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  1. how they can know if our relation is real or just because green card ?

    what mean make sure relation ship is valid ??

    It means that they are taking additional time to review and research your case. I.E. making sure your relationship is valid, doing background, name and police clearances.

    It can be as little as a week or even a couple of years (in worst cases).

    Everyone's situation is different and there are no guarantees as to how long AP will be or when it will end.

    I call this THE BLACK HOLE. It is truly the worst but if you are enduring this my prayers are with you and keep your patience, your answer will come.

    (F)

    It means making sure that your relationship with your fiancee is real and you are not just using her for a greencard.

  2. what mean make sure relation ship is valid ??

    It means that they are taking additional time to review and research your case. I.E. making sure your relationship is valid, doing background, name and police clearances.

    It can be as little as a week or even a couple of years (in worst cases).

    Everyone's situation is different and there are no guarantees as to how long AP will be or when it will end.

    I call this THE BLACK HOLE. It is truly the worst but if you are enduring this my prayers are with you and keep your patience, your answer will come.

    (F)

  3. yes about that friend and about islamic mariege plus me was fight in school and brok nose of a boy he was touch me bad and me become angry so much angry and god give me so much power and me beat him until blood go away

    what they tchek in AP AFTER INTERVIE?

    You are in AP. There is no time limit,....weeks, months..... You may want to call DOS bi-weekly and e mail the embassy.

    With Casa, it's usually a name check. You are worried that they will check to see if you are still enrolled in school? Or something more serious?

  4. just want know how counsula work to know if infomation give is treu or false and who they ask to know the information because friend tell me they tell him after intervie and take his passport will do background cheks about his relation with his fainceee in his city what they will ask and who will ask in his city?

    Beneficiary has to provide criminal record checks for all places where he/she lived for more than 6 months after 17.

    :guides:

    Why the question?

  5. i cant undrestane what u want say friend

    somone tell me that

    once DOS told me that i've emailed the embassy and they have that documented in my file. They save a copy of all emails i m sure

    is that treu even counsula not replay they record email send and put in file?

    Can't say for sure but it sounds like something they would do, why not? If you sent a letter by snail mail they would put it in your file, why not an email?

  6. yes they tell me so they tell me leave him finish these relationship and start new he have big problime i dont know why u want these guy

    thanks i hope they trust me and he sure miss spoke he say want mean we cannot separate and we promise get marry but he use the wrong way because in counsula tell me to leave him he have much problime

    rela,

    I wouldnt worry about it. If you guys are questioned about it, just be honest..tell them it wasnt a registered marriage and your fiance' mis-spoke. Tell them what you told us, that you had an orfi marriage.

    Good Luck and try not to freak out. :)

    Lisa

    wait, the consulate told you to leave him!? :unsure:

  7. yes now i have proof show he make good money and we was late go counsula because he was have to get piepre from court show he not obliger to pay alimoney to his ex wife is that mean counsula will not care if we marry islamic

    The only question keeping you from being granted the visa, it seems to me, is that your boyfriend has not provided the written proof that is necessary that he will be able to support the two of you. This consists of bank statements, income tax returns, a letter from his employer, and a letter from an officer of his bank, all on official paper. The instructions are quite clear. Apparently he has ignored them. You must have these original papers in your own hands when you go to the interview. Sending them by e-mail is not enough; he must ship the original papers to you by FedEx or some other mail service.

    After being denied the visa twice, each time for that reason, I am observing that your boyfriend is not doing his part and may have a bad attitude about the whole thing. This is probably why the consulate advised you that he seems to have problems and maybe you should drop him.

    Is there any feeling on your part that he is no longer interested in you? If he is really interested in you, then he needs to do what the U.S. requires him to do.

    Your Muslim ceremony is of no interest to the consulate, since the two of you are not married yet. It enabled him to sleep with you, that's all it did.

  8. no not legally maried now i have document counsula need but scare go give him document realy dont know what to do

    The question is, are you legally married? Some cultures have separate civil and religious marriages, and in some consulates if the religious is complete and the legal component is imcomplete, you are not married. It really depends on the jurisdiction and the law of the country. In order to apply for a K1 visa, both of you need to be "free to be married". If that is no longer the case, make certain that you complete the legal portion of your marriage if appropriate and file for a K3 or CR1 visa. It depends very much on the laws of the country you are in and whether you are considered married at this point.

    If in doubt, contact an appropriate immigration attorney and/or the local embassy.

  9. thanks i hope they trust me and he sure miss spoke he say want mean we cannot separate and we promise get marry but he use the wrong way because in counsula tell me to leave him he have much problime

    rela,

    I wouldnt worry about it. If you guys are questioned about it, just be honest..tell them it wasnt a registered marriage and your fiance' mis-spoke. Tell them what you told us, that you had an orfi marriage.

    Good Luck and try not to freak out. :)

    Lisa

  10. no i have no registe and no piepre say we marry just the email he send to counsula me not sure if counsula read email or no hope they was busy and not see it please god please god (HE SEND EMAIL TO COUNSULA AFTER INTERVIE IN JULY BUT COUNSULA DID NOT REPLAY AND ME WHENE SEND ASK ABOUT MY CASE THEY REPLAY ME ASK PHONE AND SHE CALL ME AND TELL ME TO BREING 2008 TAXE )

    If you were interviewed and they asked for proof of income, then this is all you need to worry about at this point. Tell your fiance to send you the proof of his income they need as they told you to do.

    I think you are referring to an Orfi, correct? My fiance and I have one and he is from Egypt. We also filed for a K-1 and when asked at his interview if he has an Orfi, he will say, yes. I would say most who apply for a K-1 visa in Egypt, has an Orfi, as you can't live together without one. This is NOT a legal registered marriage.. therefore you are NOT married in the eyes of the U.S. Government.

    The Embassy always knows the customs of the country they serve and Orfi Marriages are known by those who interview as an unregistered, non legal marriage. It's nothing more than a piece of paper saying you two are married, to satisfy the police.. if you were stopped while out together and the manager where you rent your apartment.

    Unless you went and had your Orfi registered, you are not to worry about the email. You didn't go to your government and register it, correct? If so, i'm not sure about this as i'm only familar with unregistered Orfi's. I'm also speaking for Egypt only, as I don't know anything about the country you're going through, but "Hot Guy" i'm sure understands and can give you good advice.

    Good luck and just keep asking what you need to know as that's what we're here for. :thumbs:

  11. thanks so much for ur support and all poeple here HE SEND EMAIL AFTER INTERVIE AFTER COUNSULA ASK ME TO BREING PROOF OF INCOME SO I DID NOT KNOW YET IF THEY GET THAT EMAIL OR NO I STILL NOT GO YET TO COUNSULA YET AFTER HE SEND THESE EMAIL SAY WE MARRY IN RELIGION WAY MY INTERVIE WAS IN JULY

    Shes is afraid because they didn't give her the visa and she thinks the problem is because her fiance said they were married, but if she explained already that it was only a ceremony and is not documented she shouldn't worry. What they need is proof of income, right? so that's the only reason, they need your fiance's taxes and that's it, no big deal!.

    People try to be more understanding with VJ members who can't express themselves too good in english, remember this country is made out of immigrats!, we or our ancestors all came from different places, the only legals here are the Native American Indians!

    Good luck,

  12. yes i was interviwed and not get visa they tell me breing proof of income whene i tell my faincee he become mad like lose mind that happing 8 months before and rite to counsula email ask why not give visa and tell her that we already marry in islamic way me scare they was see these lettre and whene go take document they use like proof for denie my visa and call me lier whene i am not whene was just miss undrestane from him

    he write hes nam and my nam but not give numbre of case he was put numbre they was give me whene take passport but the woman whene give me passport back she take off that numbre

    You were interviwed but were not given a visa? The e-mails were probably not put in your file since there is no way to verfy that he was the one who wrote them. What written notice were you given at the consulate? Did she mean that she needs more evidence that you two are really engaged?
  13. islamic marry mean marry without document some poeple in usa do some so not pay big taxes and whene divorce wife not desturbe him much like for no muslim lover live toghether

    i am honest what we do is not maried if me go with him like wife is harame but if poeple here not trust me i am sure counsula will not too

    I don not think people here are saying they do not trust you.

    I agree, I think a lot of people on here aren't sure what an islamic marriage is. Keep in mind that many embassies understand local customs so hopefully it will be ok. I would have your fiance e-mail back and explain that he misunderstood what you two went through. Good luck!

  14. WHAT I MUST DO NOW IF THEY ASK ME IF MARRY ISLAMIC SAY YES AND SHOW HIM THAT HE SAY THE TREU OR SAY NO AND SHOW HIM THAT HE WAS LIE?

    in usa poeple marry in masejide and imam who do that

    here in marocco no him was miss undrestane think the some

    we talk with imame after intervie was think will give me visa and go after him but think go no well and hes holiday finish and he go whene me wait and i get socand intervie after it he write email to counsula say :

    I am writing this letter asking to know what went wrong my fiancee not to get a visa as she was promised to come in yesterday?we feel have been tormented in such way having religiously married in this month of July in Safi Morocco by Imam

    i am honest what we do is not maried if me go with him like wife is harame but if poeple here not trust me i am sure counsula will not too

    what honest friend he say we did marry in islamic way whene we are not me was talk with imame just to make sure is not harame whene me stay with him only

    no we have no record say we marry because we not even islamic my stupide faincee miss undrestane me and him was engaged in public we breing imam and he read quran and imam talk with him and tell him that if give me visa will need wait until marry then count husbande and wife that happing and him next day travel and he think we marry whene not because islamic marry need much to be marry like witness and mahre but me get nathing from that WHAT I HOPE NOW IS COUNSULA WAS NOT SEE THE EMAIL HE SEND BECAUSE LAST TIME WHENE I CALL HIM THEY TELL ME NATHING ABOUT THAT JUST ME AFRAID THEY SUPRIZE ME FROM MISTAKE WAS MEE NO HAND IN IT

    we married just islamic can we apply for k1 visa?

    my husbande did mistake and say we marry in islamic way in email write to counsula did u think that will breing problime and will make me never be in usa . him was angry after intervie whene know that the woman in intervie tell me to finish these relation .we dont get answer from counsula about these email did that mean they was not see?

    me scare whene take document need they breing these email and breing more problime

    i am down dont know what to do i dont know what to do at all i scare whene take document

    Who presided over your marriage? Was your marriage recorded at the Cadi (Koranic) Court

    http://travel.state.gov/visa/frvi/reciproc...ocity_3629.html

    .........( its not official marriage ).

    That is the key....

    I don't think he is stupid !!!!!!!!!

    i think he just wants to be honest .

    Do you think the people at the embassy are stupid ???!!!!

    they are not stupid they can find out what they want .

    so sometimes its better to be honest than sorry .

    as i told you they asked many guys in Egypt about that .they asked one of them are you married Islamic? the guy said yes we are .the CO said well i just want to know if you are honest or not .and it wont affect your visa at all ( he was K1) and they gave him the visa and he is in USA now .

  15. i am honest what we do is not maried if me go with him like wife is harame but if poeple here not trust me i am sure counsula will not too

    what honest friend he say we did marry in islamic way whene we are not me was talk with imame just to make sure is not harame whene me stay with him only

    no we have no record say we marry because we not even islamic my stupide faincee miss undrestane me and him was engaged in public we breing imam and he read quran and imam talk with him and tell him that if give me visa will need wait until marry then count husbande and wife that happing and him next day travel and he think we marry whene not because islamic marry need much to be marry like witness and mahre but me get nathing from that WHAT I HOPE NOW IS COUNSULA WAS NOT SEE THE EMAIL HE SEND BECAUSE LAST TIME WHENE I CALL HIM THEY TELL ME NATHING ABOUT THAT JUST ME AFRAID THEY SUPRIZE ME FROM MISTAKE WAS MEE NO HAND IN IT

    we married just islamic can we apply for k1 visa?

    my husbande did mistake and say we marry in islamic way in email write to counsula did u think that will breing problime and will make me never be in usa . him was angry after intervie whene know that the woman in intervie tell me to finish these relation .we dont get answer from counsula about these email did that mean they was not see?

    me scare whene take document need they breing these email and breing more problime

    i am down dont know what to do i dont know what to do at all i scare whene take document

    Who presided over your marriage? Was your marriage recorded at the Cadi (Koranic) Court

    http://travel.state.gov/visa/frvi/reciproc...ocity_3629.html

    .........( its not official marriage ).

    That is the key....

    I don't think he is stupid !!!!!!!!!

    i think he just wants to be honest .

    Do you think the people at the embassy are stupid ???!!!!

    they are not stupid they can find out what they want .

    so sometimes its better to be honest than sorry .

    as i told you they asked many guys in Egypt about that .they asked one of them are you married Islamic? the guy said yes we are .the CO said well i just want to know if you are honest or not .and it wont affect your visa at all ( he was K1) and they gave him the visa and he is in USA now .

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