tedjen

^^I think most of the people here aren't advising... but criticizing!

Can't help to post... I was wondering OP, you stayed in a 4-year relationship without love?! Even if you say that you haven't met in person yet, still, can you tell him I LOVE YOU every time you talk where in fact there's no love in your heart?!

Girl, hindi kita hinuhusgahan dito, pero hindi ka ba nakukunsensya?

I still pray that God enlighten your mind... and touch your heart...

I decided to post not to judge the thread starter nor to be at her side...

First, there must be a reason why is she doing it (having another bf), probably she's no longer in contact with the first bf..? Still, it's wrong... you need to end the first relationship before getting into another relationship... in short, the first bf should also know that you have a closure...

Then, you can ask some advice here... on how to cancel the petition your first bf filed...

**You know what girl, I don't want to blame you why there are lots of filipinas who are into a genuine relationships but having a hard time issuing their visas...

I pray that God will enlighten your mind... remember that God knows the desire of our hearts... God bless...

Hello guys! I miss all of you here... Yes, jamesrei was right, I'm trying to get off the visa issue thing... and I even avoided to come here in vj... 'twas difficult to explain/tell the whole story (simply because, MAHABAAAA) and til now it's not yet over... but as Matthew 6:25-30 says, I do not worry... God will turn around things... God will give all the things we need... Yes, I miss my husband so much and to add, my husband has been having difficulties each day of his life (literally!)... but we're not giving up... we're holding on to God's promise that a husband and wife should be together...

We're on the second month and a week of waiting since my interview... and a first month and almost a week since my 2nd interview... Yes, you read it right guys, I had the second interview... long story... I wasn't surprise that much... knowing from the start that people might not understand us... and worse, they are judging us...

Thanks, Bheng... for praying with me... yes, "with" me, coz I'm praying for this each day... and with the attitude of so much faith to God....

I'm blessed coz my husband is more optimistic than I am... with all these things that are happening, surely, I found the right man for me...

I promise to tell the whole story to you, when I'm ready and it's over... sometimes I just feel overwhelmed by the current situation... but indeed, I am fine

God bless us all... PinkRia, hang in there... our visa wait will surely be over SOOONNNN

--TJ

You can bring the additional doc/s requested to the embassy anytime but....(check the white paper given to your wife, it's indicated there that you need to submit the doc/s within one year or else your case be terminated). Why did the embassy gave exact date of submission? Indeed, there's no definite time when you can complete the doc/s requested... more the CENOMAR coz it will take about 15 days (you're lucky if you go to NSO branches where you can get it in ONE day)...

"Paglalakbay Para sa Bisa"

ni TJ

Dati rati, kapag mahaba ang bakasyon, ang saya-saya ko,

sapagkat mahaba ang pahinga mula sa trabaho....

matagal ang oras ko na mag-relax at magsaya,

at libre pa sa "pressure" sa opisina....

Ngayon, iba ang pakiramdam ng mahabang bakasyon sa akin,

Dusa.... Lungkot.... at katahimikang nakaririmarim....

Walang pasok ang embassy sa Maynila,

walang makakausap na Lorraine o "Grasya"....

walang operasyon embahada ng mga "Kano",

kaya mga "pending" ay hindi maaasikaso....

Dagdag na panahon pang paghihintay,

pagtitiis na di makasama mahal kong tunay....

kaunting tibay pa ng loob,

nang kayanin ko itong pagsubok....

P.S.

Nawa'y hindi magbakasyon ng ganun kahaba ang embahada....

Nang sumaya naman ang lahat.... SANA!!!

try to get the refund if you want...

A VJ friend of mine said the refund will be sent to your home (after you go to their office and asked for refund)... I don't know if she received the refund before she left PI...

As for me, I'm not interested to ask for the refund... Imagine, I'll go to their office in Manila (I'm from Carmona, Cavite) the fare going there and coming home is more than the P650 (abono pa ako!)

This week meron pa ring interview di ba... May nabasa ko dito na Dec 19 eh... How about the last two days(?) Dec 22 and 23? Also, ibig babsabihin na wala ring pasok embassy ng 12 days? (Dec 24-Jan 4).... wah!!!!

Yes, i'm not losing hope naman... naiisip ko lang mister ko... mas matagal na di kami magkasama, mas matagal yung sakit na nararamdaman nya because of his injury... wala kasing nag-aasikaso dun eh kundi yung 12 year-old daughter nya...

I know God sees everything... BTW, tatlo na lang kami... what should be our name now?..... JR please answer?

wow, girl congrats!!! Ako, wala pa rin... nalulungkot na ako (actually, naiiyak) though i stay positive pa rin naman... may sakit kasi asawa ko and he needs to go to the hospital at may chance na operahan pa sya...

I still trust God with this visa journey...

"utot"="fart"

Delbros number: 339-2761

^^^Where do you live? Baka naman naligaw yung magdedeliver? Did you call delbros, you should...

^^ "almuranas" in Filipino term..

SUGGESTION: Bring the OLD passport... You still have it right? DFA doesn't get it during renewal (in fact, I have my old passport)... They will just punch it with two holes...

^^K1 is fiancee' visa... He is the child of IR1... He said he's on IR2...

I think mine has no bearer's signature at the back too... oh well, i am not able to verify it coz my passport is at the embassy still...

^^Hello there, I submitted requested document on November 24 it's almost 3 weeks of waiting for me... but yours, more than a month... Did you call the embassy to inquire? There are VJ members who submitted requested documents on November 12 and they got their visas the first week of December...

We've been trying to contact the embassy but no luck... My husband will try to call again tomorrow... I'm waiting until Monday, if there's no text that visa arrives soon... I'll go to the embassy on Tuesday...

Send me a message so we can keep each other posted... God bless us...

I'm happy for you... There's really NO IMPOSSIBLE with GOD!!!!

Coria,

Take the advice of most of people here... Stop communicating with him and move on... You cannot move on by still keeping in touch with him... Because at the back of your mind you are still hoping (even if you won't admit)...

Here's the truth: HE IS CRAZY... The way he thinks is not normal... unstable mind etc..

I pray for you...

^^WE WILL all receive ours before Christmas... This week and next week... I can feel it

Wow, Voltes V is now Fantastic Four.... Before end of this week, I'm optimistic, another good news will be posted here

Cheeseburger and a lively visa dance for the Fantastic Four!!!

:dance: :dance: :dance: :dance:

Minang I am thinking lahat kayo sa list this week maka receive ng magic text, since ako pinaka FRESH hahaha I am thinking I will get mine next week (the week before Christmas hehe)...

Pero mas masaya if idamay nila ako this week hahaha!

More prayers lang and cheeseburgers and visa dance yeeeehhhheeeeeyyyy!

:dance: :dance:

Nakalimutan mo yung Saling Kit awardee sa atin. Si Tedjen. November applicant yun.

JR, you're in LA pala... My husband is in San Diego and he often goes to LA for court hearings... Talaga, malamig na parang Baguio... I think that's better, sakto lang... yun maganda sa Cali eh, yung climate nya...

^^Ok, I got the scenario now... When your HK police clearance reached the embassy, the embassy basically JUST received it without merging it or searching what's that document for...

They can just look on the document's info (name etc..) and search for your file with them or simply verify if the owner of that police clearance has a pending case with them...

Therefore, they don't care... that's why, it's really better to submit it in person, so they know what's that for... Good thing that your fiance' called them...

sorry tedjen,this morning I went lazy,I mean rfe is reference # to track my CNCC.they dont know where they put my CNCC request thats why they ask my fiance if I have the reference number to check if the recieve my CNCC from HK.So after my fiance give that to Ms.Grace she answer to my fiance that they have my CNCC last Oct.29 so meaning if we dont follow up my visa and we just waited for it for sure we've been waiting and expected for nothing.that makes me feel so bad right now,because I expect too much.

You mean, they already received your police clearance and yet they haven't merged it with your other documents (because they don't know?)... Wow, you should have demanded the HK to just send you the document, so to make sure that people from USEM know what to do with that document...

You also need DS156K (one copy)... Make 2 copies of DS156 (the one you filled out online) and 2 DS157 (with bank validation--just make a xerox copy of that before filling out the original form)...