Moroccoluv

On some peoples timeline I see that there I 130 are being processed in a least 2 months. Is this true?

The best thing to do is to focus on your case. You can get cought up in the hopes that it happens to you or fall into a deep depression wondering why has this happen to me? Is there something wrong with my case. You just have to pray that it falls into the right adjudicators hands. Just know that your time will come. Think about it, a year ago you never thought that you would be this far in the process. I am just trying to give you some encouragement. It's not the beginning of things it's the end. You would rather get approved later with your NOA2 and get your visa, or get approved quick with your NOA2 and go to the interviewed and get denied. It's just that one never ever knows you prepare for the worse but pray for the best, and keeping a positive attitude.

I think this lady wanted us to tell her what she wanted to hear. Since she didn't hear what she wanted she got offensive.

If you already made up your mind and you are staying with the guy, why do you say that you are done and want to withdraw the petition? People are trying to help and give good advice, if you don't want it, don't ask.

You hit the nail on the head, and Moroccoluv was quick to overlook that as well... I can only guess at the reasons why!

Amazing!

If the OP wants to stick with this guy, and keep supporting him and his family, then they deserve each other. However, I don't think anyone will be surprised if he ever gets to the US, and she posts about how he beat her or ran off once he got his GC.

Well,if she wants to stay with him,I suggest that she just concentrate on him and not the whole family.This will save her plenty of money in the long run.

Actually,

I think she changed her story after her husband (or members of his family) read up on her posts. Did you see how she changes everything after the long post of morrocoluv.

To OP - good luck in whatever you decide but it does not sound like you won't be coming back here saying he arrived and left the day he got his GCa.

If you want to tell the truth you take a chance of love if your spouse is from the USA or any other country. One never knows. So let's lay off the green card. Do you think it can't happen to you? Let's be honest, we all hope and pray that this will never happen to me but you really don't know. That is why i will never be too quick to judge anybody at all. I wish every one nothing but blessings, and I don't believe on hateing on anybody unless i am taking to that point. Yes the talk I had with My Choice was clearly looking at it in two different angles. I didn't like some of the racial comments that were being made a middle eastern men. Before I take the advice of someone telling me to ditch my man because of a few flaws which everybody have, i would lose a friendship first. You best believe that one. Because as soon as I would leave my man guess what you and your bestfriends might be trying to wisper something sweet in his ears. So heck no I would not listen to all those comments that was sent to her at all. It was horrible, and trust and believe she won't be writing anymore comments like this period. So enjoy writting your little statements on what it is that I wrote because you have nothing better else to do I'm sure, and i will check in after a hards day at work, before i retire for the night. Please I am sure My Choice would preferr woman and men with wisdom please respond. Mail order brides please save your comments for your own kind.

I think this lady wanted us to tell her what she wanted to hear. Since she didn't hear what she wanted she got offensive.

If you already made up your mind and you are staying with the guy, why do you say that you are done and want to withdraw the petition? People are trying to help and give good advice, if you don't want it, don't ask.

You hit the nail on the head, and Moroccoluv was quick to overlook that as well... I can only guess at the reasons why!

Amazing!

If the OP wants to stick with this guy, and keep supporting him and his family, then they deserve each other. However, I don't think anyone will be surprised if he ever gets to the US, and she posts about how he beat her or ran off once he got his GC.

Well,if she wants to stay with him,I suggest that she just concentrate on him and not the whole family.This will save her plenty of money in the long run.

Right on Sista

So, my fiance and I really REALLY want to have a summer wedding. There is little chance that I will obtain my K1 by then, so we were considering having a ceremony and reception without making it legal this summer. I would then return to Canada for my interview and we would get married legally after I get my visa and enter the states. Is this possible or would immigration have a problem with this plan. Please help, we want to start planning and set a date so all the family can be there. Thanks so much!!

If it's not leagal i don't see a problem. But I do know a lady that went to Morocco after her fiance had his interview, she got married legally in February 2009. They called him back to the consulate 1 week later to let him know he was getting his Visa, and then when he thought he was getting his visa on that Monday. Well needless to say, they told him that he was not going to get it because he failed to tell them he was married. You don't know who is jealous of you and what they might try to tell the consulate, and then all the unnessary investigation is not worth it at all. So my advice don't do it. Just wait until you get your visa and then plan a trip back to Morocco to have your ceremony. It's not worth it. Believe me people will be envious of you because you are getting something that they want. So you make your own decision that is just my opinion. Either way I wish you the best of luck on this journey.

There is no money in Morocco, to support my standard of living. I would never say never. Only ALLAH knows my today and tomorrow. So INSHALLAH my husband and I will be together one way or another.

I am not desperate enough to call a psychic!!! And no relationship is perfect and to say it is well share with us all the happy pill that both you and your spouse is taking. You yourself can't say that you never been so angry with your spouse that you wondered what in the world did i do? If never then good for you.

Who hasn't had a fight and been angry with their SO/spouse, that's not the issue...I think the advice is not to air dirty laundry on a public forum in a knee jerk reaction to any argument or fight.

I thought that this site was a place to write how you are feeling at the time? I just think that nobody should tell anybody when they should leave another person.

I am so tired words and describe it. Let me just say that my husband and I filed a k1 and it was returned to the USCIS, for what reason i don't know. We had tons of evidence and i had taking numerous trips there to Morocco. Well after that happen I went to Morocco and got married, and since refiled a CR1 petition. In the mean while I find myself getting frustrated more and more each day. And I am wondering did I choose the right person. He likes to go to the cafe and and watch television, he works on and off and I'm tired pure tired of it. I am to the point I really don't want to take another trip over there and I feel like just waiting this one out and what happens happens. Each time that I go I bring 3 bags full of items for his family. Let me tell you he has a large family. I've spent over $20,000 between the 5 flights and Items that i purchased to bring with me.

My husband has a temper that i descovered after the marriage, and his home was not in the best condition the last time i went. I feel like the family is used to me, so the real thing came out and let me tell you i did not like what i saw. The blanket that i was sleeping on stunk like mildew. There was mildew all in his room, and he had the I don't give a damn attitude. His aunt that is usually so nice acted like a pure ######. Can you believe that I pay for this aunts youngest daughter to attend a private school? His adult female cousins made me feel real uncomfortable as well. I don't speak Arabic but i can read body language. When i told him about what i was feeling he tried to make it like i was reading to much into things but i do not believe i am. Oh here is the good part. There is another woman living in the home that i don't know who she is and all i know is that she is not a family member.

I am drifting away from my husband and the sad part is that I just got married. Truth be told i don't even feel like I am married. We went to the Adul and that was it. It was an unplan trip. But he wants me to come back in the summer to have the celebration. He had the nerves to tell me that the wedding would cost $30,000 dirhams to have a wedding on a farm. That is when red flags came to me. I asked myself is this man trying to con me out of money? When i let him know I am no damn fool then all of a sudden the price went down to $8000 dirhams, and we will split the cost. I don't know how much longer i will stay on this site because i am not sure i will be keeping this relationship. I know i got married there in Morocco but I really don't feel married at all. He enjoys going to the cafe everyday, and works on and off. I work 2 jobs and then I come straight home, and there at the computer waiting for him. Well yesterday was it for me. After having a hard day at work and going to the grocery store and rushing home he had an attitude about why i was not on the computer. I was enraged, and i would not speak to him on the computer or the phone. Infact I have no desire to speak with him today. I am really thinking about withdrawling my I130 and he can figure out how to get the marriage annulled because frankly I am done.

Ok I can tell that you wrote this post when you was angry and more then likely tired. Looking at the time that you wrote it. Now are you angry with your now Husband when you wrote this peace? Did the two of you have a disagreement? Becaise an enteligent woman like yourself that can afford to fly over to Morocco 5'x's and not have to bum off of these men family tells me that you are very independent. Now if we are going to be honest about all of this. The men and woman want to leave what ever 3rd world country they come to because they seek a better life if they want to tell the truth or not I will.

So to hear some woman say don't send them money is a bunch of bull ######. Half of the woman on here trying to marry american men or more then like mail order brides that were born in a shack, orphanage, ####### house and their mothers are the Maddams selling their daughters out for a box of cegirette. We see the movies, (I love you long time for $5 dollars) So no one should be here judging this man. My home town in Morocco it was raining really bad ans so some of that hard rain affects the home. Yes and a odor came in but it was not like he left you there by myself did he? I am sure the answer is no so my dear I suggest you tell the story like it is whey you are telling it. I hate the fact that Moroccan men will look bad buy what you wrote. I am not saying there is no truth in the other part that you wrote. I am from the ghetto so I would have to kick somebody Arabian's #### if she was in my mans house and then ask questions later. People don't try to act dignified in here becasue half of you are here commenting fraud and figuring out how to comment fruad. Since the navy ships left I guess they use the internette to catch a sailor.

Keep paying for the little girls school. Her mother may be a skank but the little girl can't help it at all. The older cousins this is how you pay them back. The one that acted nasty give the others one something more speacial then what you give them better yet give her a stick of gum tell her put it in her mouth and keep her chops shut. Well his Aunt, trust me when i tell you I would never eat anything else from her as long as you both should live., and it won't be long eating from a she devil.

Tell the truth if you been there 5'xs you know that he has done some good in order for you to keep gong back. So next time tell the truth and nothing but the truth so help you Visa Journey LOL. I bet the two of you were making up and confessing all of the love you have for each other.

PS. Look at your other post. Don't you find it strange all these people responded to the negative one real quick and you hardly got any answer from the other ones at all. makes you think. Some people want to feel like My relationship is better then yours child like mentality. I would not post nothing up like this because I think you were angry and the truth be told you are maddly in love with each other. The man wants his woman in front of the computer. Girl have the man here don't knwo where their woman are at because they are in some club, and the woman can't find their man. He makes up lies like I am helphing my family or hanging out with friends or i had my cell phone turned off baby. Just the simple classic line. Worse one is that if you open my heart all you would see is you. This part is for all you judgers without digging and trying to find out the entire story. Go a little gental next time and aske two sided questions. People are in a state of mind that needs us to help them think logically. So Ms Married lady don't drop your petition keep pushing forward. Think of all the positive theings that happen in your relationship .