codybanks

I know that everyone here in this forum that is waitng for either their K-1, CR-1, 212, I-601 or AP. We don't like how long our file is taking as we want to be with the one that we love. Our lives are in their hands, but remember that they are doing this for the good of their country. If we were in their shoes, would we be doing the same. Please note, that I'm in no way taking their side in how they are doing in processing our files. Which leads to a question, what would they feel if they put themselves in our shoes. I come in here and read everyone's post and it really saddens me to know that it's going to take quite a while for us to be able to be with our love one. I know that any amount of words cannot give you any comfort of wanting to spend Christmas or even tonight to be with the one that you love. This wait is agnozing on everyone, while the ones that work on our file is able to go home to the one that they love after they leave work.
We all have to stay strong and try and bear this wait, til our turn comes when we can finally get our visa. If there was only a visa, where we can be with our love ones while we go through all the steps, then it would be alot easier on us, maybe one day there can be one. Maybe if there weren't any watched country on the list, or we didn't commit that charge or we haven't had that illness, that our journey would be a lot quicker. The ones that terrorize other country shouldn't have any bearing on those that don't, everyone that commits a crime, isn't a harden criminal, and those that have an illness, isn't condem because of it. We all have made mistakes that we have regreted, but why should it affect who we are today. I believe that most people do change and for the better. That is why we all are going through this process. We just need to holdd up each other, offer a little prayer and wish that our files can be worked on as quickly as possible so that we can finally be with those that we love and spend our lives together.
I know that some in here will say, yes, I already know all of this and it isn't helping, But, please bear in mind, that I'm only trying to encourage you to stay strong and I truly hope that your wait will soon be over and you will be with your better half. As I've said, that these words are just words and sometimes they aren't as comforting as being with the one that you want to be with tonight.
Just in case some of you don't know, my wife and I have already gone through the I-129, then we got married and went for the I-130 and now we are going through the I-601.
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