what islands lot of people gona die .

some time i wish that our race will not be this hardhead , of all the wars that we fought none of them made vietnam into a bigger country

I showed my babe the site and thread the day before and explained to her that maybe we should talk to her Cousin and I to my friend I introduced to her saying that maybe they should cool it. She told me that she liked him and they seem to be getting along real well so leave them alone and don't interfere.

No matter what I said about it being real far north and very cold and lots of snow or it being a small town in Minnesota and far from anyone or even anything and I was ignored. Who wants to bet that I will be the one that gets the call and told to do something when this same thing happens?

hell just change your phone number , then they can not call you and bother you.

the first time that my wife fly was back in 08 , and she like it. most people dont have a problem plying. one of the white guy that i used to work with here in the us swear that he will never set foot on a plane , he the only person that i know of hate plying lol.

well kevin, just go down to SJ and see wut up with your wife, if she love ya enough you 2 will work things out , if not just cut your loss and look 4 anather wife. she will not be doing this if she love you enough. am from vietnam , i know that it hard for people from my country to made adjustment to life in america , yet she must deal with that if she love you. it took me a while to deal with culture shock when i first come to the us , yet i done it ,your wife being selfish man.

the day that i met my wife i told her that she can either stay home and starve , or follow me to the us and work , if we lucky we will go back to vietnam when we hit 55, to the village that we actually come from and retire . i told her that the us is a tough place to live , full of hard work and the like ,yet she willing to put up with that. i told her the truth so she will know what await her in the us ,so she not gonna run her #### off on me when she get here.

a lot of women from my country think that life in other countries are easy , every years many of them married korean, taiwanese men and follow them to their country , most of those women end up nothing more than a sex slave , what a bunch of dumbass. while i know it wrong to say bad thing about my own people these are the truth , i must put this out here so those of us who have kids will teach em to be wiser.

ummm.... that cake may be bad for his health.

i wish obama actually know how to fix the economic here in the us, tax the rich and help the poor , that should do it. or bring back all the jobs that lost to china , that even better

people must wear darksunglass in the sun ( get those with 100% uv protection ones ) , or else the sun uv rays may cause you to go blind later on in life.while i have no love for those cops in my country they actually kinda need to wear darksunglass.

the best way to deal with bribery is for the government of vietnam to pay it officers livingable salary , which is an impossible thing for them to do because vietnam economy is not big enough to generate lot of tax , and their tax collecting system is primitive, so it like a catch 22 deal. here in the us the democratic government system run much better because the us have a big economy and the irs do their job really well. the usa will become as corrupt as vietnam when us economy shrink to the point where they can not support the us goverment ( we already hit that point , yet the us government save it self by borrow money from other countries , hense the trillions dollars of dept,let hope that we can keep on borrowing)

3 more weeks and my wife will be here in the state. i will take a day off work and wait 4 her at the airport,then i will take her home and fix her a bubble bath. the whole process of getting the visa actually burn us out , we just so tired and sick from it , so we gonna take it easy for a while. her poe will be ohare,chicago, our case is cr1,and we been married for over 2 years. if anyones have any experience with going through immigration in that airport let me know .

for the last few weeks i been clean up my aparment , living like a cave man for the last few years and the whole place is a mess. i got her some shoes too , lol.

Fiona and I would like to thank each and everyone of you for your insight along the way.

There were many personal challenges for me to overcome in the passed 11 months. I sold personal items that I said I would never part with to fund my most recent two month trip, rings and things for ceremonies.

I did all of this without a job. The insane amount of time and energy I put into finding work when I came home paid off at the last minute and could have been a huge red flag.

made sure that she know what you did to get her over here in the us, so she will love ya more. you still have your car right?

Sure. If you happen to have a daughter, when she's bound for college, just tell her "College? Nargh. Too boring! Hooters, Strip clubs! more fun and chance to express yourself! Why stressing yourself out for 4 years and might still being unemployed Vs. lots and lots of dough now?"

And I'm sure your wife (the Mom) would be thrilled to high-5 with you on the decision as well.

After all, if noone is willing to make this type of decision, who would be the waitresses at those Cafe shops right?

if i have a daughter i will never tell her that. being a stripper or a hooker is a tough job, it not easy money,do not ask me how i know that. people do that not because they like it , they do that because they have no other way to made money. when i have kids i will raise them well so they will be smart enough to made money in which ever ways they choose.

You like to praise the Bill of Rights, but you think women don't have rights in regard to their body?

Your English has improved significantly, by the way. I still disagree with most of what you post, but your message is a lot clearer.

i hope you not gona pick on me next teacher mark , my english even worst than that dau que guy

as long as women choose to do it for a living , not being force into doing that then let them be. after all it a free country .

if people truly wanna stop stuff like strip clubs and prostitution then create decent paying jobs for those women , that is the best way to deal with it, not making it illegal and jail them. think out side of the box people .

teacher mark & tcttct quit it. there have been a lot of fighting going on here lately. not like another fight gona made this place any nicer.

nooooo...... dont let the police shut them places down , not before i go down there 4 a visit

Is it just me or is it difficult to buy underwear that can fit an average USC Male in VN?

just go commando , like i did last time i was there , when airline lost my bag.

men underwear in vietnam are a bit tight , if you are a big guy bring a lot of underwear your side , or you will be sorry , like i did .

my wife lives in a bog near soc trang...it's a small city south vietnam. she wants to mail me clothes because i told her some of my jeans are ripped and i havent buy clothes in well over three years. yea that's how i am guys. she said she will mail me some clothes but i told her not to mail me knockoffs because they are #######. i know of a place called blue exchange which sells pretty quality clothes. my question is...any other places to buy clothes around soc trang or can tho that arent knockoffs? last time i was there i bought a nice pair of puma for $400k.

most of clothes made in vietnam are junks(viet tien shirts are ok), they wont last more than a few weeks . am a bluecollar guy and normally i will go for carhartt & dickies stuff , em clothings are build like tanks, last for years . if you are a whitecollar guy have your wife look for some good quality cloth , then look for a good tailor who special in making tuxedo .then have him made you a few fairs . i still got 2 pair of tuxedo ( paid 50 dollars each , one of them made from silk).if she gonna go through the trouble of mailing you cloth have her mail those. blue exchange are junks too lol