Sorry about this problem. I was told to get the SSN card as soon as possible after she came here or there would be problems. We only needed the visa and the passport. Everyone coming in with a K-1 should get their SSN and card as soon as possible after arrival to avoid these problems.
We got our AOS NOA on the same day, but didn't do the walkin biometrics, so I think we must be about a week or two behind you. They haven't been sending us updates. When I tried to register, they said there was already an account, but they don't send us any notices.