KCinlove

I am so happy for you!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope my day will come

If anyone here has had a spouse come from Tunisia, could you please tell me EXACTLY what police documents I need to send with the DS230? My husband got his B3, is this sufficient? Thanks in advance!

My husband's police report came from the local police station..but make sure you start early because it took forever to recieve

omg someone help me.. i havent posted here since our interview because it hasent gone wel for us at all..

We had our interview on Wednesday February 17th,2010 at 7:15 am.. WE WERE THERE EARLY. (I CAME WITH MY HUSBAND TO THE INTERVIEW)

WE WAITED THERE AND WERE CALLED FOR THE FIRST TIME AT AROUND 9 AM:

well, the 1st time they called my husband was an ecuadorian young female spoke to my husband in spanish was very nice and just collected his paperwork. asked him basic questions about his spouse(ME). I didnt go up with him the first time. She asked him my full name,dob, where i lived how long were we married and if we had a honeymoon and looked at his ring. then she told him to go take fingerprints and have a seat. the second time we were called by the white lady who spoke horrible spanish btw.. we were holding hands as she asked us the questions. she asked if we had a honey moon, for how many days, where did we go, she looked at our honeymonn pics, didnt say anything about them, then asked if we had marriage rings and looked inside them. we were legally married on may 9th, 2009, but on our rings it said may 8,2009. (it was a mistake made by the jeweler which we didnt even realize until the day of the wedding whish is when we went to pick up the rings. so we explained that mistake to them. and that we havent fixed the date on the rings because we havent wnated to take them off and we really havent had the time. she then asked me until when i was staying in ecuador and i said till feb 25th. she then write something in front of our file and stuck it under 2 other ppls files. and she said ok have a seat. we then were called for the 3rd time at around 3 pm. i went up with my husband. it was an older ecuadorian woman, very cold, super serious. she saw me and told me to go wait upstairs, that she would ask my husband some questions first. about 30-40 minutes go by and she calls me down and my husband goes up. she started askin me questions like wats my husband full name, dob, how we first met. since when we have been dating, when we got engaged, did he give me an engagement ring, (which he did, but i honestly lost it & i did tell her that) she wanted dates. i gave her approximates(like for example i said he gave me an engagement ring on last week of january.) i couldn't recall exactly when it was, but i knew it was the last week of jan so thats what i told her. if he had gone to my house to ask for my hand in marriage and when. (again i only gave estimates) where was the wedding held, how many ppl went, did we had invitations or just word of mouth, our was just about 25-30 ppl. my husband said about 25 ppl and i said about 30 so i dont know if that means we goi this question wrong or not?? how much did the whole party cost and what did it cover? did we have a dj? who paid for the wedding? how much were the wedding rings and who paid for them? husband said 250 when i said 350!! i told them they were 350 but since he didnt pay for it maybe he forgot.. what current methods of bc are we using, we both said none. *NOTE* that question she asked us both about 3 times during the whole interview.. super random, very wierd though. she also asked when was the last time we had sex,(which I thnk is about too much information & invasion of privacy) we answered a couple of hrs ago.. lol... where are we staying. we gave the name of the hotel and the reciept.. she asked where did we stay for our first night as husband and wife. wat time the party ended. wat gifts did we recieve from family and friends, were my parents present at our wedding?( my mom was) and after the wedding were did we stay.. and that was it. i could of sworn we got it cuz we answered everything right exept for those 2 questions. but we were sure and we are a REAL couple and very much in love. and no matter how prepared you are you cant help to get nervous and im guessing thats what got the best of us, and they probably percieved it as us lying... i really dont know what to do... AT THE END THEY CALLED MY HUSBAND BACK UP AND GAVE HIM A BLUE SLIP AND SAID, GO TO DHL AND THEY WILL TELL U WHAT TO DO. [...] I DUNNO IF WE WERE APPROVED OR DENIED OR WHAT. THEY DIDNT ASK FOR ANY MORE EVIDENCE. THEY KEPT ALL THE PAPERWORK MY HUSBAND GAVE TO THEM INCLUDING HIS PASSPORT.

I emailed the consulate on March 01st and this is the reply they gave me:

We suggest you to contact DHL service in Ecuador. Our office sent an explanation letter, informing you that Mr. XXXXXX’ immigrant visa petition is being returned to the Department of Homeland Security (DHS) through the National Visa Center with a request that they revoke approval of this petition. The NVC then forwards the case to the DHS office that approved the I-130 petition. DHS will now have jurisdiction over your case and further inquiries should be directed to them.

omg... i am so worried. what the hell happened!!??? i am so depressed!! how do i contact the DHS to speed up our case??? honestly if i have no word from our case till the end of next month, im going to ecuador to be with my husband... WE DONT NEED THE GOD DAMN VISA TO BE TOGETHER AND I HONESTLY CAN'T BE ALONE ANY LONGER WITHOUT MY HUSBAND. i just applied for the visa for him because i wanted him to be here with me and assumed we would be together alot quicker. and since i have a good job, i wanted him to come here, both of us work for 2-3 years save up money and invest in a business in ecuador and all move back to ecuador. thank god im a citizen though so i can go see him whenever i want but its such an inconvenience because i work. but if it means quitting my job and living in ecuador with my husband i will do it. i just dont understand why the us consulate in guayaquil is run so poorly and treats people like there garbage!

I understand your pain!!! My husband interview was on Feb 18th and the consular actually told my husband that he does not love me and he feels i am being paid for my husband to come to america....I have been sick every since and have not been able to move forward... I envy you for actually being able to go stay with your husband...I have a 9 year old daughter and know i couldnt liive without her and she couldnt be comfortable in a new country. At this time i assume it is time for me to start checking on whats next but i am definitely planning a trip back to tunisia. If you find any info that may benifit me as well please share...but for now good luck!!!

If you haven't piled up LOTS of evidence of you guys having a bonafide marriage then start NOW.

Won't help much right away tho.

Bank accounts, wills, life insurance, more trips with LOTS of pictures of you, him, friends and family.

More daily communication records such as daily phone call records plus emails and chats.

Make a trip to see him ASAP.

Praying may make you feel better but actions count more.

I have thought about moving and i know he would absolutely fine with this idea but i have 2 concerns....One I have a 9 year old daughter and we have been together my ehol adult life so her staying here couldnt be a option and also once you finally have the visa...what in the world comes next, we come to america and dont have anything!! If has moved and come back can you tell me how it was coming back to the us

Thank you to everyone again! I just spoke to the interviewer again and I can say now I truly hate him! He doesnt have a care in the world and could care less about how I feel and how this process has changed everything in my world. I am trying to get ready for the wait but it is unbelievable that I am in this place. Please dont feel sorry for me but please pray for me because this is truly what i need right now.. I need peace that everything is still going to be ok for as long as i takes

I just need somebody to help me understand what proof do you provide that his brother is not paying me for him to come to america...and that we are in love

i am so sorry, my heart breaks for you did they give your husband a sheet of paper (221 g)? it will help tell you the next action to take.

Yes the paper just says that he was denied because he feels he is coming to america because his brother wants him here...and it says our paper work is going back too nvc. I dont even know what to gather up...how do you prove that it is not his brothers gain but my gain...how do you prove they didnt give me money or make my life any different because of my husband. I really already know this is something i cant even deal with today but truly how do you muster up the strength and patience to continue to wait when you could taste the wait being over!!!

My husband was denied because i met him through his family..the man said he believes i am being used to come to the US and he believes that i recieving money to bring him here. I truly am lost for word i dont know if i have the fight in me to continue with this process. I love my husband so much i have prepared so much for his arrival and now i just feel stupid that i could be waiting another year for MY husband! I really dont know what to do..i feel so depressed. Any help will be grateful

lovey tvivle and KCinlove... BRING HOME THE PINK!

PINK IS DEFINITELY GOING TO BE OUR COLOR!!!!

CONGRATULATIONS...MY HUSBAND INTERVIEW IS TOMORROW ...ANY FURTHER TIPS???

MY HUSBANDS INTERVIEW IS FEBRUARY 18TH 11:30...5 MORE DAYS !!

Hello...My husband has his interview coming up this month and i plan for him to be here by march but we will be living in Hampton VA..what part of Virginia are you located??

February 18th at 11am We can wait!!

Just recieved my interview letter for February 18th

Wow.. I hope my husband's interveiw go as smoothly! Glad to finally see someone else in tunisia. Congratulations!!

this pic was when we headed out to get married it was very calm and comfortable moment

Hello everyone... Has anyone else had any problems getting the pcc, my husband has been waiting for the last 2 months . Is there some where else he should go besides the police station?? This is truly holding us up!!!

thanks, randy, u 2.

immigration was put in my life to teach me patience, lol.

I feel the same way but I hate learning patience i am truly miserable!!!

We are doing CR1 and everything has been moving smooth up until it was time for police report...My husband has been going to the police station everyday for the last 2 months waiting for his police report and they continue tell him to wait. The crazy thing is he used to be a police officer What in the h!@# is the problem. It is the worst feeling to know one piece of paper can hold your future up. Has anybody else had this problem???

Ours took 14 days ...it will come dont worry

Hello friends. I am now a member of the NVC September group, and I got to tell you, it feels great!! Called NVC few minutes ago, they got my case today, and I was able to get my Case number from them. I feel sooooo blessed and happy.

Congratulations!! I just checked and nvc recieved my case on Sep 24 but they are closed until Monday so I cant give them my email address do you think monday will be too late and they will send all my info through snail mail??

CONGRATULATIONS