I think all this waiting is causing people to behave in a weird way. All Loto has to say 'what-eVVerr' and chill and continue to visit and stay active on this site. Asking the admin to remove him from the site is a bit extreme. And if he really is that upset - then just stop logging in, why put in a whole new post asking to be removed. Hate to lose anyone, we all need each other's support to get thru nightmare. I am optimistic he will join again with a new id