Shenzhen

Find a new sponsor, but I don't know how true this is I also read Manila doesn't like co-sponsors. This is just from what I read.

You should be happy not pissed off! They need the updated documents for the visa well I guess you don't have to get them and just forget about immigrating to the greatest nation on earth!

So this woman, who was carrying on with a relationship with another man, while she's planning to marry another, you want this woman? Good luck with that; maybe you'll be left on the curb like the last man.

I filed in 06 that one failed did not find out until 07 so I withdrew it. I filed again Feb 09 and cancelled that one in August. The first one told me she failed the interview, but would not tell me anything beyond that. I thought it was dead at that stage. The 2nd one was just after money. The first 2 were from the Philippines. I signed up with blossoms.com and started looking in China. I have been scrutinized and had to hire a lawyer this time. Now I am married we are finally have our interview next month after 16 months of waiting. I was in too big a hurry and that cost me more time and money than was necessary. The 3rd time was the charm so far. I just can't wait for her to get here. Good luck I would think long and hard on this before you do anything.

I agree with you on this! This guy should go STFU!
I am literally at the end of my Journey after more than 16 months of waiting we are finally almost done at the NVC literally with in a week of getting out of there and now this happens! I am ready to scream!

You have got to be kidding me? I met my wife and got married in 2009. 8.5 months at USCIS and now more 3.5 months at the NVC LOL! And just yesterday they approved my Affidavit of Support wooo hooo now I have to wait another few weeks just for the DS-230. Sorry uou are clueless about about waiting!

Well I would say he/her planned on using this other Gentleman for his, money to apply and get her a visa, a plane ticket to the U.S. I believe she ditched him at the airport by telling him she wasn't coming here or something like it. I doubt he just didn't show up, she made him not show up. Either he found her out or she said something to the effect she wasn't coming after he bought her the ticket. The whole story smells...
Anyway I am surprised he didn't like your idea of marrying her here and then applying for a CR1 not a bad idea. Seems like those 2 are made for each other. The first guy is going to get the same scrutiny I am after her shenanigans. One of the red flags is why if you can't afford to travel or can't travel, are you even on an international dating web site?