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  1. Well just an FYI basis information, we didn't have utility bills in our names, Our house we bought after marriage didn't have my name on it cos I had no ssn as at that time and didn't bother to have them add it afterwards, no health or life insurance together, no vehicle insurance as he had his long ago and I got a cheaper one that suit me when we got my car. We didn't have joint bank account either, he fears i'll make him go bankrupt in two days so we are fine with him holding on to his check book while I hold mine lol, not true we were okay with just having ours and true though I am a shoppaholic, it's the only thing I do outside work and spending time with hubby.

    But we did have 2 credit cards we shared. I put everything else we had together neatly and organized and left a note detailing what I sent in and what I didn't and why.

    My husband said if they think it's a problem then they should invite us for an interview lol and we would take the day off work and enjoy the time off.

    I got approved without interview. My timeline is below.

    Don't panic, give what you have, I have seen people who have everything intact and get selected randomly for interview or get denied.

    Goodluck!

  2. Hi everyone,

    Been checking in time after time in the back ground but thought it was unfair to not share or give hope to others.

    Read my post or follow my time line. If anyone wishes to add me to the list its okaty, I can't figure out how to do it right now.

    Meanwhile good luck to everyone still waiting, it takes them some time but they ll surely get there!

    Don't we all just stand in front of the microwave sometimes screaming hurry up? Especially since Vermont has become a snail.

    I'm positive though that before the end of the month they would most certainly approve a whole lot more filers.

    Good luck!

    http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/312722-adjustment-roc-for-those-who-knew-me-in-2008/

  3. I was a september filer in 2008 adjustment of status I think Envy me was the person who helped us co-ordinate things then.

    Just letting everyone who knew me then know I did file for ROC, my green card expired feb 25th 2011, I filed within the 90 days window on the 1st of January.

    My husband and I didn't have the mortgage in my name, We bought the house right after we got married and I didn't have a social then, we didn't have Life/ Health isurance jointly, no car insurance jointly or bank account or Utilities in both names. Not that we couldn't get it but I wasn't bothered and he was good with paying the bills lol without bothering me so I just went to work and did what I had to do, I did think it would be a problem for us though knowing how USCIS is, but I put things together and wrote a cover letter including everything we had and also note** I only included one affidavit, I could have gotten more but didn't have time to run around for it, and it was not notarized but my file when put together was neat and well detailed and I wasn't trying too hard.

    I expected to be called for an interview as I sent my file to vermont this time and it wasn't transfterred to CSC. Vermont is slpw and creepy lol.

    Anyways did biometrics 2 days early no hassle was in and out less then 20 minutes at the most.

    Then went about my normal business waiting for the interview notice but none came.

    May 24th petition was approved and may 31st card arrived.

    Feel free to ask questions. I had lurked around the corner in January filers but didn't log in as I couldn't get them to reset my password.

    I finally devoted time tonight to get it done especially to give hope to the January vermont fillers as I see its still crawling, they'll get there soon just hang in there. If you want you can update or add me to the profile of January filers for 2011.

    Thanks Y'all.

    I hope you all find what you seek speedily.

    Good luck!

  4. Not good at all, i think they ll have to cancel one of the petitions as she cant have two different men fillling for her k1 at once. meanwhile be prepared for the big...huge...red flag! The Embassy wont turn a blind eye to this one...as they have both petitions already.

    Important question, whats the time frame between the first filling and the last one?

    Its amazing that she's also willing to switch asap since the visa had been approved. Does number 1guy know that shes been creeping while he's been sleeping or sending hard earned cash to uscis in the name of applications and running around to gather evidence?

    There was no mention of love in this thing! Visa, visa visa! hey but who am i to judge? Hope someone comes out later to give you better advice but also be prepared to be whipped...vj crew especiially the ones in love and waiting since forever wont love your post

  5. Thanks again, RJ! I appreciate your imput here. We will just play the waiting game as there is not much anyone can do but wait.

    Beautiful-years....lemme see what I can do. I may not be able to get right back with you because I had an out patient surgery this morning and I need to rest a bit. Since we submitted all of my husband's pay stubs, letter from his employer, W2 form and our 2008 tax forms, I did order transcripts in case there will be an RFE. The CO took our bank account statements, so I don't know what else they would want. In fact, we were asking the CO to please take more proof, but she said she didn't need more to add to our already huge file.

    Hope you are feeling better today!

    oh my gosh, well get all the needed rest.

    Health is important and yes i'm getting better thanks.

  6. N -

    You may recall that my husband spent 17 months in background check during the AOS phase. It really has nothing to do with having a middle eastern name. Anyone can get caught, and interviews are often held before the check is complete.

    Research and preparation? Yes they are a must for this process. But anyone who thinks that research and preparation alone guarantees smooth sailing is poorly informed. The process is fraught with little areas and hitches where things can go wrong. Don't ever get so cocky about your knowledge that you think it alone can save you - or that it gives you the right to beat somebody else up for a mistake.

    God Bless you for this Post. You hit the nail right on its head!

    We are all but pencils in the hands of our creator!

    Just Like USCIS decides what goes and what doesnt... being prepared is a good thing but not a 100% guarantee that there ll be no hitches.

  7. Hi Nagish,

    Sorry to hear about the delay, and i really feel awful that i couldnt reach you on that day as i planned, i took ill and was in the hospital till last night when i was allowed to go home.

    I feel for you, but again what can we do? Nothing but to fix the cracks and hope for a quicker/faster and more successful outcome.

    Truely, we make mistakes and learn daily, if only you knew then what you know now i'm sure you would have had it fixed.

    But its not over until its over... i see that its been a long strainous journey from the beginning, but i also see that you have both seen it through... so all you need is a little more patience.

    Wait and see if the rfe comes and then attend to it, im sure theres a lot of people here who can help and advice on that one.

    Hopefully the background check wont take long, though i wonder why they ll schedule interview when its not complete yet.

    Now, Nagish, you know what the problem is, concentrate on getting it fixed.

    We are all here for you, even if we can not speed the process up, we can offer you encouragement while you wait.

    Support and love, as this truely is a stressful journey. I never got an rfe or interview and got the green card approved within 5months, but those 5months were like 5yrs of hell just waiting, so my dear, i know how it feels.

    Hang in there and be the person we all know you to be.

    This is a genuine relationship, things might take time but you ll surely get there.

    Meanwhile do you think there is any other reasons why the back ground check is taking forever?

    Sometimes this whole thing sucks!

  8. No you didn't....Im awake Beautiful_years. Very nervous, as I will be out the door in just 2 hours for the interview. God willing, I will be back later to post the 'news' . Wish us well, my friend.

    There's no doubt about your being nervous... lol.

    The most annoying part for me is how calm my husband gets in such situations. I assume your's handles things same not with pressure too and thats a goos thing.... i hope time flies fast enough so you ll be done with it, il stay here waiting on you to hear the news!

    Dont leave without the approval, i hope you dont meet mr skinny, but if you do, tell him Beauty said he should Hurry up!

    You ll be fine soon, but one more thing, i'm sure you ll have butterflies in your stomach while waiting for your name to be called, just dont let it make your stomach run...lol.

    You go get it !!!

  9. If this is true then its very sad.

    I hope they let her stay to avoid her death or worse still deport her elsewhere if its a must that she leaves Canada.

    This is a human life.

    I read the comments too... ridiculous.

    If it were left for me to decide, il rather be scammed into letting her stay than letting her go and reading about her death on the news.

    Life's Hard darn it!

    Thanks for sharing.

  10. j-Kevs,

    Your words mean a lot to me, and I appreciate you so much! I will be sure to post tomorrow and let everyone know what happened. Please pray we don't get the " skinny man " as our CO. :help:

    Hi Nagish,

    just drop by to say God bless and know that we are praying for you!

    We are waiting for the good news! Enjoy your interview....

    Hi Jkevs,

    Glad to know you are ok and yes i'm Aries, so we are birth month mates...lol. when was yours?

    Tell me about how time fly these days! LOL... it runs faster when you want it to slow down, its been same here.

    Miss you here you know, but its good to know we check in one our vjay every once in a short while to see who's here and whats going on, plus we still have to encourage the others yet to go for interviews or get their documents completely.

    Our chart looks pretty and is almost completely blue thanks to Envy me.

    Maybe we should exchange phone numbers so we can talk every once in a while when we can't come online. Pm me if you would want to have mine.

    Oh i jumped in too this early to wish Nagish a good one!

    Thanks Jkevs for remembering me and do take care of you and your husband!

  11. The interview is Tuesday....2 more days. I will write about the experience either here or make a thread. Im having an outpatient procedure Thursday, and my husband is leaving to go back home on the 18th. He doesn't think he will be back for another 5/ 5 in a half months. I don't know how Im going to cope. This long process has all but whipped me. Physically, emotionally....I have no strength left, really.

    Hi Nagish....!

    I rushed here this early morning after saying a prayer for you, my husband said whats the rush i said my friend is having her interview today and she worries!

    It's well my friend, i hope you see my good wishes before leaving, if not until you return!

    Now i wish i had your phone number!!! I would have called early to wish you well and ask that you relax, cos we both know it ll be smooth sailing and that what we are experts in is finding things to worry about... Get through this immigration process today first then we can worry about him leaving and you coping later. For now GO GET YOUR GREEN CARD.

    Pls recheck your documents, be calm, answer that which you have been asked only, provide only informations that is asked of you.

    Most special is let the love you both have for each other shine through, thats whats real and most convincing.

    All the Best my dear and losts of love to you!

    Regards to your husband.

  12. Nagish!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I'm really steaming! I did say i wanted to curb my veejay addiction but ... girl, you ought to have informed me of this thriller!

    I didn't need miss out on this!

    So darn interesting!

    We need more graphic explanations.....

    Messy is yet to respond to the accusations!

    Now my head is spinning.... But, but... she just said she needs him back, loves him and is waiting with opened arms. now she wants someone to help her do something to him?

    Ok my advice, tell the p...ooo.liceeeeeeee!

    Start by reporting to N..A..G..I..S..H she's a local police for the veejay park!

    Pwwwwweeeeeeez dont report me, i'm scared!

    Dont want to be suspended :crying::crying::crying:

  13. I was just going to miss this thread... I'm sympathetic to you the op...really...awww, poor awesome wall st guy!

    Creating jobs, paying workers etc must really be hard work, not tiring enough to keep you at home from crawling round the notorious streets for a quick freebie.

    Just when you thought it wont take a while, you hear them say STOP, YOUR HANDS ON THE WALL MR...i bet the sweet e...r...e...c...t...i...o...n... died straight up.

    That was mean! They sure know how to f...up a man's wet dreams, and she was darn hot. That sucks yes!

    My question,.... when would it air on tv? You know the ...Bad boy, bad boy ...what you gonna do, watcha gon do when they come for you.... the exciting part where the guys are pulled over and they look stupidly at the camera and try to make retarded explanations! Officer is my mom gonna see this?

    I wont want to miss your episode! Now joke aside...

    You messed up... you should expect a reaction from people in a public forum. Drop the attitude!

    Dont file yet, give em some time to blow away, if you stop accepting free services and stay out of jail for atleast 2years it ll be better!

  14. Hello Everyone!

    Quick update, sorry i didnt write long before now, after returning from my trip i travelled again...lol, been having fun

    Welcome note/ approval notice and green card was sitting in mail got it out on the 20th.

    Dont know how long it was sitting there though. But i see that it was returned to sender as they mailed it to the old address even though we had made a change of address ages ago and then mailed back again all by themselves, with no update from CRIS.

    It was originally mailed 3/3/2009.

    I think they got issues..so more patience people. I know its hard.

    Envy me thanks for the chart, still aweome almost completely blue! wow!

    Congratulations to y'all with approvals and recievers of cards.

    To those with upcoming interview like you my dear Nagish and others Goodluck, My non stop prayers goes with you.

    Really nothing to panic for though we worry anyway.

    I'm still trying to curb my internet addiction, also trying to get my nursing and midwifery certificate & license evaluated here so i can write the board exams and work, they make the whole process so hard!

    Il still be here and hope y'all find time even in your busy schedule to drop a line or two every once in a while.

    Jkevs where are you? lol... whats going on with you now that the green card is there?

    How about you Vida and my very many friends? Hope life is treating y'all well

    All the Best my friends... God has been faithful.

    P.S

    My birthday was 27th so Nagish and my friends y'all still need to wish me a belated one! LOL.

  15. My husband's arrogance got in the way and he quit his job 2 weeks ago. My question is, will this hurt us come interview time ( April 7th ) ?. Also, we had a courthouse wedding and it was spur-of-the-moment because I had a surgical procedure done the day before . No witnesses, no friends or family, no party or honeymoon. We only have 3 pictures of us standing across the street from the courthouse. We have proof of everything else like his name on the bills, insurances, bank account, etc., Does anyone see this as possible trouble at the interview?

    Hello Nagish, hope you are ok and well andyour hubby too?

    Well, your's isnt the first marriage without friends family or ceremony, especially with the very minimal time frame given us. So sincerely i think you ll be fine given that you have all other evidences intact.

    I still havent got the mail updated or card in mail but i'm not worried anymore as i know card production ordered wont last forever lol, meaanwhile i'm planning going to get the stamp on my passport next week if we have the time.

    I see the interview is soon and i know how worried you ll be but the funny things is...it is well, deeep down inside i know you know it would be approved.

    My prayers for you is, let the day come so you can go ahead and get it over with and relax till its time to worry again....lifting conditions!

    All the best my friend...

    It is well...it only takes time.

  16. Hello Everyone!

    I'm back from my brief holiday was nice and exciting to be with family again and sort of short too!

    As for immigrations, i had no problems using my advanced parole....

    As for my status still remains same since 27th and i think its weird... says card production ordered since 27th, no new touch or update

    Question.....

    Do you think i should make an inquiry as to that? or just wait?

    Hi,

    Nagish, Jkevs, Vida..!

    Thanks for your prayers and goodwill, i'm back safe and sound!

  17. :thumbs:YAHOOOOO Y AHOOOOO I GOT THE SO CALLED GREEN CARD TODAY IN THE MAIL...YAHOOO...ITS POSTMARKED 02/24/2009.

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT.

    ENVY_ME THANK YOU SO MUCH, THE CHART IS SUCH AN INSPIRATION....I WILL CONTINUE TO PRAY THAT YOU WILL ALSO GET YOUR GC VERY VERY SOON...THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR UNSELFISH CONTRIBUTION TO US SEPT. FILERS.

    NAGISH, BEAUTIFUL_YEARS, NAO THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE FRIENDSHIP AND TO EVERYONE OUT HERE....

    THIS IS NOW A NEW BEGINNING FOR US ALL...I WILL STILL VISIT OUR SITE , OUR LITTLE HOME HERE AND GIVE SOME UPDATES AND SHARE SOME THINGS WE LEARN IN THIS PROCESS...BUT I AM SURE BEFORE OUR GC EXPIRES I WILL SEE YOU ALL HERE.

    GOD BLESS EVERYONE AND FOR THOSE WHO ARE STILL WAITING, JUST WAIT PATIENTLY AND CONTINUE TO PRAY.

    YAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

    Congratulations jkevs! And yes dont forget our little home.

    Nagish, hold on tightly, i just said a prayer for you and your husband this morning.

    God will help your husband decide whats best, we are all like pencils in the hands of our creator, his will be done.

    But whatever the decision is... God knows Best!

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