Fizz

this is america. we dont care about what other people think a man is and what a man isnt.
if you are happy and your wife is happy then dont worry about trying to impress other people.
for the record, here is how i scored on your "little man rules"
1. i dont have a job. i'm 44. i made enough money to retire already and despite the market crash i am still doing just fine, thanks.
2. i make enough money to complain about anything i like but i rarely do. Especially my family. Complainers are just annoying. especially people that think they are entitled to complain because of how much money they have.
3. see number 2.
4. when i get married i will not forget about my friends. my wife is fine with that. she encourages me to have friends not discourages it. i include her in activities with my friends when appropriate. i choose to spend time with my wife because i enjoy it. not because of some silly "man rule".
5. i dont have nintendo but i do have xbox 360. did this affect my ####### size somehow?
6. sitting around coffee houses doesnt seem very interesting but i see nothing wrong with it. see number 4. this is america. you are free to do as you wish.