PortlandAngel

It has been awhile since I logged in, this weekend I met some of the amazing ladies of vj and their families and it reminded of were it all started, so hope everyone is well wish you all the best on your journies!

I personally have not experience it but I have seen it happen not just with American women and Jamaican man but with Jamaican women and men there, some Jamaican women are very flirtatious. Most women/men have their main squeeze and a side one. Men, Women and child out there a very bold and will take your men/women right from under your nose. Trust me he is not going to starve if you dont send him money.

I haven't posted in years but came across your story while looking for some info for my SD. I agree with the other ladies, slow down take your time and always trust your intuition.

hey yall, it's being awhile too much baby dust flying around when I signed in in May, had to log off really quick, apparently it wasn't quick enough!! glad to see everyone is doing well. Try to catch up only got to page 11. So take care until next time!!!

Wow if that isn't a mess. And we wonder why kids act the way they do.... SMDH!!!

That whole situation saddens me to no end.

its very sad, my step-daughter lives in this area, so praying that they are safe and remain safe!

Hey Fam! just stopping bye to say hello, It was a raining weekend I manage to log on and read the fist 15pages of the thread,,, but still very lost.. So hope all is well with everyone, praying for those with family and friends in W. Kingston...

Rosa is Shrewdgyal, it is real she has passed. OMG my heart is so heavy right now............ one of our own is gone..... God bless you Rosa!

I just saw that and I jumped on her to see if it was real...

Hey Yall, hope all is well, I have really had time to catch up on the post so I am very lost, but hope all is well with everyone.

MStee she is 22months old.

aww portland.. im sorry ya'll have to go thru this.. i hate these kinds of battles.. why can't everybody just compromise.. cuz she wanna hold it over his head that he married you and think she gonna punish him for it.. SAD

Just for Anthony to see her to talk about the condition and care of the baby he had to get there at 7:00am and we had the baby and she was sleeping so I didn't go with him and she don't get home till 10:00pm, I know she trying to do something with her self going to school and working but she don't have time for the child, and we do, so why not let her stay with us until you get yourself together. If it was once we found her dirty I would say it can happen here and there but everything he goes to JA its the same thing cause we never tell her we coming just to see what the baby day to condition is and is not pretty.

We had the baby for a week in while we there and we were suppose to take her home and do our honeymoon but I couldnt even enjoy myself knowing the condition she was going back to, So I told my husband I didn't mine having her with us. Her mom called one night and she calling her name on the phone normally she would say hello or something she put the phone down and crawled into my lap, I just started crying, I thought she would have missed them or something but you would have never known we took her from her home, she was having so much fun.

K -- please do your research. If your near town you have more options. I'll link you in a bit let me talk to my cousin...he had to do this last year to get shared custody of his kids which is a nightmare! He lives in the states. All he wanted to do was have to kids stay with him in the states during the summer months and the mother refused. He got it, but it wasn't an easy road and it wasn't cheap.

Dag lawny, that's what we trying to do, full custody, but we will settle for share cause she won't let her come spend time with house, visa already paid for but she wont take her to the embassy to do the visiting nothing. And what piss me off is the condition we found the baby in, she had bumps all on her butt from sitting somplace dirty her little two chop in two from walking barefoot, she was dirty as hell and in bed sleeping! #######! she gonna talk about she must have been playing and fell asleep, its 7pm why would you not have given her a bath already and start getting her settled for the night, did she even eat dinner. I could hardly get dress for my wedding cause the baby was stuck to me like glue, the week we spent with her that was probable the most love and attention she has gotten in awhile! so mad!

hey portland.. how is hubby and the house??

how was xmas out of town.. its been that long WOW.. lol

Hey Q, hubby is good, hasn't started any major renovation yet, xmas was good, he didnt go see his friends he just hung out with my cuz bf but he did make a trip to NJ the other day and hung out with one of his friends.

Hey Fam, hope all is well!

Question has anyone ever used a Family lawyer in Jamaica? If so can you give me a rough estimate of the cost?

I seen that on my towel. I love my towel because each trip I can mark off a place I have been. This time I want to go to Milk Bath or something like that. I meant to Google it to get more info on it.

Congrats Port!!!

Where de pics??

Thanks, D, still waiting for my friends to email me the ones they took.

Congratulations Portland! Where in Jamaica did you get married?

Thank you, we got married in ochie at The Ruins, very pretty place.

Congrats MRS...How do you feel?

I actully feel like a married woman now, its weird but I do! Very Happy!!

Hey Fam!!

Hope all is well!! Just letting yawl know we did it!! We renewed/remarry on 2/27 in Jamaica it was absolutely beautiful, if anyone of you are going to get married in Jamaica you have to contact Jai, she did such an amazing job it was beautiful!!

AMQUEEN, They will put whoever you included on the application on the interview letter cause if you guys wanted she can get a K2, but if not just tell them at the interview she will not be traveling with him.

Oops I see you already answered my question....

Portland are you renewing your vows?

Well, yes, but most of the people at the wedding don't know we are already married!

Hey Dens! got your PM just sent you a friends request!

Hey yall, Not sure if I have been on here at all in 2010 so Happy New Year!!! This is my crazy busy time at work trying to get all Merit and Incentive done and plan a wedding! So I won't be able to long on much, I am logging on to FB since I got my IPhone, so if you every need to ask a question can alway link me on there.

Congrats to all New Approvals, NOA2s, and everyone that have there sweetheart home!!!

Hey, I am actually to work today, since its so quite in the office!

Did you guys here about the AA plane that crash yesterday in Kingston?

Hey JQ!!! Like your pics!

That's precious.

Not the case with us. Steven puts SO MUCH WEIGHT on everything I say, and gets very hurt easily. Sometimes, it's just easier for me to let some things go (which we probably all need to do), than tell him about it and cause him to think he's not being a good man to me.

Nat, some men can be super sensitive, and i got one of those. So I have to think before I speak when something is bothering me, cause he may take it the wrong way. I have to do the same thing with my mom too, but I do have a super smart mouth... gets me in trouble!

portland you still here?? how is the wedding planning going?? are u doing it when ya'll go in feb?? i forget..

i hope we will be able to do it in ja in august..

Girl, yes, I just mail the invitations out last week, thought about cancelling it cause I was really doing cause my mom was stressing me about not having a real wedding and I thought she would be helping paying for some stuff, but she is going through some ruff time right now so all the cost is falling on us, and I must rather use the money get furniture for our house, but anyway we are going to do it to, just cutting our small guest list even smaller!

Brought out meanness sometimes. There was a.....(cough) (cough) a person on there.....who bugged the ####### out of me. It's Christmas so I'm being nice with that comment. Anyhow, I had moments of being a person I didn't even recognize. Better for me to stay away from there. When I said that to Portland, I meant it. She didn't do anything to deserve any meanness from me.

Yeah, i didn't log back on after that, i was trying to fine ppl I went to elementry school with. And this old discussion about how old I was, I just never bother...