I think it would be better for him to find another way to stay in the country because you don't want to get hurt again and why should his
visa status be a burden on you. I know you love him and everything but I just think you are thinking with your heart. I really want him
to find another avenue of obtaining his visa because he is going for a PHD. I don't want you to be used for immigraition purposes again
because you have to learn from your previous mistake. These guys just use women for their own benefit and when they get what they
want they totally act like they don't know who you are anymore. I would advise you to leave him alone with his immigration status. I think
one time is enough to get hurt...................