Yarima

Thank you for all your posts. My "wife" did so many other things that I would have to write a book about it. All I did was support her, until I figureds I couldn't go on anymore with this relationship. Nobody's perfect, but my wife was just too much.

What would be the next step I should take? Should I notify this to immigration as soon as possible, or should I wait to be divorced and the baby to be born so I can report it to immigration?

I've been reporting to immigration all foul play I was suspecting a long time ago, with certified mail, but immigration had no reply for me. I really am disappointed at the way immigration works. She was doing everything she could to keep her residence, and I concluded she was doing it for interest.

I am currently under the process of divorce, my wife being the visa holder. After I left the house due to the fact that I was suspicious of her elaborating a case of abuse against me (in Puerto Rico it is under the law #54), she sold everything I had (personal belongings, things which I had before the marriage, making them private) and I filed a complaint in the police department. This is just so you can get an idea of the immigrant which is right now gaining access to U.S. citizenship.

What concerns me is that I know she is currently pregnant of a man whom I know the name. I even know what gender will the baby be. I want to know how can I get evidence that she is pregnant or evidence that she had a daughter?

In Puerto Rico, as well as the U.S., having an extra-marital child is hard evidence of poligamy, and is punishable by law. I need to present this to the local immigration office and to the divorce court as well.

I will appreciate all help you can give me. Thanks.

Hello,

I want to know approximately how long does it take between actually approving an I-485 AOS and posting the status online. I withdrawed the petition one day, and:

20 days later after the withdraw, the USCIS site posted online that it had ordered the production of the card

21 days later after the withdraw, the USCIS site posted online that it had sent a welcome notice to the permanent resident

22 days later after the withdraw, the USCIS site posted online that it had sent the I-485 approval notice.

Mind you, I submitted the papers on June, and by September the AOS was approved. So I imagine that everything was efficient on a timely basis. I just want to know what are the possibilities of me actually cancelling before the I-485 approval.

Thank you.

The I-94 has a stamp that says "Admitted MAR 09 2008" and below it reads "Class Until Jun 07 2008". I assume that everything has expired then. And she in a immigration limbo now that I have cancelled the AOS process. Can she be deported?

if she does not sign the divorce papers... just wait until her visa expires, then call immigrations on her if she does not leave. You can divorce her without her signature. I would take all your money out of your bank and get it out of her name ASAP!

and do not have a kid.... that will come back to bite youin the ###

Yeah, I did not have kids with her. But apparently the paper I submitted cancelled the AOS process completely, without any chances of turning back. How long does the K-1 visa last?

I submitted the form "Withdrawal of petition on behalf of relative" when I started suspecting different intentions from my wife. I was in the process of going through divorce, but she started to show her true intentions. This document was submitted at my local USCIS office two weeks ago.

Anyways, I want to know what is the effect of this document. When is it effective, when does she officially stand as illegal in the states. Do I have to withdraw from the I-864 to free myself from any further financial burden? Or does this document (withdrawal of petition on behalf of relative) automatically free me up from any financial obligations? I want to be sure of this, since I submitted the AOS papers on June and want to be sure this is effective before she gets her AOS.

She (my "wife") has told me that at least something she has to get from all of this, some pice of the pie. This really tells a lot about what that person really wants from this relationship. Telling her that I didn't want to be with her anymore didn't make her mad. Telling her that I stopped the AOS process got her really mad. Go figure. By the way, the whole relationship was a disaster, and trying to make it work was useless. Yes, it's my fault that I never paid attention to the signs.

She refuses to sign the divorce papers. So I don't know what to do. Given the fact that she distorts tha facts and lies, she can be a menace in front of a court judge or god knows what she can say to run me over. Really, I was very considerate with her, I gave her all that I could even though I am not rich, and I gave her more than enough chances to redeem herself. I lost feelings in the way, and I took a lot of beatings too (emotional).

If anyone can help, I will gladly appreciate it.

Thank you.

I withdrawed the I-485 because of marriage problems. Can I reapply for AOS (I-485)?

I recently went to my local USCIS office and cancelled the AOS process due to serious problems in our relationship. I need to know if this cancellation is sufficient for annulment of my marriage or what proceeds now in the divorce process. She had not recieved the work permit, nor any other documentation other than the biometrics appointment. Any help will be appreciated.