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hi guys!

i am so stress out lately about i go about to get my ex-huband to get serve since he is out of country. Before i filed divorce i had notified USCIS once. And when i filed divorce, i had notified USCIS again and state that he want to use me for green card. But i did not notified ICE. Anyway, i hired a divorce to do the job for me. At first the sent to divorce paper to the address that i gave them but found out that the packet return back. Then i found out from a friend that he went to his country i wasn't sure whether he goes for visit or plan to live there because we never contact each other. So the lawyer sent to packet again to his country. But nothing got back whether he receive it or not. The court date keep on reschedule month after month and I hate it. Now the lawyer has no other to get him so he ask me to find a constable to go to his house in his country to get him serve. For me, i am usc and i lived all my life and i have no idea to go about it. Also i feel that this is the lawyer job to hunt for him and get him serve not me. The lawyer say if advertise, it is going to be expensive. i am lost now. i hired him to do the work and now they ask me to do the work instead.

my question what i should do now, i was thinking contact the ICE, he come back to US. they will notify me and have him serve here. i am sure he will come back to U.s because he only have conditional green card. He been out of country for 5 months now. If he is out over 6 months, will he be out of status?

hi guys

please help out! my husband left me to go back to Cambodia. i wasn't sure if he just visit there or plan to live there since we never contact. but i know he is now live in Cambodia. I plan to divorce him. the lawyer had sent a divorce packet to cambodia but somehow it's never return. So now the lawyer want to do advertise in order to let him served. my question is which newspaper is appropriate for advertise in Cambodia.

thanks

thanks guys for reply. Since he cannot pick up the packet here, my lawyer is now plan to sent the packet to his country. So i don't know how that goes. I have no idea whether he went back to his country just for a visit or he plan he lived there. WE have no contact he just left after i gave birth. If he still not response to the packet i don't know what the lawyer do. we have a child together, i don't know how the child support go if he lived in his country.

Hi guys!

I petition my husband last year. after he came to the state, he left me to lived with his sister in another states. Now I had a child and he does not want come back to live with me and take care the baby. So i had filed a divorce. The lawyer had sent a packet to him but he does not pick up the packet. Instead he went back to his country. I wasn't sure if he goes to his country just for a visit or he try to escape from the problem for now and come back to u.S later. How do i go about get divorce finale since he is not here. Before i filed a divorce i had wrote a letter to uscis stating this could be a fraud marriage.

Right now he is only 2 years green card. How is it going to effect his status? Can he claim that he is marry in good faith, because we do income tax together? i had spoke to lawyer, if he does not pick up the packet they may do advertise. please help out if someone know this situation from the previous post or from past experience. thanks

guys!

i want to ask question. i plan to divorce but at the same i would like to report to uscis that i suspicious a fraud marriage. So which one should i do first. Report to uscis or ICE before filed divorce or Filed divorce first then report. need advice or those who has experience. thanks

i don't think you should jump to divorce/deporting him or thinking so badly of your husband, He is probably putting his education first, Without an education he cannot provide for you and the baby. That may be the type of man he is.

If it is as bad as you think then it is better to have him adjust his status and get his education here. Why? Because if he has a job here then you can divorce him which could go in your favor of him paying for you once he gets a job and he has to pay child support. wrongfully or even righteously deport him and your on your own and have made enemies with his family. The amount of money he could make here is worth more unless he is working in the UK for pounds possibly.

life is alot safer when people arent hostile towards you.

Im hoping HERE is the USA.

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thnks for advices, now i found out the reason he doesn't want to come back. He said life in my state is bored. He has no fun like he in states he lived now. I feel that he is abandon me and the baby. in the beginning he just want to use me so he can come here to the state. When he come here all he does is travel state to state. When i was pregnant he ask me to have an abortion which mean he does not want to take responsiblity. After he got green card he left me to lived with his family in another states saying he goes to study. Now i know his true color. He just want to have fun. When i go check his facebook he never mention about me or post my picture with him together. Is this call love? I been having enough of him. I been having so much emotion pain through out my pregnancy and now i to raised the child by myself while he has fun in another state. I heard from friend over here saying he has girl, i wasn't sure if this true.

Now, now i made a decision. i need to move on with my life.

hi,

i had the same story as you. my husband came here a year ago thru K1 now he had GC. So when i first met him in his country he said it is ok to have kids. But when i was pregnant after we married he asked me to have an abortion. I was so mad at him and i didn't do it. After a fews months later, he does to school in another state and live with his mom. During my pregancy he only come once to visit me just to do an joint income tax. Then after i gave birth, he come to visit for only a month and he make copy of the child birth certicate and ssi. I don't know what his plan.

About his school, he only take one class per semester since he does not receive financial aid yet. he reason he goes to school there because they accept his degree from his country. So now his in a Master degree. I don't know how long he is going to finish since he take only one class. He told me he will transfer here after he took a few classes. I don't know if i can trust him. a couple year maybe? Since he goes to school there, he had driver license and is now a resident there. I told him there could be a red flag when the time for removal condition. But does not listen to me. He said he could show them a child birth certicate.

Since he told me to have an abortion, i feel that he does not love me. I feel that he is not a real man. I understand when he said he does not have job but i have job. i told him when the baby born or grow up in a couple you will have a job. I feel that if he a responsible man, he will find a job, any job, and go to school here to be close to the wife and the kid. But i feel he does not accept the fact that he is a husband and a father.

If he just take one two semester off from school to be with me, I would not mad him. But he doesn't. this is tell me that he never care and love me. He only think about himself.

Now i had too take care a baby by myself and it is not easy. I feel so stress out. I am not stress out about the baby but i am stress out about him. He hurt my feeling so much over and over.

I am planning to divorce him and maybe report to ICE he does not come back and live with me. what do you guy think?

thanks guys!

Was it possible if i want to deport him? should i report to the uscis that my situation could be a fraud. I want the uscis givee him some kind of warning that what he did was wrong. If he receive a uscis notice, he probably getting scare and will come back to live with me. If he come back,i will try to work thing out. But if thing not work out, it is up to the uscis.

how do i go report or deport him?

Hi guys!

I am in a tough situation and need your advice. MY husband came almost a year ago thru K1. Now he got two year of green card. after he came for only couple months, he goes live with his family in another state so he can go to school there since they accept his degree from his country. So i guess he is now a resident there since he has a driver license and everything. What I hate is that when I was pregnant he came only once to see me. When I gave birth, he is only stay for a month and he left. I asked him to take a least 1 or two semester from school to stay with me and baby but he doesn't even bother. He keep saying he will take a few more classes then transfter back here where i lived. I don't understand what kind of man he is? I don't know if i should trust him? I want him to come here and take school here to be with me and the baby. I was thinking i should divorce him since he doesn't care about helping raising his own child. if i want to divorce him, how do i go about it? or should i wait until two year and not filed paperwork? my marriage is not a year yet, can i do annulment?

Another issue i am afraid is that he could get a lawyer saying that i don't treat him right that why he move to lived with his family in another state.

But the fact is a husband and a wife should lived together right? since we lived separate from each other, i feel our relationship is getting worse.

The fact that he lived away from me is RED FlAG already, he does not care. So i don't know what to do, i am so stress out. Please, you guys help out!