Ai Ye and I met online in a chat room. We talked for about 5 months. I went to china, we sparked, and married. I spent 28 days there. We traveled, spent time with her family. Now we just want to be together. I am an ex-marine, I now work for the Nat'l Park service. I've given 20 years of my life to the service of this country. I don't understand why it has to be so difficult to be with my wife:(