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Hello again fellow Canuck VJers.
I have a little issue to deal with
Im having doubts about starting the K-1 process. We were supposed to start it on the 31st of this month. Let me explain:
Both of us are in a very tight financial spot...him way more so than me though. So, it is me that is going to be paying for this ENTIRE thing. So I have (judging by other's timelines') appx 6-7 months to pay off my $3000 visa, and pay for the - im assuming around - $2000 in total cost of the K-1. (Including AOS, medical, and all....I will have to save it up before I move because of the no working thing for a few months). On top of this, I have to take a used to be friend of mine to small claims court by Oct for $1,200. I only make $10.00 an hour, 65-80 hours every 2 weeks. So needless to say, im going to be VERY much so hurtin in the cash department for a VERY long time. And since I wont have money to fly out to see him because of this..more than likely we won't be seeing eachother until moving day. It's so stressful on my end...words cannot describe. But I suppose the bags under my eyes can do all the talking.
That being said - heres the reasoning for my doubts. We argue - everyday. The way I look at it is: im moving countries for us, on top of paying for THE WHOLE THING. He should treat me like a princess, right? He says I don't see his point of views...but he can be a little bit of a jerk sometimes. He admits to it after we argue though (typical man). When we are together, it's wonderful. We are so in love...we feel perfect for eachother. In person he is a wonderful man - a complete gentleman. He would do anything for me - this I know.
But all this argueing...I cannot handle it any longer. Im so stressed about all this money I need to magicly conjure up. For example, here is our arguement for today via text's. I was at work, it was his day off. We pay $15 a month for world of warcraft. My time ran out today, but I get payed in 3 days so I was going to renew it on friday. He offered to pay for it, and I asked him to put it twords the I-129F fee that im supposed to be paying for at the end of the month. I mean, it's better than nothing. $15 is alot to me right now...im sure we can live without playing WoW together for 3 days...
I just realized I deleted the text's
. But it was basicly I spend too much money on myself ( I bought some fish...and I get my nails done twice a month..LOL) and I need to watch my money and him giving me $15 is nothing...and it's obvious I dont want to spend time in WoW with him and that apparently that is me telling him how to spend his money.Thats just a little example. On top of the - he fights with me when I go out with my friends...just alot of stupid little arguements like that. The arguement today really made me upset. One, I was at work, two - who the HELL does he think he is giving me ####### for money when im paying for everything for us. And I can't even afford, but im still doing it.
So im having severe doubts. I feel like he dosn't care about me as much as I do him...or he isn't looking at this in a very serious matter. I feel...distanced, like im not even in a relationship anymore. I love him..and I want to be with him. Iv heard people never change...and iv experienced this first hand with men. Do you think it's because of the distance that he argues with me like this? Or am I about to make a huge mistake? Im so scared to move...that il be stuck in Florida wondering why I did what I did.
Appologies for the novel, thank you for reading
Ddont do it ...........mo women should ever have to pay for a guy anything ..................if he really loses u he will come up with the money...........plus u argue to much....its est tp let him go now and be hurt then to let him go later then to be hurt for life ................let him gooooooooooooooo !
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Hello everybody,I googled- my wife just got her citizenship and left me. (I also adopted her son 6 months ago BTW) I was directed to this website with a somewhat similar case. My wife did not get mean and say it was business. She did say it was a bad time in her life when we met and she still sees what a wonderful person I am after about 8 years of marriage... That being said and done when you enter into a relationship you must look at things for what they are. I'm babbling, it's only been a few days and I am drunk. I don't hate her just wish she would have been more honest with me from the beginning. Maybe it wouldn't have hurt so bad after living a fairy tale. Nobody I know understands. Just thought I would post on here because it sounds like some of you here have had similar problems. She realized that she can't be who she was for me any more and doesn't want to take everything from me. It's just sad. I feel like this could happen to anybody, please tell me that nobody can put on such an act after so long. There was so many things going against us and it just didn't work. I really want to beleive that
You all ................open ur eyessssssssss yessssssssssssss they all want their green cards, don't you get it ??????
All you out there going for this love on line ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,its bull.........u can;t love somebody over the net ,u need to live with them and see their action before u spend all the time and money to let them come over here.
if the US gov takes its time to approve it let them go , there is something wrong if u like it or not !!!!!
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Myself, I would be more likely to try being GAY.
Rather down about american women, huh?
Since there is no hyperlink, can't look at the survey, but I'd doubt there is much diff between long-term marriage survival whether one spouse is an immigrant or not.
dvc
It was a joke (sort of, I simply am not interested in being Gay) I did see a survey where American man/Ukrainian woman marriages had an 81% 10 year "success rate" and American/American marriages were about 50%. Not sure how scientifically accurate it was. Interesting anyway.
As soon as those women from the Ukrain get americanized they r no better.
I am not American either and i know !!!!
American men want it all ......they want a women that cookes ,cleans and is a good ####### .
Well he will get that in a ukrainien women until she has her green card then she will be by by !!!
U can;t have it all american men!!!!!!!!!!!! It just does not work!!!!! LOL LOL LOL
If you were nicer to the american ones u could be happy as well !
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I did searched and read some stories about petition cancelation. I wonder how many are result of maybe that person might not be the one after all. I'm not saying that's the case for me, not saying we don't have issues, but hopefully those can be resolved. Which one of you have this experience of canceling the petition because of this reason. Regardless of who is at fault, did you regret about canceling or regret you chose perhaps the wrong person? And will you do it all over again if you can find the one. I'm just curious because I know a friend that did exactly that. He brought a girl over to the U.S. from Vietnam. It was great at first, but after filing the petition, things went downhill. I didn't get the whole detail from him, but he said it was a big mistake. He regret ever having to do all of this. The waste of time, great deal of money, and the emotional pain he gone through. He said he will never go back to find a spouse. He's going to find one in the states. He knew about the fiancee will soon go to an interview. He just told me to be sure and careful. What he said got me curious. So which is why I am asking this here. I would like to hear your stories.
You got to remember....when you meet on line there is no way u can be close to somebody as if u meet in person and live together for a while.
Everything sounds good for people on line because u can say what u want and i m sure u feel different then when u r together in person.
Life is not easy ,no matter how u turn it to begin with and to get used to each other and work out problems it takes a special partner to do so.
I believe couples run into a relationship to fast and then they realize that the other one was not the one they love anyhow.
It all sounds so good before u meet and those 2-3 times u meet in their country only shows the good side.
I cancled my petiton though i knew him in person and met him here in the US .We talked for almost 2 years after that on line while we were waiting for the K1 visa but when he stopped talking to me for weeks i realized he did not love me and just wanted the green card perhaps.
I just thank god that i felt that coming on or i would have been one unhappy women.
This was not the first time this happend to me .Both were from arab countries and both just wanted the green card.I was looking for love and fell for the smooth talk just as i wanted .
I m not from US either and married a American in my first marriage .I married him because i loved him .
It was no problems getting my green card because i think the embassy knows who is honest and who is not .
Thanks for the smart people at the embassy who make u wait for a long time so u can see the truth about being used or not !!
We all want to be loved but best is always to stay with your own people in your own country because they think and act like you.
The gras is not greener on the other side,some times is worse.
God bless all of the women and men that r going trough visa journey and hope they have a happy life with those they love !
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wow, thank all of you for your prejudgements. its so good to see how many people on the internet have such high moral standing. as far as whats best for MY CHILD, i think being with both it's parents is on that list. and perhaps i should have gotten into further detail about my 4 month marriage that ended in LEGAL separation because my husband decided he was a homosexual. in a forum where EVERYONE faces scrutiny about the legitimacy of thier relationships, i expected far more compassion and understanding... and i suppose i'm much better off contacting an attorney than listening to the advice of "online counsel". good luck to you all.
All i can say.....have ur baby and leave the ####### alone.
He wants ur green card and that is all .
U should have been smarter not to get pregnant and put a child into this world that is already misseable .
Ur x being homosexual has nothing to do with this ,
i feel sorry u have to deal with the x and this pregnancy but it was not a smart idea .
the best u can do is just have the baby and leave Marroco alone .
There is still good men in USA .
Plus ...anhy women going to a Middle Eastern country to see a man is not very smart anyhow.That jsut shows how desperatre they are to get a man .
Get your life straigth and love yourself first before you can trust a man again anyhow .
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wow, thank all of you for your prejudgements. its so good to see how many people on the internet have such high moral standing. as far as whats best for MY CHILD, i think being with both it's parents is on that list. and perhaps i should have gotten into further detail about my 4 month marriage that ended in LEGAL separation because my husband decided he was a homosexual. in a forum where EVERYONE faces scrutiny about the legitimacy of thier relationships, i expected far more compassion and understanding... and i suppose i'm much better off contacting an attorney than listening to the advice of "online counsel". good luck to you all.
All i can say.....have ur baby and leave the ####### alone.
He wants ur green card and that is all .
U should have been smarter not to get pregnant and put a child into this world that is already misseable .
Ur x being homosexual has nothing to do with this ,
i feel sorry u have to deal with the x and this pregnancy but it was not a smart idea .
the best u can do is just have the baby and leave Marroco alone .
There is still good men in USA .
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Hi everyone
My interview went really good but the sad thing is the CO gaves me my passport back .
I arrived to the USA embassy in Cairo at 6:15 kinda early there were about 5 or 6 people there .
At 6:45 they asked us to form 2 lines one for immigration visa and one for non immigration visa.
and there were so many people at that time .At 7 am they let us in and they gave us numbers and check our packages and they took cell phone mp3 players.................
and they told us to wait in the visa unit .
At 7:30 they start to work and calling numbers .And at 8:05 they called my number it was an Egyptian woman .she sounds like she doesn't know anything about anything she asked me for my medical exam and for the visa receipt i was like huh i sent them in packet 3 and then she checked my packet and she said oohh i thought you are DV visa i said its ok and then she asked me did you get married i was like NO
?!!!!! she took my birth certificate and the amry certifivcte and then she asked me to go and pay for DHL (67 LE)and then to go back and sit down for awhile. and then at 9:10 they called my number again it was very nice American woman in her 30's and she took my fingers prints and she asked me to go back and sit down for a while and they will call me again
I was praying to have that woman again cause when i was waiting there were 2 American men (CO) and it seems like they were giving problems to every one and they were yelling so much and they even were calling Egyptian assistance to let those people go
At 10:30 they called my number again and it was the same American woman .
she didn't ask me if i want the interview in English or Arabic cause i was talking to her in English when she was taking my finger prints .
she says well i was reading your petition and i want you to tel me your story and i started to tell her our story since i met my queen till today and she was listening and typing on her computer .after i done she asked me some questions like :-
1-When and how did you meet?
2-How many times have you met?
3-What are the dates of the visits?
4-What does she do for a living? and explain what does she really do ?!!!!!
5-Do you know how long she has had this job?
6-When did she divorce her ex-husband?
7-Does your fiancée have any children?
8-Do you plan to have a family and children?
9-Where and when were you engaged? why you didn't get married when she was here in April of 2007? and she starts to act like the doesn't know anything about the marriage form !!!!!!
10-whar do you do for living? explian what do you really do ? what your company import ?!!!!!
11-What company does she work for and what is her title?
12-what do you love about your fiancée?
13-what do you have in commen?
14-why your finance's firts marriage did not work out ?
15-Does she has a car?
16-do you know when did they hire her ?
17-do you have any relatives or friends in USA?
18-Does she live by her own or with her family ?
19-why she didn't come to visit you last year (2008)
20-when did you get that job?
and i tried to show her our pictures,Emails,gifts recpiets.......she was like its ok i have enough . and she gave me my passport back and she said i need to do some AR and she gave me a yellow paper i was like
she was like its ok . its normal i asked her how long it will take she said hopefully 2 weeks !!!!!!! and she said we will call you and ask you to send your passport to us.she asked me if i wantto telll her anything esle and i start to talk about how much i love my queen and we really had enough bad luck and we want to be together ..................
so it seems like they put everyone in AP i really don't know why ??!!!
so now i will joing everyone who is waiting in the waiting room .
If your fiance is older don;t count on them being fast.
They went to his home 3 monts later and investigated everything ,
then it took 3 more month after calling them a few times to give us any info at all .
That was 16 months ago and still no visa .
Don;t count on the Cairo Embassy to go fast.
Eveybody has different circumstance but get ready for a long wait .
We finally gave up and decided not to get married and just stay friend.
It
Its a gracy wait and in the end not worth it !
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Prime Minister Kevin Rudd - Australia
Muslims who want to live under Islamic Sharia law were told on Wednesday to get out of Australia , as the government targeted radicals in a bid to head off potential terror attacks..
Separately, Rudd angered some Australian Muslims on Wednesday by saying he supported spy agencies monitoring the nation's mosques. Quote:
'IMMIGRANTS, NOT AUSTRALIANS, MUST ADAPT. Take It Or Leave It. I am tired of this nation worrying about whether we are offending some individual or their culture. Since the terrorist attacks on Bali , we have experienced a surge in patriotism by the majority of Australians. '
'This culture has been developed over two centuries of struggles, trials and victories by millions of men and women who have sought freedom'
'We speak mainly ENGLISH, not Spanish, Lebanese, Arabic, Chinese, Japanese, Russian, or any other language. Therefore, if you wish to become part of our society . Learn the language!'
'Most Australians believe in God. This is not some Christian, right wing, political push, but a fact, because Christian men and women, on Christian principles, founded this nation, and this is clearly documented. It is certainly appropriate to display it on the walls of our schools. If God offends you, then I suggest you consider another part of the world as your new home, because God is part of our culture.'
'We will accept your beliefs, and will not question why. All we ask is that you accept ours, and live in harmony and peaceful enjoyment with us.'
'This is OUR COUNTRY, OUR LAND, and OUR LIFESTYLE, and we will allow you every opportunity to enjoy all this. But once you are done complaining, whining, and griping about Our Flag, Our Pledge, Our Christian beliefs, or Our Way of Life, I highly encourage you take advantage of one other great Australian freedom, 'THE RIGHT TO LEAVE'.'
'If you aren't happy here then LEAVE. We didn't force you to come here. You asked to be here. So accept the country YOU accepted.'
Maybe if we circulate this amongst ourselves, WE will find the courage to start speaking and voicing the same truths.
If you agree please SEND THIS ON and ON to as many people as you know
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Kevin hit the nail right on the head.
Amen !!!!!!!!
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Link
"What is the chance that alien life exists? Nasa's latest mission - the Kepler Space Telescope due to launch on Friday night to survey the heavens for Earth-like planets - could soon give us an answer. Kathryn Westcott asks four experts whether mankind prefers the idea of being alone and unique or whether we long for cosmic cousins."
The intro to quite a long article for those interested in speculating about the nature of space etc.
there is life out there because i have seen a UFO about 50 feet away from me sitting on top a tree.
Believe it or not . I know what i know and maybe u all get lucky enough to see it some day too.
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Sadly the marriege is not working out anymore. We recently sent in the AOS... Now my wife suddenly has become a strict Jehovahs's Witness. The marriage was in good faith but we do not get along have different outlooks on life. Wat can I do? I dont wanna have the feeling that i would have to give into her views just cuz i do not have papers. She wants me to become Jehovah Witness.. even threatened me once or twice i dunno if it was jokingly or seriously...
There we go again.........he wants to get out now.......the same old story!!
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looks like every time a marriage does not work out between the man who come to marry our so great ,loving women in the USA they call us grazy. R we all nuts????? We have to be cause we give them the green card to begin with and go though all the pain and waiting for years . That should be a good sign we r nuts . Therefore u should not marry us cause the writing is written on the wall.Please I do not want any one to jugde me for no reason... All I am asking for is a piece of advice on what to do right now...I created this new account to remain anonymous.Ok my wife is crazy, yes she is crazy, we met online back in 2004 everything was going good we were both loving it all that in a nut shell we decided to get married, when I gat over here I found out a lot of things that she didn't tell me. Ok first of all she didn't tell me she has a mental disorder called Schizoprenia not until I experience one of her episodes and that was like 10days after I gat over here, I didn't like what I saw. I confronted her about it and she told me she didn't tell me because if she had told me I might not have married her...
Now we have been leaving together now for 2years and its been one problem to another, everything that we do is what she tells her mum is like I am married to her mum cus her mum makes the decison for her, when I say everything I mean everything she even tells her mum if we made love with or without a condom.....Also I'd like to ask y'all if you are married is it true that you can't make friends with the opposit sex ??? Because thats what her parents says, that I shouldn't hang around with single men, we are both young under 25...............Her family sees me as a bad guy which I am not, they have a problem with the way I dress who I talk to and who I don't talk to and also wants me to take her everywhere I go like if I had to run to store I have to ask her would you like to come I agree take her places but everywhere ???or if a friend says come hang out with me I must take her along....You can imagine she doesn't have friends, don't have a liecense, she always in the house, now this is not my fault that she doesn't have friends or liecense but for some reasons she thinks its my fault
The point I am trying to make her is that there is no trust between us two, she and her mum always thinks I am cheating on her and its not like she has ever caught talking to some girl. OK there is guy she said she's "working" for and all that and the calls her like every 2hrs even up to 1AM in the morning and she will be on the phone with him, I never questioned her or anything because I do trust her, but why is it so hard for her to trust me.....I have to talk to her like I am talking to a 6yrs old girl .This is not the first time this is happening.... She always says I don't talk to her and I spend more time with my friend than I do her which is a fat lie, whenver I say something to her she doesn't give me a good advice and this is because of her disorder like if I need to talk to my wife about anything I can't because it's like talking to a brick wall and whatever I say don't say this to anybody this is between you and I and I want it to remain a secret, the first things she does is call her mum and tell her mum what I say DO NOT TELL ANYONE, she does something bad in a minutes and the next minutes she turns around and I say I don't remember saying or doing that .. I am honestly tired of this married, this isn't what I signed up for, the mistake we both made was when she came to visit me back in Africa she only stayed for 8days that didn't give me time to know her very well in person and what she does and stuffs.... I really don't know what to do at this point and everything I say complain about something she's doing or not doing her mum will say because I have my green card now that's why I am saying that and honestly its not...... Not only I am not happy with marriage my life is in danger too because her sister threatened me that she will get someone to iron me out...its obvious I am living among people that don't like me and before things gets outta hand or anyone gets hurts I want to be out of here, I am so far away from home and I have a family that loves me so dearly..... There are lots of things I'd like to put down here, I am not myself right now
If you were in my shoes what would you do... I am only 24yrs old
U get what u deserve !!!!!!
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Please I do not want any one to jugde me for no reason... All I am asking for is a piece of advice on what to do right now...I created this new account to remain anonymous.
Ok my wife is crazy, yes she is crazy, we met online back in 2004 everything was going good we were both loving it all that in a nut shell we decided to get married, when I gat over here I found out a lot of things that she didn't tell me. Ok first of all she didn't tell me she has a mental disorder called Schizoprenia not until I experience one of her episodes and that was like 10days after I gat over here, I didn't like what I saw. I confronted her about it and she told me she didn't tell me because if she had told me I might not have married her...
Now we have been leaving together now for 2years and its been one problem to another, everything that we do is what she tells her mum is like I am married to her mum cus her mum makes the decison for her, when I say everything I mean everything she even tells her mum if we made love with or without a condom.....Also I'd like to ask y'all if you are married is it true that you can't make friends with the opposit sex ??? Because thats what her parents says, that I shouldn't hang around with single men, we are both young under 25...............Her family sees me as a bad guy which I am not, they have a problem with the way I dress who I talk to and who I don't talk to and also wants me to take her everywhere I go like if I had to run to store I have to ask her would you like to come I agree take her places but everywhere ???or if a friend says come hang out with me I must take her along....You can imagine she doesn't have friends, don't have a liecense, she always in the house, now this is not my fault that she doesn't have friends or liecense but for some reasons she thinks its my fault
The point I am trying to make her is that there is no trust between us two, she and her mum always thinks I am cheating on her and its not like she has ever caught talking to some girl. OK there is guy she said she's "working" for and all that and the calls her like every 2hrs even up to 1AM in the morning and she will be on the phone with him, I never questioned her or anything because I do trust her, but why is it so hard for her to trust me.....I have to talk to her like I am talking to a 6yrs old girl .This is not the first time this is happening.... She always says I don't talk to her and I spend more time with my friend than I do her which is a fat lie, whenver I say something to her she doesn't give me a good advice and this is because of her disorder like if I need to talk to my wife about anything I can't because it's like talking to a brick wall and whatever I say don't say this to anybody this is between you and I and I want it to remain a secret, the first things she does is call her mum and tell her mum what I say DO NOT TELL ANYONE, she does something bad in a minutes and the next minutes she turns around and I say I don't remember saying or doing that .. I am honestly tired of this married, this isn't what I signed up for, the mistake we both made was when she came to visit me back in Africa she only stayed for 8days that didn't give me time to know her very well in person and what she does and stuffs.... I really don't know what to do at this point and everything I say complain about something she's doing or not doing her mum will say because I have my green card now that's why I am saying that and honestly its not...... Not only I am not happy with marriage my life is in danger too because her sister threatened me that she will get someone to iron me out...its obvious I am living among people that don't like me and before things gets outta hand or anyone gets hurts I want to be out of here, I am so far away from home and I have a family that loves me so dearly..... There are lots of things I'd like to put down here, I am not myself right now
If you were in my shoes what would you do... I am only 24yrs old
If you miss your family in South Africa so much and it is not working out here and is unsafe...then leave.
I would say "go home!"
you and a lot of you guys think USA is haven.
Think again....the grass is not greener on the other side? You painted green !!
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Has anybody had any problems with a K1 Visa because of a big age difference between the couple? Being the woman way older than the man.
Yes and if u were smart u would stop it now ..........he wants the green card !
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should i start an exciting thread? oh wait, i dont have any drama
it will come to u too ,just give it some time .
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I would like to find honest women that have been used by men for the green card and
tell their story so others in visa process can learn and maybe think about it twice before they let a total stranger
come into their life's and ruin it.
Do you think there will be something common in these relationships so these stories would benefit others?
You don;t know a person unless you live with them for a while and see how they act.This is true. Unfortunately, circumstances don't always allow people to live together first. Add religion into the equation and "living together" is completely out.
Please don;t jump into something u don;t know.What more do you think someone should know?
It all turns out to be a fake sooner or later.I disagree.
I have 3 friends who married arabic men and were married for years until they got their education , then they leftthem without a word even tho they seemed to be happy.
Do you know any other friends who married "arabic" (which is a language, by the way) men and weren't used for a green card?
I do.
They never heard of them again .Never. Not even for the divorce papers.
Don;t fool yourself , be careful and don;t get hurt in the end!How is someone fooling themself?
By believing all the niece things they say ..........we all need to be loved and want to be loved ......we r impatient and lonly and we go on line to find love instead of going to social events or friend.... they promise us the skies and we want it to be true but deep in our hearts we know they r lying to us ,tho we hope for better and in the end its all fake .
Eeven those who are happy now.......it will come to u too .
they always end up with their own women because we don;t obey their rules .
Face it women ........we r independent and they need dependent women ....one that does as they say.
I RARELY comment but I felt the need to say something here. YES we want to be loved But I TOTALLY disagree that all women are impatient and lonely and not capable of making sound decisions. I am 35 years old and at my age, I know perfectly well when someone is telling me what I want to here and blowing smoke up my A@@. I personally did not meet my husband online so I wouldn't be able to comment on that experience. But men can pick up on insecurities via computer or face to face and if some of these women are PRESENTING themselves in a manner that appears desperate, sometimes men will prey on that. We do have indications of when things are not going well and if a woman chooses to stay in a situation that she knows is bad, That would be HER fault. Not every man is out for a Green Card, there are men out here who do love their wives. I am an independent woman and I have no problem in my marriage. There are no "RULES" to obey. We are adults and should be able to communicate our needs to our mates... Likes and dislikes. You respect one another and give each other common courtesy and honor your vows. Sorry if someone you know was hurt by someone from a MENA Country but to say that WE ARE ALL going to be hurt later down the road is a HUGE generalization.
God bless u and ur marriage !!!!!!
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I would like to find honest women that have been used by men for the green card and
tell their story so others in visa process can learn and maybe think about it twice before they let a total stranger
come into their life's and ruin it.
Do you think there will be something common in these relationships so these stories would benefit others?
You don;t know a person unless you live with them for a while and see how they act.This is true. Unfortunately, circumstances don't always allow people to live together first. Add religion into the equation and "living together" is completely out.
Please don;t jump into something u don;t know.What more do you think someone should know?
It all turns out to be a fake sooner or later.I disagree.
I have 3 friends who married arabic men and were married for years until they got their education , then they leftthem without a word even tho they seemed to be happy.
Do you know any other friends who married "arabic" (which is a language, by the way) men and weren't used for a green card?
I do.
They never heard of them again .Never. Not even for the divorce papers.
Don;t fool yourself , be careful and don;t get hurt in the end!How is someone fooling themself?
By believing all the niece things they say ..........we all need to be loved and want to be loved ......we r impatient and lonly and we go on line to find love instead of going to social events or friend.... they promise us the skies and we want it to be true but deep in our hearts we know they r lying to us ,tho we hope for better and in the end its all fake .
Eeven those who are happy now.......it will come to u too .
they always end up with their own women because we don;t obey their rules .
Face it women ........we r independent and they need dependent women ....one that does as they say.
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Although it is not right what he did, just consider yourself VERY LUCKY you didn't petition for him to come to the states. Don't beat yourself up. It could have much much worse.
Good luck Monica.
I always promised myself that I would never let something like this happen to me. I'm always cautious with the people I meet in real life and those I meet online.. I'm paranoid in a lot of things and am always careful with what I do. I let him in and this is what I got, now I'm stuck trying to make ends meet. I know that I will be fine, eventually. I really hope he gets what he deserves. I would be lying if I said that I don't want to get revenge cause I do, I really do, maybe with time the revenge thing will go away. I'm still left with wanting to visit Cairo someday not for revenge but because I'm really interested in going there. I wonder how many times he's done this before? I feel like I should post his picture with a warning attached to it so no one will come near him.
Thank you to every one of you, I wish all of you the best in your Visa Journey.
-Monica
Monica ,if u want to do other women a favor post his pic on here because i think he is trying to get other women in different countries .
I been dealing with the same thing... i was waiting for K1 for 2 years and all those promises how he just loves me and not the green card .
Bull.............. its all about them......and for those who think they will be happy........ good luck to u all .....only they will never tell what really happend to then ..because i know a lot of women on here that have been there and going through it right now.... only they r married already and have to deal with abuse .What r u women looking for? A man without a job and no money? Don't fool yourself .....even if they r Dr.s ..its not the same as here.
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I would like to find honest women that have been used by men for the green card and
tell their story so others in visa process can learn and maybe think about it twice before they let a total stranger
come into their life's and ruin it.
You don;t know a person unless you live with them for a while and see how they act.
Please don;t jump into something u don;t know.
It all turns out to be a fake sooner or later.
I have 3 friends who married arabic men and were married for years until they got their education , then they left
them without a word even tho they seemed to be happy.
They never heard of them again .
Don;t fool yourself , be careful and don;t get hurt in the end!
I want peace
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