ghanalove1

There is no stupid questions, please be helpful or just don't post!

to the O.P, talk about it with your OH, see what both of you can afford, there's no need to strain if your OH can help out

Thank You!

I understand. It’s normal for us “Americans” (LOL) to think along those lines. One thing I have learned from this whole entire process is that money means nothing when it comes to happiness. Just imagine for one second what it’s like to live in Ghana and have to worry about things that would never even cross our minds. For example, you say you’re moving and buying a new car therefore you feel overwhelmed with all the money being spent…geez, someone from Ghana would be thrilled if they had those problems! Get my point?? Again, I hope I shed some light. Keep focused and stay positive.

I know! I feel so greedy at times! That many of us Americans are guilty of me included But I know that my happiness and his are the most important things. And putting things in perspective he has never once asked me for money! The least I could do is help him with the process. As a previous poster mentioned it's all because of me that he is coming here! So why not pay!

It's really not a stupid question...it's a natural concern, and she's looking for honest, humble answers....not looking to hear "how can you ask such a stupid question" ~ thanks.

Thank you I don;t believe my question was stupid. It is an honest concern of mine. I am just a bit frazzled because I am moving and buying a new car (old one engine went out) so I am seeing a lot of money going out. It just kind of frazzled me. However I know that this is just temporary and that with me getting him here that it will be better because we can work together as a husband and wife unit and achieve our goals. I just need to hear what others are doing. As this process is a little overwhelming for me. I know things will work out but I am just stressed but this is not permanent and everything will be ok!

Thanks!

It's really not a stupid question...it's a natural concern, and she's looking for honest, humble answers....not looking to hear "how can you ask such a stupid question" ~ thanks.

Thanks so much! It is an honest concern. Just need to see/hear what other people are doing. I just feel kind of overwhelmed by this whole process. I think because I am moving and buying a new car (my old one needs a new engine) that I am just seeing so much money going out that it kind of frazzled me. If you can understand what I am saying. However, after reading everybody's posts I know that this is just temporary and that with him being here and us working together things will be fine. I just needed some support and other outlooks on this situation.

The way I look at it, its an investment to my and my fiance's future. Its not just a financial one, its an emotional one. You can make it in this world a lot easier with two people working together. And having someone to wake up to every morning is definitely a plus!

That's very true! I need to stop looking at what is happening now but what will be happening in the future when we both will be able to work together to achieve goals.

But if your fiance/spouse just didn't have the money to pay the fees it's such a burden. I hate to say this but the person feels like a financial burden to you. I know it's just money but sometimes it can be so hard when you have other things going on too. It's just another hurdle in this immigration process.

i personally paid for my husband. to me the money isnt not important because it means i will get to have him here with me by my side.i see it as the price ive paid for travel to and from colombia over the years its alot less to just pay immigration.

That's true! I understand. Money is not everything. I have to keep reminding myself of that. And that this is just one of the other hurdles in process.

I was just wondering if I was wrong to feel strain for having to pay the fees? Because my financial situation is straining a bit too. I feel bad saying this but feels like a financial burden at times :-(

Im literally missung my husband im at my breaking point where Im literally craving for him I cant take the wait I need soneone to talk to

Awww I'm sorry! Can you go visit him sometime soon?

Question: Who do you think should be responsible for paying all the fees for the immigration process? We all know that they can be expensive and add up. But I know that many of our spouses/fiances come from poor countries. Is it fair for the spouse that comes from a more well to do area pay or how would you do it?

Question: Who do you think should be responsible for paying all the fees for the immigration process? We all know that they can be expensive and add up. But I know that many of our spouses/fiances come from poor countries. Is it fair for the spouse that comes from a more well to do area pay or how would you do it?

I would suggest not letting the amount of time it could take be the determining factor. People seem to shy away from the CR1 because they're told it takes longer. In reality it may not be that much longer than the K1. According to the comparison guide, the K1 averages 7.5 months while the CR1 averages 9 months. Our CR1 process took 7 months. The time it takes depends on the case. There are some K1s that took longer than my CR1.

My choice to go with the CR1 was less about how long it would take and more about what privileges my husband would have upon his arrival. For me, an extra month's wait wasn't too bad if it meant he could travel/work/drive immediately. Think about what's more important to you and more beneficial to your situation.

You're so right! I'm been so fixated on how long it will take and possibly planning for a wedding. I hadn't thought much about the other benefits and things that would be important and needed once he arrives.

The K3 has been slowly eliminated from most consular’s, because the K3 takes the same amount of time as the CR1 now.

K3-ia multiple entry visa for up to 2 years without a Green Card. No work privileges.

CR1- Green Card, with all LPR privileges.

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LPR Privileges? Please explain. Thanks in advance!

Forget the K3, it is not easily available from most consulars. With the CR1(spouse visa) the AOS is done before the visa is issued, which gives you a green card availability upon entery into the US.

I read that the K3 was created to get your spouse here faster. Can you tell me the major differences?

Thanks!

You realize that the wedding would need to take place before you file for the CR1 visa, after it is approved 9 to 12 months later then you would be looking at a reception in Jamaica. So,what are you going to do about your K1 application that is already in the pipeline?

I haven't started any process yet. I still have to decide before I go to Ghana in about a month.

She stated in an earlier post that she has yet to start the process and she's trying to figure out which will be best for her.

Thanks! I did.

Definitely consider getting married in Ghana and apply for spousal visa if you have a desire to travel without waiting. I got married in Dominican Republic. My husband first entered the US on November 2 and we flew to Jamaica 2 days later.

I am considering that. Would both a k3 and CR1 Let him travel as soon as he arrives in the U.S.?

Definitely consider getting married in Ghana and apply for spousal visa if you have a desire to travel without waiting. I got married in Dominican Republic. My husband first entered the US on November 2 and we flew to Jamaica 2 days later.

Oh that's awesome! That sounds like a way I may go as well. Yes! We want to do some traveling soon! So a wedding in Ghana and a reception party in Jamaica seems like it may be the plan!

Just be careful that you stay on US soil: http://www.visajourney.com/faq/k1k2visa-enter.html#5.12

Thanks! I will do! I think a wedding here and reception in Jamaica may be the way I will go!

Get married in the Us,then a couple years later have a re-newal of the vows in Jamaica.

Family can have their vacation then.

I'm thinking of getting married in Ghana and when he finally arrives have a reception/party/vacation in Jamaica. That is an option as well. Even though I really wanted to get married in Jamaica. I can compromise.

I don't know if you had your heart set on Jamaica in the Caribbean particularly, but another option is to get married at a courthouse in the US and then have you wedding ceremony, reception and vacation somewhere else. Because of Visa situations my wife and I did not get legally married at our wedding celebration.

If you went the K-1 route you wouldn't be able to go to Jamaica because your fiancee/spouse won't be allowed to leave the US. But Puerto Rico, Guam, U.S. Virgin Islands and Hawaii are all part of the US if that's the atmosphere you are going for.

The Virgin Islands. That never crossed my mind. That is a very good idea! So, because the V.I. are apart of the U.S. We can get married there and have no problems with coming back and etc. That's a great idea!

Exactly! There's nothing stopping you from doing that.

Well I may consider that then! That would be nice!

You can get married in Jamaica. You just can't do it using the K-1 visa. If you were set on that locale, you should have taken it into consideration before going through the process.

I have yet to start the process yet. That's why I'm trying to figure out what is best.

You can get married in Jamaica. You just can't do it using the K-1 visa. If you were set on that locale, you should have taken it into consideration before going through the process.

So are you saying he can travel to Jamaica and we can get married there? He goes back to Ghana and we apply for the Spousal visa?

Why, the US have lovely beaches aswell.

You're right there are many lovely beaches in the U.S. I just wanted a vacation type destination for me and my family away from the U.S. I will not be getting married on the beach as I am Catholic and it has to be in a church. But I wanted a fun reception and vacation.

Aww man sad face :-( I really wanted a wedding in Jamaica!

I want to get married in Jamaica. My fiance is from Ghana. You don't need a visa to go to Jamaica just a passport. A have a couple of questions. 1) Would the marriage be legal here in the U.S. as far as the U.S. immigration is concerned or do we have to get married in the U.S. for the fiance visa?

2) Can you fiance travel from the U.S. then to Jamaica to get married or will he have travel restrictions because of the fiance visa?

Yes! Mensah Planning on getting married on visit in February 2012 . I'm so excited and nervous about this journey! But I know that it will all be worth it. Thanks for the advice!