princess_rosaria

There was mention that your husband may become very violent when you take action against him. Be prepared for that. I think it is also possible that he may try to apologize you, schmooze you, or do any other thing to persuade you to help him if he really wants to stay in the US and knows he needs you to do say. I can't say much without knowing the circumstances, but if he does desperately try to make up, be careful. I'm not saying that you should disregard any apologies out of hand, as they may well be sincere, but there is a BIG chance that a manipulative person will try to use fake apologies to his advantage. You need a lot of discernment and help from others in any case. I hope you have good friends who can help you. If not, find some!

Yes, he has tried every trick in the book to get me to do this paperwork for him to get his greencard so I have no question or doubts about him just using me to relocate over here in the Western world. He is a complete scam artist and he gave me the children to try to make our marriage appear legitamate. He had studied the immigration laws for a bonafide marriage for years. So, I wish I knew back then what I know now. You live, you learn.....

What do you mean by proving otherwise? I do not understand. Yes 4 years later and twins later I realize he was a liar. He did not show his true colors until he stepped foot on American soil. It was then I found out that he was flaky. People always get what they want out of people before they act up/lash out and since I did not want to give him all of what he wanted he went crazy.

I came on here seeking advice because I am in a very serious situation and I appreciate the useful comments. I am glad you told me not to get the passport for my girls because he had told me to get them a few months ago. So, I thoughht about him applying for a new one if he figured he could do that and then I opted out. I do not trust him at all and I know he is capable of pulling off any kind of sick stunt at any given moment.

With all of the things he has said to me I realize that the only option I have left is to file for the divorce and an Emergency Protection Order. He has threatened my life as of two days back. Therefore, I will hire an attorney tomorrow and go to the courthouse first thing in the morning to get this stuff taken care of soon. I am afraid he is going to hurt someone because he is mentally unstable and abusive. At the same time I am not sure he would not do other unnatural things to my children because he is not a normal father.

Ok, do I need a protective order for the twins too? Thank you so much this was very useful.

I have a major dilemma my husband came over on a K3 visa and he has not filed adjustment of status yet because I found out he was evil when he arrived. He basically used me for getting over here and now I want out of the relationship. He got here 4 months ago and we have a set of twins together and we have been married for four years. I am a Mexican born US citizen and I have been a citizen for 5 years now. I brought him over after I got my citizenship. I want to know what I can do to get him sent back to his country. He is from Turkey. He is threatening to take the twins with him to turkey if I do not get him his green car status but I do not want to be married to him any longer as he is mentally abusive and he is unstable. What are my options. Please reply as I am in very desperate need because my daughters are only 2 years old. My husband is wanting them to move to Turkey with him but I want them to be with me because my family is all in Mexico and Turkey is too far for them to travel to see them. What are his rights and mine? What should I do? What would you do?