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Thanks so much for the list. This AP at NVC is out of control. I don't know what to do. It took so long to get approved and now this. It hurts really. I have read so much about AP at the embassy stage but not at the National Visa Center. I don't know what they are looking for and when I call (I call maybe once a week) the agent has a bit of an attitude. So stressful.

VSC is on a roll! I got approved too! Yay! I have be crippled by the wait. Good luck to you all.

We finally got our NOA2! I have told my parents and my SO and my cousins!! Now you all! Thank you so much for being supportive and sharing your lives and experiences here on VJ. This wait was the worst I have experienced. It challenges you personally and challenges your relationship. But this site made things soooooo much easier to bear. I don't know what I would have done with out it and your posts. It's my honey bun's birthday tomorrow so this was a great gift! AND I am going to Nigeria to visit on Thursday. Whoo-hoo! Is there something that I should be mindful to bring for him to prepare for the interview? I am sure there is more waiting to come but for now, we celebrate! Thank you!

Chi

Yes congrats to a fellow October filer getting approved! Also if not being touched for months is not a bad thing, then that calms my nerves. For now! 187! moving up the list pretty fast!

Goodness! That was a november filer! Um...I'm going crazy waiting. 123 days...no touch.

That's good news! Congrats, that does give us hope...my estimated time moved to April

I know right!...nothing. There was this talk on VJ about having cases transferred to CSC but I have nothing concrete. VSC is a whole 2 months behind California! Out of control....

Yes it is a bit crazy that folks that filed over at CSC at the same time that I did already got their approvals (there are like 2 or three non-expedites that already got their NOA2s) and here you are waiting 5 months...I'm sorry. I hope that yours comes very soon.

I know I am excited and frustrated at the same time. When I first submitted it was VSC that was processing faster than CSC and now Vermont is sooooo behind. But I am so happy for those who received approval in 3 months. How exciting! But its not Vermont Have they even updated the projected processing times since Nov?

Do you think that the country in which the beneficiary is from has any effect on the timeframe of getting a petition approved?

Queena, thanks so much for asking this question because though I am months away, I still worry about it all the time. As Boo Boo said in Florida you don't necessarily have to wait the entire year to establish residency for your SO. The residency is attached to you. But he has to have his green card. This I know worked at Georgia State, if that helps.

You are probably familiar but ATL has a serious Nigerian community to take advantage of. It really helped when my cousin's SO came. It was easier for him to make new friends play soccer with and even found folks he knew back home.

Asante Maroon----Thanks so much for being real. I try to tell my SO that he will not work for a long while but he's soooo darn optimistic! That's what's scary, like he's in denial. He is NOT the sitting at home type.

Queena, you have great options already! You seem really prepared. Good Luck and congrats!

Chi

Queena, thanks so much for asking this question because though I am months away, I still worry about it all the time. As Boo Boo said in Florida you don't necessarily have to wait the entire year to establish residency for your SO. The residency is attached to you. But he has to have his green card. This I know worked at Georgia State, if that helps.

You are probably familiar but ATL has a serious Nigerian community to take advantage of. It really helped when my cousin's SO came. It was easier for him to make new friends play soccer with and even found folks he knew back home.

Asante Maroon----Thanks so much for being real. I try to tell my SO that he will not work for a long while but he's soooo darn optimistic! That's what's scary, like he's in denial. He is NOT the sitting at home type.

Queena, you have great options already! You seem really prepared. Good Luck and congrats!

Chi

How wonderful! No touch? That gives me hope. I have none at all. 78 days...

Happy New Year October filers!! This might just be our month. Just think, that was the last New Year's Eve that we will spend with out our loved one. Here's to Vermont picking up speed!

What an inspiration! I love to hear folks announce when they are approved. October filers can't be too far away!

Hi guys... its been 60 days since my NOA1...has anyone been touched? I'm driving myself crazy.

I thought the point of the 3 month grace period was to make sure the petitioner and beneficiary were certain of their relationship. If not why not make it a one month time frame to get married upon arrival? I guess one would need 3 months to plan a wedding.

How exciting! Congrats!

Yes best wishes! I'm keeping my fingers crossed.

Chi

Amberdima,

You bring about a legitimate issue and if you come from a family like mine, ignoring them is not really possible. This is just where you have to be of a strong mind. Yes it is possible to be scammed. I hear stories of people being scammed by people they even grew up with back at the ol' country and recently fell in love with. It's hard when that person is a relative and telling you first hand. I understand. How do I deal with it? First, I accept that every relationship is a risk and make sure that with every step it is a risk that I am comfortable with. After that, if asked about my guy I just say "we are great!" and leave it at that. I might also throw in a "its so amazing how a long distance relationship forces you to really get to know each other. You can't hide behind good sex!" Use the second sentence only as appropriate. As someone said earlier, the nay sayers can only see for themselves. So focus on building a strong relationship. They'll come around later. I was a nay-sayer, and here I am...

Is it true that you can not file K-1 visa with a sponsor in Nigeria? Has that changed recently.....seems that I remember that was the case a few years ago.

Thats's what I heard. My cousin had that issue a couple of years ago. Her parents were not allowed to co-sponsor. Might have changed. How would one find out?

I can't wait to feel the Africa sun (among other things) on my skin!

Oh goodness! (but boy don't I know it) Safe travels...I must be nice to see your loved one after 5 months! West Africa is great during this holiday season, no matter the religion. So much to do and people to see. I hope you have a great time

Great!! What a relief! Thanks everyone!

Do you need a co-sponsor for the fiance visa?? I thought it was only at the AOS stage. Geez I can't keep up. I am a full-time doctoral student and I am not sure if the figure is $14K or $17K that's necessary. I check the website but I think I find something different. Could someone clear this up for me? When would they ask for info of my finances? Thanks!

Chi

Congrats! Since I have joined (a month ago) I have noticed that your posts are always so positive and encouraging MrsJibowu. You deserved nothing less, I wish you much happiness with you husband and your super cute son!