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  1. I'd say your list is pretty comprehensive for the ROC. I cannot think of any compelling piece of evidence you might have left out; at this point, I would send the packet and relax. Generally speaking, I believe the USCIS officers looking through these packets we all send develop a pretty good sense for relationships that are genuine, even when there is little documentary evidence to "prove" a relationship. You seem to have plenty of substantive documentary evidence, so I would just go ahead and send the ROC and not worry about it. Furthermore, from your original post, it sounds like you have a few other matters that are pressing :unsure: and I wish you luck with those.

  2. Ugh. This whole original post still just bothers me on so many levels - as a woman, as a US citizen, as someone who went through this whole insane process. Granted, we've probably all said things in the heat of a moment that we wish we could take back. That said, I have a feeling no one here would stoop so low as to try and threaten our significant other with ending the visa process, no matter how heated the argument. The only smidgen of respect I have for the OP is in publicly admitting his terrible behaviour in such detail - knowingly exposing yourself to criticism for extreme stupidity takes some spine. On the other hand, Mr. Florida seems to have made his disturbing post more for the sake of soliciting sympathy for poor, pitiful him - the same guy whose first resort is to threaten to rescind the whole visa/immigration process just because his fiancee's Valentine's Day gift to him was not delivered on time and she didn't think to send him a separate card.

    It's all wrong in so many ways that I don't even know where to begin. I still think the ex-fiancee is the lucky one here, for getting to see how much (or, I should say, how little) Mr. Florida really regards her and their relationship *before* she has to convince a U.S. visa officer that she intends to marry this guy because she loves him and he loves her. Sad, that someone would take this process that has been so heartrending for so many here in this forum and elsewhere and use it as a threat in response to something so petty. It's beyond childish and ventures into the abusive, really, for anyone to say "because you did/did not do X, Y, or Z for me, I'm just going to stop the whole visa process, so there!" and that is partly why I find the whole situation so appalling. I cannot find it in me to blame this ex-fiancee for any part of her behavior; I admire her for doing her best to adapt to a volatile environment and then finding the courage to end her relationship with a highly manipulative person.

  3. Biometric appointment letter received today (or possibly yesterday - the *one* day I was not able to hover over the mailbox) :whistle: Update for biometric appointment date reflected below.

    So far, things seem to be moving roughly apace in California. Fingers crossed that all goes well and the next communication from USCIS comes soon after the bio appointment and begins with "Congratulations" or some other happy word...

    California Service Center (18 applicants)

    VJName.............Date of I-751.....NOA1 Date......Biometrics......Approved....

    ROSELINDA..........01/31/11..........02/02/11.......03/11/11........--/--/11....

    SEKYSK.............01/31/11..........02/02/11.......02/25/11........--/--/11....

    GLOANDCOLE.........01/31/11..........02/02/11.......03/01/11........--/--/11....

    NGINEAR2...........02/01/11..........02/04/11.......03/08/11........--/--/11....

    YAKULT.............02/01/11..........02/02/11.......02/28/11........--/--/11....

    CECILE AND BRYAN...02/04/11..........02/07/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    MARIKIYA_DHR.......02/05/11..........02/07/11.......03/02/11........--/--/11....

    BHK_REN............02/12/11..........02/14/11.......03/07/11........--/--/11....

    ADRIANA WATSON.....02/14/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    SKLUVSH............02/14/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    COURTANDGREY.......02/18/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    ENVY_ME............02/18/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    SAVETHISPATIENT....02/18/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    BUTTONZ............02/21/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    MEHMET.TURKEY......02/22/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    GUADA AND CONRAD...02/22/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    ELI THE BARROWBOY..02/23/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    MYMEE..............02/23/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    Vermont Service Center (20 applicants)

    VJName.............Date of I-751.....NOA1 Date......Biometrics......Approved....

    SAMAHM.............01/31/11..........02/07/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    TRELAWNY PARISH....02/02/11..........02/03/11.......03/16/11........--/--/11....

    HONEY_ME...........02/03/11..........02/07/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    ALASKAN............02/04/11..........02/07/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    BRIT ABROAD........02/05/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    RAYPINOT...........02/05/11..........02/08/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    WHATIF.............02/07/11..........02/09/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    LGU@JP.............02/10/11..........02/22/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    KPC................02/11/11..........02/14/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    MARRIEDTOBRIT......02/11/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    COLOSO.............02/14/11..........02/17/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    JEREMYR............02/15/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    DAKU...............02/15/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    LUCCA..............02/15/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    KIMCORENE..........02/16/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    AJ911..............02/17/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    BABYBLUESUSIE......02/18/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    IMPERFCTBIRD.......02/21/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    TIEUNGAO35.........02/22/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    SARAH&ROB..........02/23/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

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  4. Adding us in to the mix.

    Out of curiosity, for CSC filers, how long has it been between the NOA receipt and the biometrics appointment receipt?

    California Service Center (13 applicants)

    VJName.............Date of I-751.....NOA1 Date......Biometrics......Approved....

    ROSELINDA..........01/31/11..........02/02/11.......03/11/11........--/--/11....

    SEKYSK.............01/31/11..........02/??/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    GLOANDCOLE.........01/31/11..........02/02/11.......03/01/11........--/--/11....

    NGINEAR2...........02/01/11..........02/04/11.......03/08/11........--/--/11....

    YAKULT.............02/01/11..........02/02/11.......02/28/11........--/--/11....

    CECILE AND BRYAN...02/04/11..........02/07/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    MARIKIYA_DHR.......02/05/11..........02/07/11.......03/02/11........--/--/11....

    BHK_REN............02/12/11..........02/14/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    ADRIANA WATSON.....02/14/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    SKLUVSH............02/14/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    COURTANDGREY.......02/18/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    ENVY_ME............02/18/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    SAVETHISPATIENT....02/18/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    Vermont Service Center (13 applicants)

    VJName.............Date of I-751.....NOA1 Date......Biometrics......Approved....

    SAMAHM.............01/31/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    TRELAWNY PARISH....02/02/11..........02/03/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    HONEY_ME...........02/03/11..........02/07/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    ALASKAN............02/04/11..........02/07/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    BRIT ABROAD........02/05/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    RAYPINOT...........02/05/11..........02/08/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    WHATIF.............02/07/11..........02/09/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    KPC................02/11/11..........02/14/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    MARRIEDTOBRIT......02/11/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    JEREMYR............02/15/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    KIMCORENE..........02/16/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    AJ911..............02/17/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

    BABYBLUESUSIE......02/18/11..........--/--/11.......--/--/11........--/--/11....

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  5. Im just wondering and if anyone could pls advice. My husband and i got married in philippines last year. Are we still considered fiance/e in the eye of US law even if we got married in PI already? Are we eligible for the k1 visa or should have filed spouse visa instead? Thanx for the help and answers in advance =)

    If you are legally married, then you are not engaged to be married. If the marriage ceremony was only for religion or for location (having a ceremony on a beach, for instance) but not legally done, then you are still only engaged. In many countries, a marriage must be legally documented and the ceremony must be performed in front of witnesses and certified by an individual with civil authority. In the U.S., most pastors or other clergy are given civil authority to officiate marriage ceremonies, but I know that in other countries, clergy do not have this authority.

    So, I would say it depends on what you mean by "got married," but a rule of thumb would be to say that if you need to be legally divorced before you could marry someone else, then you are legally married and should not file for K-1.

    K-3 may be an option, however.

    Good luck!

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