SOL.Broken

I have applied for my mom who lives in canada, as such she is now with me in us, she does not need a visa a canadian, my question is:

her 130 is aproved, i am about to send in the aos, etc. if i use my address here in US vs. her Canada address, now she is living here with me, would there be an issue using my address, and what embassy she will end up going, or will this complicate things and i should just use her canadian address?? appreciate your input.

i feel dump asking, i'm applying for my mother, as ir1, i got the 130, g325a etc, going, but i am filling out the g325a to email her to print and sign and return to me.

question at the bottom of the g325a it shows applicants' name to be filled out, numbers etc. Question:::: do i fillout her name on her G325a or do I put my name as the applicant on her form,????

,, Common sense say's i put her name, but i want to make sure. thanks.

and do i put my name on my name and info on the bottom of the for my g325a???? or hers'???

Applicant:

Be sure to put your name and Alien Registration Number in the box outlined by heavy border below.

Alien Registration Number)

Complete This Box (Family Name)

(Middle Name)

First name

HELLO,, WELL , I FOUND OUT FRIDAY THE WORST NEWS OF MY LIFE,, ELENA WAS TO HAVE HER INTERVIEW IN MOSCOW ON DECEMBER 6TH, EVERYTHING WAS DONE,, FINALLY,, I FOUND OUT FRIDAY THAT SHE HAS BEEN CHEATING ON ME, AND THAT SHE GAVE ME "STD", I JUST GOT OF PHONE WITH HER,, AND SHE IS NOT SORRY AND SAID SHE IS GLAD FOR HER ACTIONS... AS IM WRITING THIS, I AM STILL IN TOTAL SHOCK,, MY QUESTION IS"WHAT WILL BE THE BEST WAY TO CANCEL EVERYTHING, VISA, INTERVIEW ETC...OUR GOVERMENT (USA) REALLY NEEDS TO KNOW ABOUT THIS WOMAN, IN CASE SHE DOES THIS AGAIN,, BRIAN

THANK YOU, I STILL CANT BELIEVE I WAS "FOOLED" FOR SO LONG,(1.5 YEARS),, SO MUCH MONEY SPENT (6 TRIPS)..AMAZING, HUH?

I too went through the same thing, except i fooled myself by bring her over to think things will be better when we are together, so now, i have filled for divorce.

you need to have a letter written with your story, notirize it, and send it to the embassy, nvc, uscs, ice. and call the embassy or email them with the informaiton. " you want to withdraw you petition ".. good luck and for all of us in this boat with smart women who want to take advange of us, good luck to us all,

I just wanted to say that i am so sorry to hear this and i hope everything will work out for you in the end i am sure it will. I will keep you in my prayers, and i wish you all the best .

AJ1

THANK YOU FOR ADVICE, I STILL CANT BELIEVE I WAS "FOOLED" FOR SO LONG,(1.5 YEARS),, SO MUCH MONEY SPENT (6 TRIPS)..AMAZING, HUH?

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Hi Im A new member here, I hope someone can give me some information.. I enter here on K1, my husband and i got divorced after more than 1 year of marriage.. My 2 yr GC will expired 2008 then i need to lift my condition... I got pregnant with my bf now and he wants to marry me, I wonder if the INS deny my application for lifting my condition alone.. what's gonna happen to me, also im gonna give birth next year and get married. Im so worried because my life is already here, my family..

This is just my oponion, 1st see a lawyer for free 1/2 hr. try to find one, that is verst in both Immigration and Family Law, there are a few around, but have to look for them.

if you want to stay with him and the kid, then remarry him, and may have him support you to file for the lifting of condition on your own, and have him around, keep pictures, etc, and you most likley are ok, specialy with having a baby, baby, baby on it's way, yahooo,

if you don't want him around, then with a lawyer, you can be set financily, and then still go the ins, and file seperatly and go to the interview, with the baby, baby, baby and you are going to be ok, Yahoo, baby baby.

You are going to be fine, just find a friend or family here you can stay with and enjoy yourself..

if yuo marry the bf, then you have start all over again, and exit us and come back.

if you carry on with existing K1, you may have a chance of getting it aproved.

i know ins, ice and all of them are currently on these cases, and part of the regulation is when you have your divorce decree, you have to send a form in, i can't rememeber the number, to declare you divroce and that you want to file seperatly on your own, otherwise you become out of status, it then it gets complicated...

WifeOHunkyJohn, Yodrakl ..

Dear member, as if you know my x, (well not yet), you speak as if you are speaking from her mouth. The issue of relationship and for two people taking a piece of themselves and give it into and for the relationship and other partner, when when it is a one way of giving, and not in the financial ways, but in the relationship itself for two people to develop trust and other needed bases for a relationship grow on, and having planted and planting seeds of life to grow together and form a family which can withstand storms of life and having the feeling of being able to lean on one another when needed to face them, weather alone or together. With our relationship we were not able to solve issues which were simple enough in my oponion in a maretial life , yet we were not able to solve issues to put them behind us, her method was to just say yes, yes, and stay quiet and not to engage in the discussions in such a way to be able to jointly see it the issues from each others point of view, inorder to fairly for both parties to agree on a solution, and put it behind them to move on and grown on ablity to solve them and become stroger. She saying yes, and she was doing the opposite of what was said yes to or no to, and she would just do what she wanted as she allways did, and ignore the issues discussed and agreed on.

anyhow, i had another post with this list shown, if you want to read on, this is a aff. of support thread.

i welcome constructive comments, not beating one another up, ablity to reason, and discuss, as i allway have done, as such. enjoy your marriage and i'm glad you are having a good married life and love your housband, and i extended my best wishes to you for hollidays and be safe and happy.

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...&hl=sg14all

SOL.Broken,

Who fooled who? Sounds to me like you're the one who is playing the 'oh poor me' game - I'd want to divorce you for pulling sh|t like this.

Was it God who taught you to be a gigolo?

Yodrak

Dear friends,

When I got married, I had all my assets liquated and kept in a separate account joint with my mother and brother. During marriage I have lost more money and have gained no money.

From Family lawyer stand point, once they get my list of assets, even though separate and not commingled with the marriage accounts nor life, the lawyer for the wife will use all they can to get all they can for the poor lady who has fooled me for all this time, as she will play the "Poor Me, I have been brought over and left out in the cold in US, oh poor me ", .....

I have not had a job since Aug 1 to date, and she has been working, ....

God shows his blessing in different ways, sometimes, these blessings costs us in order to teach us hard lessons in life.

'Yodrak' , if anyone is dumb enough to put all they earned into a marriage life that just started where the spouse does not do the same and just asks for more and more, and i loose more and more, no one can judge me, as i know i gave it all, so you are entitled to ur opnion, and i'm mine, and don't judge.

Hi there,

Has anyone taken the Express Vu to USA lately and have it up and running?

I would hate not being able to watch the Canadian news, Trailer Park Boys, Canucks, Flames, Senators, etc….

Can you still purchase the dish in Canada and watch Canadian TV in USA?

Hi there,

Has anyone taken the Express Vu to USA lately and have it up and running?

I would hate not being able to watch the Canadian news, Trailer Park Boys, Canucks, Flames, Senators, etc….

Can you still purchase the dish in Canada and watch Canadian TV in USA?

i get xpress vue in us, it is done in a kinda of private way.. i'll pm you

wheather you become a citizen or not, when crossing over to us with a car you owned prior to move to us. At the border you can go inside and fill out a form, you can find it on the web, but they have to fill it out themselves, most cases they ask you how much it is worth, you tell them a figure and they will just enter it without a question, when in states, you take that form into the dmv, and get it plated for what ever state you move into, they will charge state sales tax on the amount declared on the form, and the normal sticker fees.

I moved to michigan from canada, paid their taxes in michigan, when i moved to california, i have not yet plated the car in california, still shows michigan, as in california or when you move to a different state, they again charge you sales tax, this is not fun,

when cross try to get the price lowest possible without the officer at the boarder questioning you, they don't know any better than check the black book, so do you homework, and get a ver very low number to them to enter for your benifit, and buy them a bottle of scotch...have fun, us is taxed to death.... i thought canada was bad..LOL

Dear friends,

When I got married, I had all my assets liquated and kept in a separate account joint with my mother and brother. During marriage I have lost more money and have gained no money.

From Family lawyer stand point, once they get my list of assets, even though separate and not commingled with the marriage accounts nor life, the lawyer for the wife will use all they can to get all they can for the poor lady who has fooled me for all this time, as she will play the “Poor Me, I have been brought over and left out in the cold in US, oh poor me “, she is good looking and will be using it well with her lawyer. I offered her lawyer a one way ticket back, they offered me not file for divorce so she get’s her g.c. then she will give me my divorce, further she will sign an agreement not to have any financial claims against me. If I agree, she can later claim agreement signed under due stress and sue me anyways, so let the judge decide her share..

All information provided here from my fiends help me with understanding with different issues can arise.

I’m in California now, and California is a tough one for men, rather than women.

I have not had a job since Aug 1 to date, and she has been working, so I get lucky I can ask her for support vs. other way around, at least I hope. My lawyers' realistic assessment is " she deserves and can get ZERO, only if 1/2 of time lived together for support, and even that she will augue, since i'm out of work and she works... eventhough she can quite her job and claim... we'll see

Thanks again for all the info..

God shows his blessing in different ways, sometimes, these blessings costs us in order to teach us hard lessons in life.

Does anyone know if this is true, I have been reading some other posts, and have found some disturbing court rulings, that in fact the alien spouse, can take me to the federal court and claim 125% for remainder of her time left for the citizenship, below is a link to few of these cases I have found…

Here are links showing some of these rulings, this is scary.

http://www.ilw.com/articles/2006,0110-wheeler.shtm

http://www.ilw.com/articles/2006,0608-mehta.shtm

She entered as a CR 1 on Jan 28, 2006, were married on Dec 2, 2004, and were living separately until her entry. We have separated since Oct 31, and have filled for divorce.

So does anyone know if I can withdraw my affidavit of support? Or if I withdraw my name from the affidavit of support on file with USCIS?

letter to the USCIS where her case is filed asking to remove your name for AOS?

I have set up the Infopass meeting and want to do this right, and not miss anything, it is difficult enough with everything else going on, I don’t want to screw this up and assure to cover myself and protect myself with immigration as much as I can.

Thanks again for your thoughts…

Does anyone know if this is true, I have been reading some other posts, and have found some disturbing court rulings, that in fact the alien spouse, can take me to the federal court and claim 125% for remainder of her time left for the citizenship, below is a link to few of these cases I have found…

Here are links showing some of these rulings, this is scary.

http://www.ilw.com/articles/2006,0110-wheeler.shtm

http://www.ilw.com/articles/2006,0608-mehta.shtm

She entered as a CR 1 on Jan 28, 2006, were married on Dec 2, 2004, and were living separately until her entry. We have separated since Oct 31, and have filled for divorce.

So does anyone know if I can withdraw my affidavit of support? Or if I withdraw my name from the affidavit of support on file with USCIS?

letter to the USCIS where her case is filed asking to remove your name for AOS?

I have set up the Infopass meeting and want to do this right, and not miss anything, it is difficult enough with everything else going on, I don’t want to screw this up and assure to cover myself and protect myself with immigration as much as I can.

Thanks again for your thoughts…

Dear Luker, Thank for your thoughts. I have an Infopass appointment, and will explain how i was munupulated into this relatinship; and the entire intent was G.C. to US and that she does not deserved US as she will take advantage of others, and she has to be shipped back. I will write a letter and have it notorized as well for their file.

Meantime, i am moving all into storage and will be on the road a lot and don't want to be found. She is still calling, but i know how she is munupulitive.

Any of your thoughts are much appreciated, it is hard to keep the chin up. as the damage done is too deep and i truley feel used..

[quote name='PurrSuede' date='Nov 14 2006, 01:54 PM' post=

I'm not sure who "they" are who is saying all these things...

I think you need to see a family-law (divorce) attorney, and possibly an immigration attorney as well.

And you might want to make an INFOPASS appointment to see a USCIS officer and explain to them that you are being offered something of value (such as not having to pay a dowry, or a financial agreement with no claims) in return for "allowing her to get her Green Card". I think that could be construed as immigration fraud, and I think the USCIS could possibly see it in the same light.

That's what I think.

-- Dan

Dan, i got an infopass set up, but down deep inside i still feel guilty, although i should not and the sooner i get this to the USCIS the better, i know no matter what she would not give up her dowery which is now grown, so i kiss a deal of sort good bye, besides, i have never been dishonest with the goverment and i do not plan to start over her...we'll see

I have requested that my lawyer get their offer or proposal in writting, on other hand, my lawyer is obligated by law to give me the proposal in writting even if they do not supply it, as it is what she told me their offer is so why can't my lawyer give it to me as referencing offer by the other side....

My lawyer said, they will delay and delay until G.C. done and will not allow finilization of divorce unitl then... I said, we'll take them to court in calif. and order divorce by court after 6 months of being served..... man this is nuts....

she still calling me leaving Vmail, as if nothing has happend, and that i'm making a big mistake and we should and are ment to be together, and orders the Devil to come out me...

diadromous mermaid, The dowery was said to be 10,000 us equivalent when she asked for to up it again, and it said ok, it was only recently i have revitalized that it was worth 100,000, it was my fault not to verify the actual value of the 110 gold coins written in.

She has some pictures of marriage, etc, the wedding was a mock one to prove a marriage, there was an actual city hall marriage done. I have set up a meeting with infopass and will tell them what i know, and how they have tried to buy the g.c permanent status with the dewery trade off, is there is a guarantee, no there is not, but i feel it to be my duty to tell USIC at infopass, more importantly she told me she knows people here in us she can marry with 10K cost if she wanted to do so, but she does not know she has to exit and return for that case, and with this case up in the air she is done with us imm.

all letters and everything she ever wrote was never in a complaining vain rather in a how i love you no matter how much we were having trouble in the relationship, she never ever wrote down in letter form. now looking back, this was all done for her to prove bone fied.........marriage and her intent, she is smart in that regards... anyhow, divorce is filed, in 6 months divorce will be issued, this will be before the 2 yr ann.less 3 months, and she can take her chances.

I tell USCIS all i know give evidence i have with taped recorded phone calls, letter and what i have, and have to leave the rest up them. Meantime, i know back in home land her mom with a power of attorney will execute the dowery request from me, i will not be there, and i will not be able to enter or exit home land, until i pay the 100,000 us which i do not have the money for, nor i would pay even if i could, and so I say Good Bye to the old country,, Which is sad, but this is life, i have pay the prcie for being a STUID SUCKER. that has been used, and left for s..h..i...t.. that is how i feel.... thanks for your suggestions, i do appreciate any help you can give me ..

specially what type info i should give the infopass imm. officer..when i meet with them to show her intent to get her g.c. more than wanting to have bone fied marraige.!!!! man i am all confused and need to put this behind me... after all the wait money spent on her lawyer for imm. selling buying home, losing cash, i am stock how to back out of this....i feel like i'm nothing

now i'm told by her and her family memebers, that the dewery is 100,000.00 US NOT 10,000 As i was told back when she uped the amount, as i was lied to. they say now, do not divorce her, she will sign a financial agreement with no claims, allow her to get her Green Card, and then divorce her. I said to them, i will not lie to the Immigration. Man this is nuts... I feel fraugelent marraige is on hand, and I have been fooled into this marriage thinking this was a bout us. Now this is all about immigration and making deals,,,,, it is becoming more and more obviouse.....what you think

i called U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services, i was told if we are seperating and filling for divorce, I am required and owe it to this country to go and report it in person and if anything else is worth reporting.. She does not return my calls and the peace we made on a plan of seperation is out to lunch. She has now emptied the back account and still has my cell, and making long dis. calls, and not calling me back... i guess i am now finding my way, as to how to deal with this...

Hi All,

can some one give me some thoughts. i met a 25 years eaperienced immigration attorney yesterday, regarding filling the I-751 separately. according to him its a lengthy and tough process which takes around 2-3 years. and this got me thinking... most what i heard in this forum is that its a matter of months even though i can remember some one else mentioning that his attorney said the same thing.

It was my immigration attorney who told me the same thing.

I asked him about my (now ex-)wife filing for Permanent Status by herself.

He said the USCIS will be all over her case with a fine tooth comb and it could take years to be resolved.

There were other people who said the opposite, that this was no big deal, here on this forum.

I don't know, but on the one hand this attorney worked for the USCIS for 20 years as a staff attorney in the El Paso office and works immigration cases all the time.

Advice here on Visa Journey is free. His wasn't.

At any rate, I'm divorced, so as far as I'm concerned it's HER problem and frankly, I could give a rat's @ss what happens with her petition.

i'm in your boad too, and have delayed and delayed the divorce, but this thursday she get's served, and decree will be issued 8 months before her 2 year ans. as a cr1.... so i thing you said, who give a rats......with her

untitled.bmpI agree with most of you as well, it is not up to me to decide her GC or US or other country destination, time was given, and we did not get a long and i need to break away. I'm asking her forgiveness of the customers dowery of 10K, and i will provide evidance. I have already spent alot of $$ up to 39K to get her to this point, costs, etc, which i would not have done if it was not for me wanting to give a piece of myself to make this work and to have a happy family.

So, it comes to it, i will give her the dowery back in Iran, not here, and divorce in 6 months.

I guess, it is difficult to be at an agreement with someone people, to see all points of view... She say's i owe her from bring her to US, and i say i have paid all i had to pay, and no more money is due to you...

anyhow this not ease, and i thank you all for your inputs, and understanding, it means alot to me to hear from a 3rd party like youselves,

now i'm packing everything goes into storage, and will travel California to figure out what to do next, and live in hotels for a while, i may stay here to may go back to michigan or toronto, canada..... man this is messed up.

Here is an updated, this like a drama... she does not let up...

since we got married, were it is their custom to have a dowery, which to me was never acceptable and i agreed to about 10 K us, she is saying i have to pay her, then file for seperation and with a plan with her to her GC permenent, or not to file for divorce and right the process till she get's her GC done, and then we divorce... When i say to her I need to move on with life and attachements other than what has been offered is difficult and unlawfull for me to present and sign and etc., and i do not want to lie, rather i will testify for her intent for marriage if needed for me to do so later on, and give up your dowery and provide me with agreement as such and i will file for divorce but not issue the divorce until 9 months later rather than 6 which CA law, and she want her money...

Man i should have her deported, and pay her 10K and for her to go back, which i have offered her and she wants everything....this is nuts,..

Question, if we got seperated or Divorced final, Am I required by law to inform INS. or IMM or other institutions, other than the NUT HOUSE..

It is funny, as i kept telling her this over, and you have a family her, go ahead move in with them, she did try to want to change my mind... and once she knew i have made up my mind..... It has all become about her Green Card Now.... and that is all she wants me to help her with to make it easier for her.... My gute say's the same as all of you go with Option 3... I have told her, i want a divorce, and will give you all you need to help you with the GC and if needed i will come to court and testify that your intent was to be have a life here not the Green Card.

One more thing, she tells me if I take Option 3, then she has a 0 chance of getting her GC permement, even if i give her all the evidance for it now, for her to use later for application. after all she is from Iran.

and that's your problem how?

The issue is i would feel guilty if she was not able to get her GC permenent, and i do not want to live with that, even if she intented to marry me just for GC and US of A.

One more thing, she tells me if I take Option 3, then she has a 0 chance of getting her GC permement, even if i give her all the evidance for it now, for her to use later for application. after all she is from Iran.

after 5 weeks of introduction we got married, my story is long has to all things to done while married.. Sell house in Toronto Ca, find a job in Michigan buy house in michigan, she comes, i loose my job, i find job in California, i sell house in Michigan and move to California, start the job, and i get fired because i was late all the time, as i had to drive her to work too and she was allways late, i can't find a job and i look back as she to how our relationship has pushed me more and more towards the rear of my carrier path and even self worth..

Well, here is where things stand. I have though hard and long, for too long, that our personalities are ones too alike, that neither one can deescalate issues and discussion, rather they always have been escalating and it has been taking it’s toll on me, and she just does not know me enough or me her enough to deescalate issues that are arise after 1 yr 10 months or so. Over my past, I have gone to a lot of programs and self improvement process to face my own issues and try to correct them, I always learn, the 1st step is to recognize that there is an issue with one’s personality or character that requires to be adjusted or changed for the higher goal in life, I have done that, yet she is not even willing to admit that there is anything in her that is to be recognized or adjusted for the higher goal, which the family, she constantly say’s I don’t need to admit to it, yet there is not issue with me now, and have adjusted…. Anyhow, voodoo stuff she tried to do earlier, and so on…. This has come to an end…

We are now living in separate places, I have taken on the costs for the apt. at 2200/month and she has moved to one her relatives who live in town. Which I did not know she had relatives here, but had found our now she has more than 20 or so relatives who live here…..

I have spoken with the family lawyer, based on cal. Law you file for dissolution of marriage or separation, as the lawyer explained one over the other, I felt I want a divorce anyways, so I go for the dissolution of the marriage option, after having signed the petition for the lawyer, few days later, I found out that for her to stay here, it would be best to file for separation and proceed with the process until her CR 1 becomes permanent and then get the divorce filed.

I just don’t know what to do, my heart say’s one thing but my logic in knowing her say’s, I will have difficulties with her to stay separated and having to be in contact until her CR1 is permanent, GC. That she will try on going wanting to get back together, and I know that will be very difficult for me to do, as I know with my own logic and all inner energies that this will not work, that over the years I will be feeling under pressure and and pushed into depression and no good to anyone.

Please don’t recommend counseling, this relationship is OVER..

After all of this, I am just asking you fellows,

1. Should I file for separations and have to constantly help her and push her and be in touch with her to process the Green card to permanent.

2. Should file for dissolutions of divorce and not file the divorce, go to the immigration interview, etc. and if vote positive to imm. And tell imm. As separated, and not in a relationship but, her intent was not one to want imm. But to make a life together and that is a positive contributor to the society.

3. just divorce and move and let her deal with it and me become free and able to move on with my life.