Olive♥

In the new generations (in morocco) people do what they want more. Marry who they want even if it is not accepted by there family. The trend is becoming more modern in theyre thinking and less traditional. However if you are a guy in morocco, it would be normal for you to wait until you have a good income, maybe can buy a home, etc to support your own family, (before marrying) and thus it will take time and you will be a bit older by the time this happens for you. With a girl, her family might urge her to marry by the time she is 16-20 so that she will not date anyone (accept her fiance) so there is the answer to the older guy younger girl equasion. As for the older woman yonger man thing in morocco. Sometimes a girl (like here) just is not focused on having her own family and is not in a rush to leave her home. Or maybe her husband dies and she marries another guy who just happens to be younger (same as anywhere on earth) I know coming from the USA traditions it is hard for us to understand that ANYONE would not be as concious of the age differences as we or shall I say (american men) are. But they areant! truely they areent! I am 20 years older than my husband and he has never mentioned it or made me feel old. He thinks I am wonderful! And it was not a problem for our visa as well. For us the consulate seemed to just give us the usual hubub over little picky strange things that did not seem to make alot of sence to anyone but them. So we could not make sence of it. We just waited out our 2 mos or so in AP and got our visa 11 mos after I sent in our packet. On the CR1. It's been 2 years that my husband has been here now and it's great. I do not ever feel i was used for a visa and I never worry he wil leave me for any reason. I got my info about morocco from my husband so I have to believe he knows what he is talking about. As for american men LOL they can't help being the way they are conditioned to be. Life here seems to create some pretty selfish behavior (unfortunately) Thank god there are still countries where you can find a mate that is commitment minded still! Hurray for visa's!!!! Happy New Year Everyone!!!!! Olive

In the new generations (in morocco) people do what they want more. Marry who they want even if it is not accepted by there family. The trend is becoming more modern in theyre thinking and less traditional. However if you are a guy in morocco, it would be normal for you to wait until you have a good income, maybe can buy a home, etc to support your own family, (before marrying) and thus it will take time and you will be a bit older by the time this happens for you. With a girl, her family might urge her to marry by the time she is 16-20 so that she will not date anyone (accept her fiance) so there is the answer to the older guy younger girl equasion. As for the older woman yonger man thing in morocco. Sometimes a girl (like here) just is not focused on having her own family and is not in a rush to leave her home. Or maybe her husband dies and she marries another guy who just happens to be younger (same as anywhere on earth) I know coming from the USA traditions it is hard for us to understand that ANYONE would not be as concious of the age differences as we or shall I say (american men) are. But they areant! truely they areent! I am 20 years older than my husband and he has never mentioned it or made me feel old. He thinks I am wonderful! And it was not a problem for our visa as well. For us the consulate seemed to just give us the usual hubub over little picky strange things that did not seem to make alot of sence to anyone but them. So we could not make sence of it. We just waited out our 2 mos or so in AP and got our visa 11 mos after I sent in our packet. On the CR1. It's been 2 years that my husband has been here now and it's great. I do not ever feel i was used for a visa and I never worry he wil leave me for any reason. I got my info about morocco from my husband so I have to believe he knows what he is talking about. As for american men LOL they can't help being the way they are conditioned to be. Life here seems to create some pretty selfish behavior (unfortunately) Thank god there are still countries where you can find a mate that is commitment minded still! Hurray for visa's!!!! Happy New Year Everyone!!!!! Olive