kalika

I would reccomend councelling for both of you. Some men will outright refuse councelling, if he is this type then go without him. Keep in mind that YOU yourself may have changed (due to pregnancy hormones and changes in your situation happening so fast) and he may see these changes as something negative, remind him that you are pregnant and a lot of pregnant women refuse outright to have sex (it's different with every pregnancy, when I was pregnant with my girl I wanted sex all the time, I think it was the extra estrogen in my system, with my boys I couldn't care less whether I had sex or not). Things have changed drastically for both of you in the last year and the stress may be playing a big role with both of you. I've found with my fiance and I that whenever we have a row it's because there is some underlying reason that is causing stress to one or both of us. He may have something bothering him that he hasn't shared with you but may share with a councellor. Early marriage can be stressful as you are both adjusting to a new situation, the unexpected pregnancy also is a big stressor. He may be worried about supporting both of you adequitly. I hope you and your husband get the help you need to level out your marriage before your child is brought into the picture.

Grand Rapids isn't far from here. I'm in northern indiana, Elkhart County (one of the highest unemployment rates in the country) things aren't great here at the moment but we're still hopeful.

Danielle

Thanks for being so helpful.

So which part of Michigan. Mitten or UP?