MrsAmancio

@CIN you're good to go..i was nervous about that date on the form too but figured it was the latest form shown and said i would argue my case if need be. Good luck and update us w/the good news!!

@Aztec..didn't think about taking a usb drive but thanks for the suggestion because its a great idea! you never know.....

doesn't get more awesome than that!!!

feels so good to be on that list!!! first i was nervous like...what if they forgot to add me on there...then i'll be on the phone waiting ten years to find out why i got shafted....but i finally seen it at the bottom...time please hurry up!!

I live in Florida, around alot of "Rednecks" (including myself at one time).

My co-workers all frown upon my situation (how I met my husband and this process), My best friend treads lightlty, but you can tell she is worried for me, my family are 2 faced nice to our face and then talk #######, and one of my nieces that I absolutely treasured (I practically raised her)will not talk or see me at all anymore.

I love my husband. So I deal with it but it is very hard sometimes. I only cry over my niece, everyone else I do not care what they think or how they feel.

same here but in the city not a redneck part...damn!! that's tough about the niece and a shame how people can be so damn judgmental. But you are sticking by your guns and what you believe in...household family comes first!

Yeah i noticed some jealousy. People trying to point out flaws in my realationship. But these people have noone so can they really see that much wrong? Bottom line i feel blessed and happy. All praises due to God!!!

Bottom line i feel blessed and happy..

This response seems to have somehow summed it all up....You go girl!!

Why don't you go to your fiancee's country and stay 90 days there to get known about her? So that she doesn't have to make such a big change in her life: quit her job, say goodbye to her friends and family, and deal with other administration things...If you're not so sure to marry/start life with her, I would think using the visa for a "testing" is really selfish.

We're the breadwinners so moving to a country where it is competitive to even find a less thank ok paying job isn't feasible. I don't think she's saying she's not ready...she's saying she wants to make sure her fiance is ready...and honestly when you have a long distance out of the country relationship you can never be as sure as if it was a typical relationship where you naturally get to test certain elements. seeing someone for a total of a month out of the year in spurts is different than being close on a daily basis...you don't know all of the habits and pet peeves. we all have the hopes and expectations to carry through with the 90 day marriage commitment yet if during that time the relationship tanks...why would anyone proceed for the sake of carrying out protocol? Sorry but that's the advantage of the k1 even though its so costly! It's not breaking a law so we can't say that its unfair to anyone if it's well within the rights of the petitioner/beneficiary...just my 2 or 4 cents!!!

what u said is soooooo true... and thatz my biggest fear, that things will change when he comes to the U.S...but like you said people that risk will never go anywhere.... I guess what I'll dot is wait those 3 months they allow me to see how things go and THEN get married just in case.... but I will be praying about this so I can make the right decisions.... Thanx everyone for your support... I know u guys are here for me through of this.... and I'm here 4 u guys as much as I can be .. .. :) :)

that's exactly what i plan to do lol i only plan to get married ONCE so im using that 90 days to see if we can tolerate each other haha! 90 days can tell you ALOT about a person and any/all red flags should surface nobody is that good of an actor/actress it's just what you choose to turn the blinders on for and what you recognize. trust that.

NOthing personal, but.. I do not think anyone can be protected from this. Even if you do not bring people here but marry someone here. Still the same thing. You just have to hope for the best. Just my two cents: this is definitely wrong attitude to think about it once entering relationship. If you are bringing person here you need to think how to make their adjustment smooth. If you think about possible fraud now.. I don't know.. Bringing foreign fiancee here is already a huge commitment. Marriage is a huge commitment by itself. You have to be sure that there is a true love there before making a decision to file for K1. If you have doubts don't do this. Pre-K1 commitment includes not only meeting once or twice but also connecting, feeling each other, suffering together if you will.. You have to have a strong feeling that you cannot survive without this person a single minute. The fact that you are thinking this way now makes me think that you have doubts.. If you do, I wouldn't do it for your own sake and for the sake of people that wait in line to be together with their loved ones. I am sorry but these are my 2 cents.

I agree with San Diego..all relationships can be risky. Of course, marriage is a bigger deal/commitment. Some of the guys you may date here in the states have been "frauds" meaning they mask their true intentions...the whole synopsis is try to be hip to the game and wise then go by your gut. Risks are not always bad. Rich folks didn't make it to where they are by playing it too safe...some risks can be healthy and some dangerous. Not all dominicans or foreigners are frauds. Just know what your plan of action will be in the event things change...and people need to realize that sometimes things change after immigration not because of fraud but just because people spend more time w/one another finally and they realize they are not a match...be prepared yet do not focus on this...focus on prep for your new life and the happiness you anticipate. you have your VJ family to support you through this all!

@ G&G in Love..thanks for adding me by the way...whats Tel 3? put me in the know i've been fooling with pingo and rebtel still like 10 cents a minute to DR cells

im from Harrisburg yet live in Florida now

i waited for yours the MOST chica because you were one of the 1st people I met on here!! these are exciting times...live it UP

Super Happy.. I just received my text as I am sitting here at work!! NOA2 approved.. Ok.. I have no idea what goes next...

wow....guess there's not many of us! everybody's bizzy going to NY

We met in a hospital. I was sick and she was the doctor that helped get me better so i could enjoy the rest of the trip. No kids now, however we have plans of having 2 after she settles in and finishes her residency here. We should most definitely keep in touch to make our SO's transition to our beautiful city go smooth.

that's so cool that she's a doc! Yeah we each have one and plan to have at least one more together but no rush there...maybe in a year or so. we wanna have some FUN first lol...oh most definitely! you know, they say when you are married you need to hang out with other married couples as opposed to hanging with single people

Wonderful post MrTee12!

Something that I would like to add in terms of my own experience (and from a female USC viewpoint) is that there might be problems in regards to the trials and challenges of the K1 visa process, particularly for male beneficiaries. The fact that the K1 visa holder cannot work is frustrating enough, but for a Latino male who is hardworking and used to working for a living it can be an emasculating experience. Therefore, I would advise the female petitioners to make sure to enroll their fiances in school, ESL classes, activities (gym and social sports clubs), house projects, etc. that will make their fiances feel occupied, useful, and needed.

Best wishes!

so true sis!! he was just asking me..what am I going to do while you're at work?? I think library....gym..ESL classes to meet others...errands...job researching....all good ways to pass the time. but you are right...for a Latino male...muy deficil

Yes it only took 3 months for her (which is a really good time). Many couples wait up 5 months. The AOS process can be another frustrating "waiting period"; just this time you have your "love" by your side. The most difficult part was her not working and/or studying for 6 months. Once she arrived we waited and planned a small wedding just before the 90 day time limit. We filed for AOS a week after our wedding. She was so tired of staying home (while I worked) and she wanted to contribute and help out financially and not bore herself too much. Although, she talked to her family everyday, cleaned, and made plans for us, it was still hard. Just communicate with your husband and open his eyes up to this reality of "waiting again". Just find time for each other after work and keep his spirits up.

Note: Many cases, the filer will receive their work authorization card 1-2 month before Green Card, so he can work until he gets his green card.

Thanks for this insight.... you nailed it. we just have to understand that waiting is unavoidable and make the best of it. then the opportunities will be there!!!

For me an my wife we have experienced both acceptance and rejection

My Wife:

Her family and most close friends are completely supportive though she lost a couple of friends for falling in love with a "Yank". Her children have adopted me and treat me as if I had always been in there life, and they are teens.

Me:

I was raised by adopted parents that later split up themselves, My "Father" is tolerant to our face but hasn't shown any true acceptance of my wife, and my "Mother" has dis owned me. Two of my "Sisters" are very stand offish, one has embraced you with open arms, and one has also dis-owned me and we no longer speak and I don't think that will ever change she also was publicly rude and talked a lot of trash to the rest of the family. My birth "Mother's" family has embraced my wife as one of the family and love her as much as they love me.

lesson learned .... those that love you will also love your chosen partner, those that don't will use it as an excuse to show there true colors.

Beautiful synopsis....a great learning experience to say the least. Time will tell how this will all unfold....but Aztec & Taino said it best...who really cares what everyone else thinks? Support or move on....I only have to come home everyday to my hubby and child(ren). Awww but too bad you're whole family responded that way....love should be more important than opinion.....live and let live!!!

I can relate to most of you. I have had a very similar response from my family. They think he only wants a visa but they havent even taken the time to meet him or learn anything about him. My sister and I had some issues becasue of him but so far it has been settled on my part. I wasnt there when they had their issue/confrontation so I am not getting in the middle.

Most Dominicans are very skeptical of this process they think people only want the green card so I just ignore it. I have seen some very successful marriages come out of these situation within my family adn friends as well as some disastrous ones. In ever relationship there are risks but with great risks come great rewards. Don't let anybody doubt you. Your friends should let you know how they feel but support you anyways. That's what friends do!!

Sannybel, you've said it best!!!

My wife is a bit upset all her friends back in the Philippines don't want to talk to her anymore, except for the few that want her to find "Kano" boyfriends for them. Her family, well she hears from more distant relatives that wouldn't give her the time of day before, asking for this or that, or to "share the wealth". Now she is afraid to go back lest she be robbed blind the minute she gets off the plane.

damn shame the way some people get greedy and want to take advantage...

i'm thinking about some situations I have been through and it got me to thinking for f*cking arguments sake...how many people hate your situation with your international love? Better yet, have you severed any relationships because you're going through this Visa process that you never expected to go through??

To date, I have gained support from all of my family (which I wasn't expecting), and tension has developed with two of my friends although it's not just the visa process...the other factor is that some bitches just can't stand to see you happy!!! let me know what you guys are going through....

I can share my experiences....I have been the poster child of what the USCIS system claims as status quo. While they warn you that their texting/emailing feature is still new and piloting....I received the text/email at the same time about a week before any hard copies came and this has consistently happened with each NOA and when santo domingo received my case. Every time I checked the case status on USCIS it was accurate...i would say if ever in doubt...call the Visa Specialist..dept of state in D.C. and get case updates after you get that NOA2. that wait can be tough and you'll drive yourself to drinks. but try to keep urself sane until u get the NOA2...thats when the real anxiety sets in we are forever waiting...waiting for the NOAs...waiting for the Cita...waiting in line at the embassy...waiting for the via from Domex..waiting for the wedding date...waiting for the green card....sheesh!!!

Good luck Saylin and best wishes on hearing the magical 3 words--> YOU ARE APPROVED!!!

I agree with Aztec @ Taino. The standard processing time from NOA2 to Interview Date is 3 months. However, its not set in stone. Check the timelines and see how other members' cases are going.

Question Mr. Tee...im looking at your timeline...curious....so it took 3 months for you to get your green card for the wifey after AOS? wow i dont even know the process of AOS and all of that yet..my next step after this 1st interview and immigration is to starting educating myself on AOS ...soc sec filing...work authorization temporary etc....this is a lifestyle!!!

mine was 3 months.....u can find out the date a lot sooner though.....keep buggin the Visa Specialists....i'd LOVE to be a Visa Specialist just taking phone calls and making peoples day!!!!! hmmmmmm

The K1 Visa in total can cost up to $1805.

http://www.visajourney.com/content/compare

The first fee you pay is only for the petition (I-129f). -> $340

http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/menuitem.eb1d4c2a3e5b9ac89243c6a7543f6d1a/?vgnextoid=b1ae408b1c4b3210VgnVCM100000b92ca60aRCRD&vgnextchannel=b1ae408b1c4b3210VgnVCM100000b92ca60aRCRD

After the petition is approved and your fiancee gets her Interview Letter, you will be sent a packet containing a letter for a her Medical Exam Appointment. Cost of Medical Exam & Vaccinations -> $180 + Vaccinations (up to $330)

http://santodomingo.usembassy.gov/examination-vaccines-e.html

Third Fee is for K1 Visa and its paid in Two (2) parts. You pay Banco Popular $140 + $15 + taxes before the interview. Then you pay $220 + taxes at the Embassy in the day of interview.

http://santodomingo.usembassy.gov/k1-k2_instructions.html

Fourth Fee is to be paid to DOMEX courier service (after receiving visa approval). Cost $9.50-$12.

Note: This is an expensive process. You will spend even more money when you do Adjustment of Status after marriage. ($1,010)

Many couples will choose to do CR1 visa (marriage visa) because its just as fast the K1 process and its almost $1,000 cheaper.

http://www.visajourney.com/content/compare

damnnnnn Mr Tee when you break it down like that it makes me feel hella stupid for not researching in advance and doing the Marriage Visa...that AOS is a killer!!

and Azteca i love "Surprise"....cuz they sure do surprise you with all these damn fees...as if we aren't depressed enough by our phone bills and expensive int'l trips.....sheesh

oh snap!! lol excuse my ignorance hehehe. sounds tasty. well c'mon June interviewees...stop being shy and step into the limelight...or yall in the dark better start calling the Visa Specialists so you know your status lol....

That would be great if you guys got together to celebrate your journey in Santo Domingo!

Drink a Brugal or a Presidente for me!

Wouldn't it??! What's a brugal? i need to find out...i'll definitely take a Presidente on your behalf