PC hat on:
It's for better for worse, stick with her and help her..blah blah
Gowon hat on:
Drop kick her to the curb, file for divorce.
Be open to assist her once she's on the straight since she did help you at some point.
This kind of person, in my opinion and based on experience, will drag you down.
I do not envy your position.
I havn't been on this website in so long. When I can remember going on this site mutiple times a day for a year while going through the k-1 process. I'm very thankful my husband Nattoy made it to this country and has been a better man for me than I could have ever imagined. He got a great job and mine is ok for now. We started out living with friends and now have our own apartment and continue to build our lives together. Things are not always easy as I had to be patient with him as he relied on me to show him the ropes. Sometimes I would get upset that he didn't know something. LOL Which is why I learned to be patient and understanding to someone in America for the first time. He is very smart and has come a long way. We even argued quit a bit after about 8 months of him being here, married life is a whole different ball game, but learning and growing in our relationship has brought us to a point where we treat each other respectfully for the most part. We have both givin each other many lessons and a richer life. I feel the love he has for me and am very greatful. Without this website I wouldn't have beable to do it. We will be married a year April 30th. I feel I've found a diamond in the rough:) Maybe some kids in a few years :)
For anyone affraid in the process,if your willing to do the work, and your motives are good and right, God will take care of the rest.
Gary:
Thanks for sharing your info.
It still makes little or no sense as to why we have to submit this information again for the second time and go and get another biometric done! Seriously. Think about it, if it was a scam or a fraud and they were doing their job right the first time then why do we all have to do it all again in 2 years, typical waste of time and money and once again the federal government agency trying to justify it's existence by creating more busy paperwork and procedures that are more for show and do damn little to stop immigration fraud, just a waste of taxpayer money. AND we have to submit an inordinate amount of this ####### again for a 3rd time and pay another ridiculous fee again and go do another biometric again for citizenship. Bunch of jackoffs in the federal government if you ask me. For example I asked a USCIS worker 2 yrs ago that I knew "Why do we have to get a biometric done everytime if you already have it all the first time" Well I was told because of the background Interpol, FBI, NSA, or state police security check has to be done with new picture and fingerprints due to FBI requiring it if it is more than 15 months old. Which I then pointed out, ok so you say but then it is going to be less than 12 months when we apply for US citizenship next year! So why do we have to do it a 3rd time for biometrics, well I got a deer in the headlights look and no real reason, just that is the way the agency is type stuff.
As for the Ukraine dual citizenship stuff, I could have told you that, USA does not care and neither does Ukraine(they have no clue anyway and neither does the USA). There is really no such thing as dual citizenship other than the fact that most countries just recognize their own passports like you said, and I would highly recommend that your wife keep her Ukrainian citizenship or passports(local and international) and renew them, will make life much easier for her if she has property or apartments or parents inheritance or property in her maiden Ukrainian name, cause that is all they are going to look at in Ukraine, speaking from experience. If you have citizenship in Ukraine, that is a first, never heard of American going and getting that, but sounds interesting if you did.
