Britthaven

hi!i'm from north carolina.i'm going to the legal aide office tomorrow.that's my only option right now.

....until now my husband's friends,my firends and his mother,are still can't believe that he would just abandoned us,for a short period of time!he doesn't even bother to call on our son,who is until now,has no idea what his father did to us!and that's what make s me cry most of the time....as a father how could you abandoned your 5 year old son,for just the reason of screwing around with younger girl.and the fact that he left us,to stay for good in my own country!sounds crazy right?!

Thanks for all your input!i just got my american citizenship last august.i'm here in north carolina.which is i believe has a very strong value when it comes to family thing.this is one of the conservative state in us,i think.i was able to talked directly to the social services"CHILDSUPPORT-ENFORCEMENT AGENT",and they said that they gonna have a meeting with their dept.lawyer about jurisdiction,since my husband is still in pinas.

>and yes,my mother-in-law is keep telling me that,she hopes that her son is gonna realize his mistake before its too late...

thanks again.

Hi,everyone!

new member here!i'm going to point right away.i need a free legal help and i hope someone here can....

me and my husband agreed that he's going to pinas,to put up a fishing business,since his work here on sale i slow.but to the promised that he's going to stay with my family the whole time that he's in pinas.but to make it shorter....he ended up moving out from my family and he started doing monkey business as well.no phone calls,and he's not letting me know his phone no.and his address!sounds crazy but that's whta he did!but eventually i found out that he met a girl,and that girl become his companion until now.he lft us june 22,he's still there until now...and probably not planning to back.we have a 5year old son!and he's start looking for his daddy!my mother-inlaw is worried too because his the only and yet we don't know where he is!he's just sending us an email when he wants to ask something.so now i have no choice but to file for abandonment and separation.he got our money,so i'm trying to find a free legal help with this matter...i can't believe until now that my husband for almost 7years is going leave me here in the states!i don't have any family here,except friends.and my mother inlaw.he wants to retire in pinas but i told him,that its too early,he's only 45.and the fact that retiring in pinas is not a big joke!we need to be financially stable first.

please,i appreciate any input.

Britthaven