Rebekah

Hello,

I just read your posting. A family that let children take their own decisions is part of this culture.

Have you read a book named "What to do if your child is eighteen and did not leave the house yet"

I am in a similar situation. Economically we never could ask for help to anyone in his family. Mine all the time worked hard, was very intellectual and economic resources were not an issue until I came and married.

At least he got a debt to go to school. Mine couldn't. I am finishing grad school now and he is taking care of the house expenses working very hard. Then I will work to support us so he will be able to finish school. Our hope and strength is that our situation will be better in the future.

Always keep in mind that you both love each other and decided to be together in good times and bad times. Let that relationship grow. Make the bonding process to happen. Don't let anyone to interfere. You knew what you were going to face. For your future physical and spiritual wellness you have to demonstrate yourself and your parents that you married the right guy. Work together to get rid of the debt. Share simple things. It is challenging and hard to achieve. I have debts now too. My parents try to help us but I don't let them. A little thing here and there, because I like it not because "we" need it. It will make them feel better. They are worried as mine. They will always try to make you go back home (a safe place).

I understand it. What are your standards, what you expected is not happening and his parents are way too different that yours and it worries you.

It helped me to go to visit a counselor every time stress gets my nerves to let her know what is going on. We have one as a couple too.

One needs somebody to listen and to help us with the stress, outside of family and friends. Family always judge.

I can guess that every time you tell your husband that you are anxious about the debt he just make a face .

He does not understand what are you talking about right?

Love each other, work together. Learn to know each other and make arrangements to solve differences. Remember, he is the only family you have in the US and ..He only got you to love and help him to be successful in life.

Sincerely,

Rebekah

Hello,

I hope somebody can help me with this question.

I came to the US as student in Aug 2003 and I got married in May 2007 to a USC. We are filling the papers to adjust my status now since my visa will expire very soon.

My question is this:

In the Form I-130, section C they request this piece of information: Information about your alien relative: Your relative's address abroad .-

Should I indicate one?

I did not go back to my country Peru since January 2007. I used to rent a house before then but I do not have one anymore.

Should I put an address anyway, like my parents address for example?

Thank you!

Rebekah