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KC99

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  1. Am so sorry to hear this, if thats what she is really up to, You need to look out for yourself and be the smarter person.

    Get irrefutable evidence,(intent can be challenging to proove) talk to professionals - a PI ,lawyer, USCIS near you.Try have reliable witnesses when she reveals her intentions

    Research options as per your finances - if she ends up with 250,000USD fine for visa fraud, you dont want to be involved with that!!!

    Dont think you shld ask for a divorce just yet, perhaps thats what she is setting you up to do. Wait and accumulate evidence!!!

    She needs a LOONNGGG rope to hang herself with b4 the 90days to your 2nd anniversary.

    Even if she cant get deported, it should be possible to have her flagged so that she cant EVER naturalise and even as an LPR, all her imigrant petitions are denied!

    It might be hard to be calm and calculating while you have been so betrayed, but you have to be to protect yourself and have the last laugh!!

  2. Main man, Lagos is a very tough consulate!! If you petition has been approved, perhaps you should consider sending your fiance an affidavit explaining the omission since you said its not deliberate., maybe one from the dad of the kid to state that he is aware that child is listed as a possible derivative of a k1. She should present those if needed. The affidavit might rectify the omission .The major thing is that it does not look "fishy" to the CO who sometimes have excessive levels of suspicion. Hopefully it will be ok.

    Please consider the psychological effects that seperation and rejection will have on the child splitting her from her mum and siblings who are also your kids. A child's place is with d mother,as long as she is fit. Pls dont deprive the poor kid of that. Fatherhood goes beyond common genes, you can be the only dad she knows and loves, if you love and raise her as your own. It might not be a breeze & takes a high level of maturity which shouldn't be a problem. Your family will love and respect you for that. Good luck.

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