rhiz27

Hello to All,

Thank you so much,yes i did not come back this site after listening all your advices,I was try to work out my marriage with him,always contact him even he did not bother to reply and answering my messages,i feel like a really stupid and very cheap,even my parents told me do not contact my husband anymore,just forget him but seems i still in love with him,im still hoping that my marriage will workout but sometimes its get tiring,i was waiting him to tell me we are over but still did not hear from him but only this 20 of this month,he answer my called he said he dont know me,i feel shocked after years he dont know me already,so of course i introduced myself then he said we are over,he will leave me because i am accusing him have other girls,and i know its true im not only accusing him i have all evidince,he keep shouting me only and i said okay its fine,we are over i am asking Divorce from you,All he said he will give me divorce but he don t know when so all need is to wait him again.some friends told me i can sue my husband but i know it will be not good,also he did not bother to tell me if he submit my papers or not.Im sure he did not.Fot the past months,i already accept that i need to move on but sometimes its hard to forget but i think this is only the part of my life,im thinking all this years,he dont deserved with me i think,he is a jerk,all my friends told me.At this i am now doing good already move on and thanks to GOd still not late to know that i married a wrong man,Im not going to sue him or bother to contact him anymore he gave me the word that i want to hear,even my mother in law told me to leave and forget his son,don t deserve me.So,i will wait him to Divorce until march only,if not i will be the one who will work out on how to void my marriage with him,so far i am happy and content with my life,even no husband but i have a family that really love me ,that before he let me to forget my family but its good i did not leave my family.So,thanks to all reading and answering my post.Happy Christmas to ALL:-)

RHIZ

Hi!Any one here know the legal things...Im gonna ask if i can sue my husband for keeping and playing me for many years and now he leave me.Im a filipina and married with the american citizen,all he did to me was lied.we got married here in philippines.thanks

Hi Femloveron,

Yes my husband is born american citizen.And i am very close with his mom,anyway,im doing good now without thinking him,But yesterday he sent me sms telling he did not forget me,he love me.well..i did not reply,,,what for?he knew me,,,if he said he love me,i will be fine.But calling him for not only 100 times a day,not only once,and he did not answer, i think is good enough he doesn't love me,before it was fine,i always understand whatever reason he made but since i talked to the girl.I won't believe him anymore.Yes,i really love him until now but i think i need to be smart.I already forgive him once,but i think he will continue hurting me so its better to end the relation,if love only exist and there is no respect,that will not be good,also i dont believe him now if he really love me.So,even trust is gone.Thanks.

Hi Kennym,

Thanks for replying my post.All my friends told me i need to stay away now with my husband,he only hurting me,My boss adviced me to go the US manila Embassy so that i will know what is best thing to do,since my husband still want to keep my marriage but he doesnt care about me,keep telling i need to wait my papers but we already know he doesnt work my papers.I knew still waste time doing things for my husband but i am in the middle of nowhere this time and i want to end it with my own way.first time i talked to my husband about the girl.he deny it but the second time,he confirmed that its my fault why he get woman there in the US in the third, he said,its only a friend,he dont have relation that woman,then i called him again,he as very mad why i keep calling him and until now even i call he even not answer my call,I know i am now a dumb person still calling my husband.my friend told me that,only one reason that sometimes i call my husband is to hear from him to end officially my relation with him but still i cant get that answer,so its a waste of time.maybe its good to make in legal way,but so fAR,im starting now to live without him.thanks

to live my husband without him or not to think my husband anymore:-)

Hi to ALL filipina Girls that reply my Post,

I understand that some of you that cant understand my situation but at this moment i know you are happy with your love one,all i can say I am only a Victims that i called it LOVE.yes,i trust my husband with all my heart and soul.I always believe on what he said,but only this month last september 11,i had doubts why woman answer his phone and he did not called me back,he sent me text on the next day,he said i am accusing him again,enough already i am free,because before i caught him already the woman sent his mail on his FB account,they had relation for almost 1 year and 2 months online also,like this day last year,i was talked to him but still denying he dont know that girl but i forgive him even he did not ask forgiveness,im trying to save my marriage because i love him but after few months,he still told me he know that girl but starting that day i was thinking a lot and try to get online,investigating,i noticed he have many social networking accounts that i did not know,also i learn when he met that girl,so we become good again,i forget that things but after that months i dont know what happen i accidentally lose my wedding ring,i always believe that have something wrong about my marriage,so i asked one of my good friend there about my husband,also he did not bother to call me anymore,and then my friend told me MOVE ON,i cant believe it,so all i do was crying even i dont know exactly what my friend told me,i was trying to call my husband but he never answers all my call,only last september 11 the woman answer his phone after that he did not communicate with me,so i try to call him againlast september 23,talk to him on what happening now about our marriage,again the woman answer his phone,she is like a thai girl in her accent,its funny about our conversations,i asked her,who is she,she said she is a gf of my husband for 8 months now then i said,fine,i am his stupid wife here in philippines,where is he,i wanna talk to him,woman said,he is outside,wait for 10 minutes.I asked the girl,do you know your bf have a wife,waiting him,she said yes,and i said why you still have relation with my husband,she said,my husband love her,i said oh i see.so i told to her,if my husband arrive kindly tell him,i am waiting his call from his wife,after 30 minutes i call again,my husband answer the phone,seems he is drunk,based on his voice,i told her,how is my husband ,seems you enjoying your life there,he said,its my fault,i said what is my fault,being in love and all i do is waiting for you,so regardless that girl,i asked him directly,since you have now girl there,even i love you i let you go,obviously,you dont love me ,even you love me,i dont think if you still respect me,respect is very important for me.we had conversations,im asking to work our marriage annulment but he hang up the call and im thinking again.same day,he called me,saying that woman is only his friend and he want to maintain our marriage,AND WAIT FOR MY VISA BUT HE CANT GIVE ME RECIEPT NUMBER WHEN HE SENT MY PACKAGES ALSO NVC NUMBER,HE SAID,I TRY TO WORK IT IF I CAN FIND WHAT HAPPEN TO THE PAPERS HE SENT,SEEMS HE IS VERY BUSY, and said he love me,and i said fine,show me your love and being a responsible husband,we become good again,im stupid i agree.so i asked about that girl,he said,i will ask to the girl if i call again,so it means if i call him i expect the girl will answer his phone,make it sense to me.on the next day i call him again,24 hours i was calling him,he never answer my call,im just sitting here,trying to contact him but i failed only yesterday before i post here in VJ,I Called him again,he answer after 10 times i ring his phone,he seems angry and he said why i keep calling him,he is doing fishing,seems i was disturbing,that was the first time i heard that kind of voice,and then i was reading all your answers that make sense to me,he is great liar.so until now i did not call him again,why i need to waste peso if i get hurt only but he never call me also.So,as i said my recent post,i will move on.Thanks to all who is reading this post.

But no regret being married with him,i learn a lot,not all marriage life have a happy ending but its good to know early.But im still

hoping i can find a real man in my life.God's Will.

Thanks to all VJ'S member.

rhiz

Hi to all VJ's Member,

Thank you so much for replying my post,i think 4 years,6 months and 1 day,i think that was good enough for being a loyal and loving him,Starting today i am going to Move on my life but i cant promise myself i am still be a loyal wife.He wrapped me around his fingers all this years,so i will not worried about my marriage life also i am not willing to stay with him anymore,im going to start my new life without thinking him anymore,he is bad husband,bad marriage better to forget him,Its good sometimes you get fooled but i think that will guide me to be more strong.I wish still his happiness.I will not worried about going to the US to be with him,i deserve best i think.I will focus my work so that i can survive and help my family,also,he dont like me that i am helping my family,he is crazy,he is not helping my family but he is is complaining,i help my family with my own money.I think this is also the reason i decided not to stay with him,I cant change my family with only one man.thanks to all

GOD BLESS YOU ALL and GOODBYE

Thanks to ALL,I sent my papers all we need for applying a visa,he told me he sent my papers first that was NOVEMBER 2008 but we never heard in the NVC so we try again last FEBRUARY 2011 UNtil now,i did not heard anything,yes i talket to the woman he said she is the gf of my husband for 8 months now but my husband still denying it,he said it was only a friend but i dont believe him anymore,I asked marriage annulment with him but he dont want to do,ALL he want me to do is wait for him,Im getting old now for waiting him,i met him 2007 until now.anyway,thanks to all

We can't file Divorce here in Philippines,Also,he dont want to work our marriage Annulment.

Thanks to ALL,I always asked the NVC number but he told me until now he did not yet recieve it,i trust my husband,almost now 5 years i was waiting him but only this week i dont trust him,i believe he have a thai live in partner first he confirmed it when we talked i guess he was drunk but in second time i talked to him,he deny the girl and he want me to wait him,so i really dont know.but thanks to all of you.

Thanks to ALL,Is there anyway that i can do some things for my husband if he only lying to me?Since he dont want to void our marriage also.thanks

Thank you so much for all your reply.I dont know what to do now.he still want me to keep me waiting but still no financial support.thanks to all.I met him 2007 and got married 2008 until now he still keep telling me i need to wait my papers.

That was he told me,he dont have also NVC number.he just only sent my papers but he dont have anything.Yes.i trust my husband but this week i dont think anymore.since he have live in partner there.And he dont want to set me free also.

ANYWAY,HOW DID YOU GET THE NVC NUMBER,SINCE HE TOLD ME HE JUST ONLY SENT THE PACKAGES.Thanks

Thanks for replying.First he sent my papers november 2008 but he lost his job.then again he sent my papers last february 2011,until now we did not heard,he dont have anything even NVC Number,also even the receipt when he sent my packages,he told me he lost.All i need is waiting him but only this month i need to find out since when i called his phone woman was answer his phone telling she is gf of my husband but still my husband keep denying but i dont believe him anymore,and he dont want also to filed annulment of our marriage so he said all i need is to wait my papers,how long i am going to wait since i have doubt already.thanks

No one here can tell you if your husband filed for you or not.

Generally, it takes about 6-12 months for a US citizen to petition for a spouse. It could be longer if there are background issues.

Do you have a USCIS case number or NVC case number? Ask your husband for your case number and then contact the appropriate US government agency to see if your case is being worked on.

No one here can tell you if your husband filed for you or not.

Generally, it takes about 6-12 months for a US citizen to petition for a spouse. It could be longer if there are background issues.

Do you have a USCIS case number or NVC case number? Ask your husband for your case number and then contact the appropriate US government agency to see if your case is being worked on.

Hello to ALL,

I Want to know if my husband really work my papers,he keep telling me,he was sent my packages but until now i never heard,We was married since 2008.thanks

Hi!

Anyone out there can help me,my husband sent the package last february but until we dont have yet the NOA1.

thanks

Hello

Since 2008 my husband told me he sent our packages but we never recieve a NOA1,And Even this year,he sent again the packages last February but he still Not recieve a NOA1,We are married 3 years,2 months and 7 days but we still not together.Congrats to all who are live with thier love ones.all i need is to be patient and Trust to God!......thanks