pinkish

First were are they going to get married and what city. In what ever city they get married they need to go to the city hall civil registry.

they plan to get married in Manila. but my friend hometown in Pangasinan, she ask me if it's possible to apply their marriage license in Manila since my friend is staying there now? any idea? thanks

As much as we would like to provide information about Filipino-Spanish marriage but, I believe; Majority of the people here re more familiar with Filipino-American marriages. However, the best thing for your friend to do is to go to the Spanish Embassy and start gathering information from their office.

Details below..

Spanish Embassy in Philippines

5th floor, A.C.T. Tower

135, Sen. Gil J. Puyat Av

Makati, Metro Manila

Tel: 818 55 26

Fax: 810 28 85

Email: embespph@mail.mae.es

thanks for the info.

Good day, I want to ask about the proper way on how to obtain marriage license my friend ask me about it. she has a spanish fiancee and they are planning to get married next month but they are both clueless about what do they need to prepare? any idea about how and what documents they need to prepare? I hope someone can share or give any info's hopefully asap. thanks in advance

@ Tahoma it's ok,forget about it anyway let's go back to the main real topic would love to know your love stories, feel free to share with us. Goodluck and Godbless

@ Daruma thanks also wish you all the best too. would love to know if you also share your love story when and where did you meet and how was your journey ?

@ adiian your lucky, you have found the real one. wish you all the best in life

Best of luck and God bless us on our journey

Hi again Pinkish...I'm sorry if you misunderstood me. All I am trying to say is...if you ever decide to take your own visa journey, I hope to see you back here on VJ to share it with the good people here. This forum can be a good place for beginners to get information on the visa process, and also a good place for those who have been through the process to share their knowledge with others who are just starting their journey. Peace out...

yeah but as what your previous post you said " Maybe we will see you two here on VJ when you get serious about each other!" so better make your post directly not indirect because somehow your post be misinterpreted.

my time is precious, but surely i will definitely comeback here to share my experiences and knowledge about my journey. Goodluck and Godbless Everyone.

Me too Pinkish... ...Our best wishes to you and your boyfriend!

Maybe we will see you two here on VJ when you get serious about each other!

Thanks! but he can't come here online, as he was a very busy guy, he just come online to talk and chat with me and no time to roam around the net, that's why he ask me to search over the net to check for possible answer to his concern about his future plans for us.

and as what you have said, that you can see us being serious with each other when the two of us will be here, i strongly disagree, it's not a basis to any relationship how serious you are if you can't come online here on vj, it's really lame or shallow reason, and i can't come online as often here since i am busy too, their is a lot of things to be busy about it's just that i came across here and see what are the things that we can get ideas and info's that's it. but to make it clear this is not the basis on how a relationship built. our life is not revolve here it is between the two of us, not on any forums.

You make a good point, El Buscador.

Hmmm...I wonder what type of commitment pinkish and her boyfriend have made to each other.

Hmmm...I wonder if they have both agreed to an exclusive relationship.

Hmmm... I wonder if they have actually said the words, instead of assuming things.

Hmmm...I wonder if pinkish is in too much of a hurry.

Hmmm...

Pinkish?!?

To answer your question, we are on a committed exclusive relationship, i know i am just made my over acted reaction here, i know it's not proper to post those things and it made many people to judge me the way i posted my 2nd question.

but anyway those are only one major "tampuhan" we had with my bf eversince and it's just only a small stuff" and thank God because we learn a lot of things from what happen and we learn to compromise things, now he learn to send me email every 2 hours, he called me everyday, everything change from what happen and he is more now willing to do the things that even sometimes it made him at his inconvenience. im not the only one who meet my bf from an online dating i've known a lot of people who meet his fiance boyfriend or better half on online dating site, some has their success stories some also has their worst nightmare stories and it's not about how long or how short you are in a relationship it is how you will handle and pursue your love for each other.

I am not here to ask for a dating advice, i am here to ask for a relationship advice wherein some members have experience the same situation or similar or maybe happen to her/him before. my general concern here is to share your experience about your foreign bf.fiancee husband your stories as what my original post is supposed to be, i only made a mistake on my 2nd post that mislead to the original topic my apology...

thanks to all the people who send their personal message, and i really appreciate your non judgemental advice, i won't mention you one by one but you know who you are and to the one and only person who made a sarcastic message thank you also as i cannot please everyone here. may God bless you all and Goodluck to all your journey.

@to Godsgift you are truly a godsgift to me..thanks for the friendship God bless you

I'm the loving kano hubby and my wife is a malambing Pinay. When we were getting to know one another, we talked every day, at least twice a day...every day. It was the same way when we were engaged, all the way until we were finally together again. If we did not talk cam2cam, we would talk by phone...every day! I think you will find that most couples here in the Philippines forum were in contact with each other each and every day while they were apart.

If your kano boyfriend truly cared for you, he would behave like a sweetheart and he would stay in touch with you on a regular basis, because this is what good boyfriends do...including kanos. I hope he is not making excuses about kanos being "independent" and "not that sweet" and I hope you are not trying to rationalize his behavior...or should I say...his misbehavior.

I would be very careful with this guy. If he is not sweet and dependable and consistent today, why would he change in the future? You deserve a guy who makes you feel special and you should never settle for second best. If you are not getting the lambing you need, maybe it's time you moved on.

Best wishes...

~ Tahoma

very well said tahoma, I appreciate your inputs about this matter, that's why i brought up this topic to know more about how westerner" american guy act and how do they show their love, my american bf told me that he loves me a lot and i beleive him because that's the only thing that i can give to him to continue our relationship since we haven't meet yet, i meet him in an online dating site, wherein he was the first one who emailed me many times, among all the guys who wrote me an email he was the only one who is eager and persistent to contact me many times, so i give him a chance and that was the start everyday he keep on chatting with me and sending me emails. but until now he never ask me for my number, so i did not question that and beg him to get my number, maybe for him no need since we chat and talk everyday.

but last saturday and yesterday, which is sunday, i never heard from him, so i was a bit worried why he never send me email via his blackberry mobile phone, i know he can't come online to chat and talk with me since he told me eversince that saturday and sunda is his time for his daughter. so i believe and understand him. but he can always send me email, so through saturday and sunday that no email is a big question for me, why he never emailed me, so i waited for him but still no email from him, so i decided to send him email to ask him if he's ok, then he replied me just today it's monday here in Phil, and sunday there here's what he told me on his message just wanna share

Hi im good.. iIt is now sunday evening 3pm i am going to go to work for a few hour tonight

i need to make extra money now, so i can save to come see you. I want to talk to you yesterday

but my aunt was here visiting and she was online all night. so sorry maybe i will talk tonight ok

I understand him, but somehow at the back of my mind, is it hard to send email via your phone, 2 minutes of his time is not that hard to do? hope am right? i did not reply him until now cause im still sad and confused, i am just so upset about what's going on, that's why im here to ask some questions insights or your opinion so you can help me figured out especially those who are american"kano guys i know it depends on the upbringing but still your comment is important to me. thanks and Godbless everyone

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It's better if you can share your story with us, better than your dot.dot.dot........

I dont know if i am on the thread (i hope i am) but to those Visa Journey Member who has a present foreigner hubby/fiance/boyfriend, how do you deal with them?

Can you state the nationality of your significant other and hope you can share it with us what are those adjustments that you did to make the relationship work, e.g. sa food, culture, personality, money matters, religion, etc...basta anything.

your stories is important would be nice to get some inspiration, ideas like when and where did you meet? how did it start? like mine, I have a foreign BF, he is American guy, she was my first foreign bf, so i am still learning about him, are they born so independent and not that sweet, when it comes to texting calling not that often, and so on..

I need to know if it's possible to obtain or get my police clearance for US Visa application if i had some cc defaulted issues in the UAE? kindly enlighten me. I don't want to encounter any problem in the near future.

Hope someone can give his/her insights and info about this matter. thanks in advance. God Bless

same situation 2 months pa lang kami nagkakilala din now may plan na sya pumunta dito PI, now he's asking me to gather information about how he can get me there, kaya ako nag sign up dito para makakuha ng info, kasi wala kami idea pareho, any advice if possible na before sya pumunta dito to meet me, kumuha na sya ng form or di pa pwede? need pa namin mag meet for the first time din saka nya umpisahan ang pag file ng visa?

any suggestion comment mga sis? thanks in advance. God Bless Everyone