Ms.Dawn

Yes, it's possible. It's possible the USCIS can say yes and it's possible they can say no. If you had completed a search through this forum, you would know it's possible (and why else would this subforum be called Adjustment of Status from Work, Student, & Tourist Visas?).

The main difference with your situation is that you are married before entering the US and then contemplating adjustment of status. Most of us who have gone through this were not married and not even engaged. The B-2 visa is for individuals who wish to visit the United States temporarily or to visit family or friends.

Good luck with your decision. You've burned a lot of bridges with people here at VisaJourney who can provide a lot of guidance and assistance.

Thank you Laura and Kyle. This is the answer I needed.

cheers x

We are VERY aware that it affects people which is why we aren't telling her "it will all be okay". It MIGHT be but if we just her it would be good and to go ahead without warning her of the HIGH and EXTREME risks (with her being married on visitor entry) then we SHOULD feel bad if and when she is deported and given a lifetime ban.

I appreciate all the advices and thank you all for letting me know the risks. But before anyone accuse or judge me, don't y'all think you should ask the "REAL" situation first before you say something like "You made a mistake in your thinking" I asked, and yes I did think about it but it doesn't MEAN I AM going to do it.

IT WAS JUST a simple yes or no question and a little explanation is what I needed. I don't need all you being Judgmental just because I thought about it. What is the point of asking if I just wanted to go ahead and do it? I don't really know where y'all got the impression of me not liking the answers? AGAIN, I think it is being judgmental.

AOS from a B2 Tourist Visa Is this possible? - This was the question, and a little explanation of my current situation. The reason why I asked because I wanted to know if it is indeed "Possible". If not, then I am going to follow the right way.

I understand that was offensive, but he was responding to her insulting his country and by association, him. She was talking as though living in America is something to be ashamed of and that all that live here live with chickens and cows so his response was "you don't like it, don't live here". I understand his sentiment (though it was out-of-line I understand why he was upset) but it was a TOS violation and was reported which is why a moderator reprimanded him.

I know it was wrong, I should have not said it. I understand if he got offended. I meant no offense by saying "a country full of cows and chicken" Let me ask a question though, and again, do not misinterpret, I don't mean to be a smart a** out of it, but what do you mainly see in the country side? Farms. Cows. Chickens. Pigs. The person I married whom I love so much, is used to living in the country side, Me on the other hand had lived in big, crowded, surrounded by stacked buildings all my life. We both lived in a completely different world, but still because we LOVE each other we risked or (ready to risk on my part) and leave everything behind just to be together. My hubby was ready to live in Hong Kong, I sponsored him a visa, He adjusted his status from tourist, He got APPROVED of 1 year dependent visa, He applied his resident HK Identity card. HE TRIED but he just can't, so we both decided to go back to America and see if I would want to live here. I still have my Job, I still have a Flat that I am paying and I still have BILLS and most IMPORTANTLY I have a RETURN Ticket after 1 month of staying. SO my ties in Hong Kong are way tight than what y'all are assuming.

She IS here to gain entry and in fact she's already IN the US. She IS seeking a greencard which IS entry. She entered the US while MARRIED to a USC. She WANTS to AOS so she can stay HERE. You've stated it, just in the direct quote above that she wants to start her life HERE. It's pretty clear-cut that she wants to stay, that's obvious.

Where is the (I WANT TO AOS?) (WHERE IS THE "MY INTENTION IS TO AOS") isn't this you being judgmental again here?

For your info Vanessa&Tony (I wished you asked before you said anything) We got married in HK because our INTENTION was to LIVE in HK and NOT in the US. I DID NOT say I WANT to AoS. AGAIN, I just asked if it is POSSIBLE? Because if it is, than I might as well TRY to AoS and TRY to live here. IF it doesn't WORK out THEN, I go back to HK and wait for my Petition. Simple.

AOS from a B2 Tourist Visa Is this possible?

Has anyone tried applying for AOS while on a tourist visa? I got married in Hong Kong and now I am in the US with my husband for a supposedly honeymoon/Long Vacation. But we just realized we cant live without each other and the hubby wants me to stay and not leave the US because the plane ticket costs a fortune.

Please help. Thanks - Mrs. Dawn

It's not about her marriage being fake. It's not about whether she's a bad person that we wouldn't want here, it's about her entering as a visitor with the INTENT to immigrate which is illegal. They don't often try and PROVE intent in cases like getting married in the US, but as she entered already married the intent APPEARS pretty obvious. I honestly have never seen anyone even attempt it this way but if you do want to try, I encourage speaking with a solicitor first, bearing in mind even the solicitor won't be able to tell you what the CO will decide.

Again, judgemental. I have no intentions of immigrating here. I came here to plainly VISIT and SPEND TIME with my Hubby and his family before we part ways again (because who knows we might see each other after 6 or 8 months?). BUT (As stated above) WE BOTH REALIZED we want to be together and not be apart anymore. Like everyone here, we both do sit down and think what want to do with our lives, is it wrong to change our mind and decide to be together?

As we have said, numerous times, she can TRY, no-one is stopping her from trying, but the risks would be far too great for ME to attempt (I love my husband too much to even think of risking it and I wouldn't let him try if the situation were reversed) which is why my advice is to NOT do it this way.

And lastly, to end this ISSUE, whatever it is that I decided to do, it will be the CO's decision that matters.

I thank y'all again for giving me good advices. BUT NEXT TIME, before ya'll judge and assume someone will commit immigration fraud, PLEASE ASK what the real situation is because some people may have used strong words on this post (as my mother-in-law said)"don't you know that the things you say affect people" AND I TOTALLY AGREE because y'all made me think I already MADE a HUGE mistake by ASKING if it's POSSIBLE to AOS.

Cheers xxx

Go ahead and keep living where you feel comfortable as long as it isn't here.

I will be comfortable living anywhere as long as it's with my hubby. I don't mean to be offensive but I am just trying to defend myself from all the accusations.

I admit I don't like living in country, But I will have to because I married someone who loves living in country.

I asked for opinions because I wanted to know answers, ya'll just assumed I will do it.

Once again, I thank you for all your advices. We will either do CR1 or DCF.

Dawn x

The HUGE difference is the USCIS aren't nice and you're not only asking for a greencard, but for the possibility of citizenship. "Adjusting" to a dependent visa does what exactly? Is he able to become a Hong Kong citizen?

No-one said you ARE being dodgy but that's how it WILL 100% look to USCIS that on arriving here, with your USC husband, suddenly you are going to try AOS. Whether they decide to deny you is the question.

It is, as we both said, entirely possible for you to APPLY, and sometimes people get approved, but I can honestly say I've never seen someone enter as a spouse and do it (though there may be somewhere... I've never seen it). We're also not the ones that will deny you and give you a lifetime ban IF they decide that you lied when you entered as a visitor. No-one said they WILL, but they COULD and if they do you risk a lifetime ban and personally, I would prefer not to risk that, but if you want to try, that is entirely up to you.

If he has the Hong Kong visa I'd advise going back to Hong Kong and DCF'ing from there if you don't want to be apart as a safer option. The other option is a CR-1 visa while he is in the US and you are in Hong Kong.

Good luck with your decision.

Yes he can get HK citizenship after a certain time of staying here. I thank you for giving me these advices it had been a lot of help.

To the OP:

I don't really anything to add other than the fact that you have gotten good advice here. You have to decide whether the risk is worth it to you or not, and in your case, there is definitely a risk.

Just because you want something to be a certain way doesn't make it so. Just because someone doesn't give you the answer you want to hear doesn't mean they are wrong, or accusing you of anything.

I don't see why I can get my husband a visa in hk that easily without any hassle like this. But oh well as I've said it all depends on the immigration laws.

Were going to a different route and try to do dcf. Thanks y'all for the advise it has been really helpful.

I have a good paying job and a life that I am willing to leave just to be with my hubby and that looks suspicious to y'all?

If we can do it in hong kong why can't we do it in the states? Who would ever want to leave a posh city life to a country full of cows and chicken? And I'm doing that simply because I love my husband and I'm not just trying to get a us citizenship off of him. I mean DUH.

Y'all are just accusing me of something I don't intend to do. That is why this forum is here, to give advise, and not to accuse someone.

Thanks vanessa&tony and just bob.

When my husband was in Hong Kong he adjusted status over there and the hong kong immigration didn't think twice to give him a dependent visa because we submitted everything they needed.

He's free to work and stay in hong kong as long as he wants but my hubby is a country boy and couldn't stand living in the big city... I mean I know laws are different but we are just trying to be together.

Anybody??

Hi, see "guides" on this website. You will find everything there.

Has anyone tried applying for AOS while on a tourist visa? I got married in Hong Kong and now I am in the US with my husband for a supposedly honeymoon/Long Vacation. But we just realized we cant live without each other and the hubby wants me to stay and not leave the US because the plane ticket costs a fortune.

Please help. Thanks - Mrs. Dawn

Please help... Has anyone in the same situation as I am?

As I was reading the requirements on the US Embassy Hong Kong for applying K1 visa, it clearly stated that “Applicants born in the Philippines or carrying passports issued by the Government of the Philippines should carefully review this checklist.

Civil Documents and Police Certificates from Philippines

Applicants who were born in the Philippines or carry passports issued by the Government of the Philippines require the following civil documents:

BIRTH CERTIFICATE – a certified birth certificate from the National Statistics Office (NSO) printed on NSO Security Paper. This is required for all applicants. Applicants with children should also submit a NSO birth certificate for all children, whether or not the child is applying for a visa. Applicants who need to obtain a certified copy of their birth certificate from the NSO can call the NSO Information Center at (63)(2)737-1111 or see the contact list at the end of this document.

MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE – applicants who are/were married in the Philippines must submit an NSO marriage certificate on security paper.

PROOF OF TERMINATION OF MARRIAGE – applicants who had a marriage annulled in the Philippines should submit an annulment certificate from the NSO on security paper. Please note that documents issued by a court must be accompanied by an NSO issued certificate to be accepted. If an applicant had a Philippine national spouse who died, even outside the Philippines, the applicant should submit a death certificate from the NSO on security paper. If an applicant was divorced in Hong Kong or another location, he/she should submit the original and final divorce decree (with English translation if applicable.)

NATIONAL BUREAU OF INVESTIGATION (NBI) CLEARANCE – applicants who have resided in the Philippines after age 16 must have a valid record clearance from the National Bureau of Investigation (NBI). Clearances should be in the applicant’s current name, birth certificate name, maiden name, married name, and any aliases or nicknames ever used, including different spellings of all names ever used. An official letter of explanation from the NBI is required for any notation of “No criminal record”, "No pending criminal case” or “With derogatory record.” NBI is located along Taft Avenue in Manila. You may contact NBI at (632) 523-82-31 to 38. For immigration purposes, an NBI clearance is considered valid only for one year from the date it is issued.

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Document Verification for Applicants born in the Philippines or Carrying Passports Issued by the Government of the Philippines

In addition, applicants born in the Philippines or carrying passports issued by the Government of the Philippines are subject to document verification process. One part of this process involves obtaining a Certificate of No Marriage Record (CENOMAR). The CENOMAR should be ordered through the National Statistics Office (NSO) E-census website and sent directly to the U.S. Consulate General (see the link and directions attached). The $25.00 (USD) fee for this service should be paid with a credit card issued in the United States. We advise you to work with the petitioner as you complete the application.

In my case, I am not born in the Philippines but I am carrying a passport issued by the (Gov’t of the Philippines HK consulate). My below questions are:

- I have my original Hong Kong Birth Certificate, Do I need to get a birth certificate from NSO? Do I have a record in the Philippines even if I am born in Hong Kong?

- I studied in the Philippines for 10 years and went back to Hong Kong when I was 17 (I am now 22), do I still need to get a certificate of singleness?

- It states above “Applicants who have resided in the Philippines after age 16 must have a valid record clearance from the National Bureau of Investigation (NBI)” I moved back to Hong Kong when I was 17 do I have to get an NBI clearance in the Philippines?

Thanks.

You cannot get legally married twice- once you are married, you are married, and the USA recognises HK legal marriages. As the others have said, you should look at your visa options first, and then decide where you want the legal wedding. Personally, I'd go with the CR-1 because it is cheaper and leads to immediate greencard. If you go for that option, get married in HK, then once in the USA, you can have a blessing ceremony and/ or reception. If you decide to get legally married in the USA, you cannot have a legal wedding in HK. But you can have an engagement ceremony, a non-legal wedding ceremony (be careful with those though: in some countries, any wedding in a church is legally binding and even if not, the CO may see it as such!), or your other option would be to fly to the USA, get legally married there, then once you filed AP and AOS, visit HK for a wedding blessing.

Thanks for your reply.

Say we do get married in HK and want to move to the us.

Can my soon to be hubby file for the petition while I'm with him in the states (I have a 10yr multiple entry visa) and when its time for me to gather documents then can I go back to HK?

or is there any other way? Can we apply for my visa directly in the states?

Thanks

If you're going to get legally married before applying for a visa, you have to do K-3 or CR-1. CR-1 is faster from what I've seen and you get a green card a few weeks after arriving in the US, unlike K-3 where you have to adjust status in the US.

CR-1 is also cheaper.

If you don't wish to get legally married in Hong Kong and just have a ceremony with nothing legal binding it, you can then file for K-1, since you're still engaged and not legally married. (Since you didnt sign a marriage certificate)

I'd look into the visa options for your country in the other sections, they'd usually have better advice since the consulates vary as to what they're looking for per visa type.

Basically we just want to get married and be together. We don't know where yet. BUT We do want options so it will be easy for us to decide.

He wants to get legally married in both countries. My worries are if we do get CR-1 or K3 we dont have enough proof of being married. ie; joint accounts etc. as we are just married and just starting... Im worried that a marriage certificate would not be strong enough proof for a bonafied marriage.

If he ends up not liking here in HK then we would have an option and move to the US. Do we just wait till I get a K1 visa then get married in the US then go back to HK to get married again?

Okay. Please help. I have another question.

My Fiance wants to get married when he come and visit me on Feb 2010. We don't need to get him a visa to be able to marry in Hong Kong so that is not a problem.

BUT he also wants to get married in the states. If we do get married in Hong Kong first, what type of visa do I need to apply for to get married in the states? Do I still need to get a K1 visa? But if we get a k1 visa, I wouldn't be single anymore as we are already married. What to do?

Any suggestions will help. Thanks

Cheers xx

I filled out a form when I was on the plane and gave it to the IO. All he asked was how long I was staying and I said 2 weeks, and then he said "hmm not bad." then asked for my return ticket then put a stamp on my passport but never gave me back anything. I hope it would not be a problem bec I am back in Hong Kong and I never stayed over two weeks! LOL

Well we used to chat on YM a lot before my Fiance discovered unlimited calls on skype. I never save histories on chat at that time bec I never thought we would go this far.... Like file for visa's and stuff Hehe. Are chat histories really important? And also we don't email each other because we always talk on phone like 5-10 hours max! OMG. Lol But as far as skype is concerned I think all his and my calls are logged on his skype bills. (skype is amazing)

I also keep my fedex receipts like when I sent him a birthday present in some other little stuff. He also sent me stuff for my bday on sept and I kept that receipt too...That should be alright I guess.

Thanks very much for your reply!

For the I-129F, all you have to prove is that you met at least once in the last two years with strong evidence (like a copy of a passport stamp, boarding passes, flight itineraries) and you can add in some secondary evidence as suggested by the guides (located at the top of this page). You can also include future flights (if you've bought the ticket) if you have them.

When you get to the interview stage, it's then that you have to prove your ongoing relationship. If you want to get through the process sooner, only meeting once shouldn't hold you back, provided you have evidence of the meeting.

Good luck!

Hi Justine+David

Appreciate your reply.

I kept my boarding passes, flight itineraries and also my passport has a stamp. When I entered the us the IO at Newark put a stamp on my passport which is august 3 (date of entry) but did not give me an I-94, but I saw the I-129F form and it's asking for a I-94 no. I'm guessing I didn't need it because it was just 2 weeks. I did not have to go through immigration when I left the country (just security checkpoints) I have the boarding pass but I don't have a stamp that I left the country on my passport! Would that cause a problem I'm just worried they will think I overstayed or became an illegal immigrant or something.

When it is time for me to apply for the visa here in HK, do I submit the proofs or I just bring it with me at the interview? And also, what other proofs can I show besides pictures? My Fiance have unlimited calls on skype and also have a local HK no. that is connected to his US mobile phone no. through skype (so it goes over our local minutes) (it's complicated but it's very cheap!) and that's what we use to call each other everyday, do we need to print telephone statements? I don't save histories of our YM chats and we don't email each other would I also need that too?

Say if we do get approved of the K1 visa do I have to go to the US ASAP or can I wait a few more months as I need to settle things before I leave?

Thanks very much

Cheers xx

I have just read about DCF online and I think this is the best solution!! Thanks very much for letting me know...I didn't know there can be an option like this..

I have some questions though hope you can help me out...

- There are 2 types of visa for spouses in HK:

1. Dependent visa - I will be the sponsor for my husband, meaning his visa will be dependent on me. This visa is conditional but He will be able to work and allowed to reside here until he gets his permanent residency after 7 years.

2. Hong Kong permanent resident - After 7 years of dependent visa he will be able to apply for Hong Kong permanent residency. He will be a HK ID card holder saying he has the right of abode in HK.

Would he be able to do DCF if he is on dependent visa? or does he need to be a Permanent Hong Kong resident before he can do the DCF? if he needs to be a permanent resident then it would take 7 long years... but then atleast we are together

Thanks very much.

You'll want to check with the U.S. Consulate in Hong Kong to be certain, but your future husband should be able to do DCF for your I-130 on a dependent visa. The general practice is that if the U.S. citizen is resident in a foreign country for six months or more, he is eligible for DCF at the embassy/consulate there.

Thanks so much I will have to discuss this with my Fiance.

Cheers

Help!

Ok... So I have already discussed this whole K1 process thing to my Fiance and we have decided to file for a K1 visa instead of getting married here in Hong Kong.

We started talking online since Feb 2009. I went to America to visit him for a week on Aug 2009. I am worried that if we do file for K1 visa with us meeting in person only once would not be a strong proof of our relationship. Would it be okay if he files the K1 visa first then visit me here in Hong Kong while in the process? or is it better to file the K1 visa after he visits me?

While filing the I-129F would they need the proof of relationship from him or would that be in my part when I get the package?

Thanks so much for your replies.

cheers xx

Thank you for the responses. A couple more questions I have after reading the forms.

Is form I-864 required to be submitted? Do I need to get a letter from my employer?

In instructions for I-485, it says on the back of the submitted photo write your "Alien Registration Number". Is that a number my fiancee would have or does that not apply (based on entering on a tourist visa)?

Thanks again for your responses, they are very helpful.

I-864 required... employment letter is one of several type of evidence you can supply

A# in your situation would currently be NONE

I thought it is illegal to get married on a tourist visa? So what's the point of getting a K1 visa if this is allowed?

I have just read about DCF online and I think this is the best solution!! Thanks very much for letting me know...I didn't know there can be an option like this..

I have some questions though hope you can help me out...

- There are 2 types of visa for spouses in HK:

1. Dependent visa - I will be the sponsor for my husband, meaning his visa will be dependent on me. This visa is conditional but He will be able to work and allowed to reside here until he gets his permanent residency after 7 years.

2. Hong Kong permanent resident - After 7 years of dependent visa he will be able to apply for Hong Kong permanent residency. He will be a HK ID card holder saying he has the right of abode in HK.

Would he be able to do DCF if he is on dependent visa? or does he need to be a Permanent Hong Kong resident before he can do the DCF? if he needs to be a permanent resident then it would take 7 long years... but then atleast we are together

Thanks very much.

You'll want to check with the U.S. Consulate in Hong Kong to be certain, but your future husband should be able to do DCF for your I-130 on a dependent visa. The general practice is that if the U.S. citizen is resident in a foreign country for six months or more, he is eligible for DCF at the embassy/consulate there.

Thanks so much I will have to discuss this with my Fiance.

Cheers

Better to think K1 or CR-1. Forget about the K3.

Hiya Haole

Yes I have been told. The best option is K1. Thanks.

Hi Ms. Dawn,

Its a case to case basis but from my experience, K1 was pretty easy, got approved less than 2 months (one of the fastest here).

Although I did see some similarities in our case, both of us are B2 holder, visited our bfs before filing for K1 (or K3 in your case). I even spent Christmas with his folks and bonded with them. So when it was time for us to file for K1, we sent pics showing me with his parents and him with my parents (when he visited me in the Phils). I guess USCIS got impressed as we didn't get RFE and got approved fast.

I could have moved to the US 3 months after filing but I delayed my interview at the Embassy and opted to spend more time with my parents in the Phils.

Whatever you decide, just make sure you and your fiance sign all forms correctly and send them pics of you and him with both sides of the family.

Goodluck!

Bluerose

Hello Bluerose

Thanks for your comment.

WOW that was pretty quick! I guess you got lucky... but as you've said its a case to case basis. My Fiance is planning to come to HK to visit me or stay with me for a few months we both don't know yet... Either way, we sure will take lotsa photos

K1 has always been my no. 1 option if ever we decide to live in the US. But when you think about the waiting time... I tend to get impatient or both of us... All we want is to be together doesn't matter where... Why does it have to be complicated eh? Believe it or not getting a visa for him in HK is as hard as getting a visa in the US. I think we just need to be patient at these times... what you can do for love!

Cheers to you and your hubby! (or soon to be) hehe

First of all, K3 has become increasingly irrelevant as IR-1/CR-1 processing times have come down considerably and are generally not much longer than the K3 processing time.

Second, regardless of whether you marry in HK or the US, you cannot enter on a tourist visa and then adjust status. When you enter on that tourist visa, you are certifying that you do not intend to stay in the US. If you enter with the intent of adjusting status, you are committing immigration fraud. This can lead to a lifetime ban from entry to the US.

Depending on how long your fiance intends to reside in HK, you might be eligible for direct consular filing (DCF) of an I-130 for CR-1 after you marry. DCF is by far the best option if it's available to you: it's fastest, cheapest, and results in a green card immediately—no adjustment of status required.

Hi Stephen + Elisha

Thank you so much for your comment.

In regards to my question, I understand adjusting of status directly in the US on a tourist visa will be considered as immig. fraud. I do not want to get banned from entry to the US! I just want to be with my Fiance... We both we want to be residence in HK and US so it won't be hard for us to decide where to settle down.

I have just read about DCF online and I think this is the best solution!! Thanks very much for letting me know...I didn't know there can be an option like this..

I have some questions though hope you can help me out...

- There are 2 types of visa for spouses in HK:

1. Dependent visa - I will be the sponsor for my husband, meaning his visa will be dependent on me. This visa is conditional but He will be able to work and allowed to reside here until he gets his permanent residency after 7 years.

2. Hong Kong permanent resident - After 7 years of dependent visa he will be able to apply for Hong Kong permanent residency. He will be a HK ID card holder saying he has the right of abode in HK.

Would he be able to do DCF if he is on dependent visa? or does he need to be a Permanent Hong Kong resident before he can do the DCF? if he needs to be a permanent resident then it would take 7 long years... but then atleast we are together

Thanks very much.

Hello there,

I made a trip to America in early August to meet my boyfriend whom I met online in Feb 2009. I stayed there for a week, get to meet his family, and had a really great time together. I know this is crazy and it seems like everything is abrupt... but when I was there he proposed and told me he wants us to be together as a couple...

My Fiance and I are discussing how we are going to be together and it doesn't matter to us who will move to where, either he moves to HK or I move to the US. All that matters is we are together. But still it seems very hard to decide which is easiest way to do for us to be together-- so we have 2 options.

Option No 1. We apply for a K1 visa and we get married in the US. Going this route I will have permission to enter the country with the intent of marriage, my permanent resident status should go smoother... BUT it will take forever and we not sure if it will get approved or denied.

Option No 2. My soon to be hubby wants quit his job and stay in HK and get married here. If we do this option and we both decide to move to America, this means (say we are already married) I wouldn't need to apply for a K1 visa. But instead I have to apply for a K3. According to what I have read online k1 and k3 visa processing are very similar AND it will still take us forever and yet again there is no assurance of getting the visa approved.

I have been approved of a tourist visa with 10 years multiple entry in the US. I am aware that there is a maximum (Less than a year) stay in the US. The only advantage of having a 10 yr multiple entry is that you don't need to apply for a visa to go to the US every time you want to visit.

Here is my question ...

Since I have already been given a B2 tourist visa with a 10 year multiple entry, say if we did option no. 2 and got married in HK but decided to move to America, would it be OK to enter the US with him on a tourist visa and then apply for AoS and work permit while I am staying in the US? Would they allow me to extend my stay while waiting for my visa?

PS:

I am a Phil. Passport holder but I am born in Hong Kong and a permanent resident.

I am a Filipina, never been married, no kids, very young (22 yrs old, (My BF is 29)) and have a good Job in HK... and yeah I am ready to leave all that just to be with me soon to be hubby incase we decide to move to the US (what love can do eh? haha ) We are clearly in love with each other so marriage fraud is way out of the picture.