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Well its a sad day in my world! The stalker was not wanting to get with me he wanted to get with the lovely mhay....So I am not as desirable as I thought....I get no paparazi sniffle sniffle tear drpp down my cheek......hahaha its all good thanks for all the advice!!

its not a guy uggh.

OR, are you accessing net from cyber cafe? Because that "IGNORE ANYONE WHO ISN'T ON MY MESSENGER" works with each specified computer. I mean if you have your own personal PC then that setting is set, but as soon as you log on to yahoo messenger from some other PC, you have to reset that settting, just like you have to reset your archive setting each time you get into a new computer.

oh yeah got it. i am using windows xp,vista and mac. mac has its own version of YM.

Jabberwocky: What i said doesn't make sense, but it is what it is. someone told me to uninstall and install so i did and i havent got any stalker message till now. so we will see.i did my own experiment too, i logged in using vista and xp, i get no messages. then, i logged back in using the Mac, i get offlines from people who aren't on my list,when i tried to reply,it says the user can't receive and that i need to change my settings. and i have reported her as spam too many times. i Just thought there are some kind of programs where they can message you regardless of your settings, just like being able to see who is invisible and such.

How did this mysterious person get your fiancee's email address? Or are you saying she's sending her PM's here on VJ?

I DONT KNOW HOW SHE GOT MY CONTACT INFO. for 2 years, i have been getting messages from her, it started on friendster, myspace, and now my yahoo sn. i have been changing my addresses and info's too. she loves me eh? pfft.

When you make a new account, make sure to use a secure password and use the security features, like blocking mail from specific people. There are ways to stop this crazy b!tch from harassing you electronically.

I did. and she will message me using diff. sn. and uhm, she even messaged me once, pretending to be my fiance..lol how sick is that?

Okay baby you're right, the best way is to ignore it, :-|

Keep blocking the new Yahoo Msgr messages (sn? whatever that stands for). You can set your messenger to only allow people to send you messages who are on your friend's list. She can try and add you to her list, but needs your approval. I don't mean to sound harsh, but really, it's not that difficult to stop her from harassing you.

You guys can PM me, if you need help on how to do it.

Thank you, but believe me, I already did that .. if you are talking about "ignoring people who arent on my messenger list. lol. and until now, its preference is set to that, but she somehow discovered a way to message me., hmp. so i think i just have to ignore it,in any possible way.

Trust me on this... Open up your Yahoo Msgr and go to your Preferences. Select the category - Ignore List. You'll see two buttons - only one can be selected. Select the one that says, "Ignore anyone who is not on my Messenger List."

There's no way she can send you an instant message once you've got that selected unless she's on your list.

I'm with this one, there's no way someone can message you unless you're on their messenger list, or unless you haven't them blocked, been there done that, trust me, theres no way someone can stalk you unless you either, 1) ask for it, that is, really wanting it or pretending you don't or 2) they have your information and either way, if they have your information you must have leaked it somehow. You need to reset your preferences as he said, I'm not sure either what sn means, however, just use the block feature, it actually works.. Stalker is as stalker does!

When I got that advice, it sounded familiar.. coz i already did that before,but before i even replied anyway, i went to my preference, check on my ignore list, and yes there are two buttons that says :1)IGNORE ANYONE WHO IS NOT ON MY MESSENGER LIST 2.)IGNORE ONLY THE PEOPLE BELOW. the first one is checked, so i wondered why she can still message me. i do not need to block her because number 1 option is checked. she isn't added on my list either.

and as I've said, I have been changing my SN's and this time i even used different name. so yeah,.I don't know how she do it, but i don't ask for it, i don't really want it, and i don't pretend lol. MAYBE, if i want it, i would make it seem like they want me..that I am sexy, they can't live without me..and that i am so good with everything,so my fiance would feel like he won the lottery (bad humor attempt) unfortunately, she said a lot of good things about him, nearly praised him like a GOD (lol) and then told me how fun their intimate moment was! I CERTAINLY DO NOT LIKE THAT!

I refreshed the settings, i logged off and logged back in couple of hours later, and i got offline messages from a person who isn't on my list.

so anyway,Does anyone know how to print screen using Mac ibook? Please help me.

and oh SN =SCREEN NAME.

Don't hate!

How did this mysterious person get your fiancee's email address? Or are you saying she's sending her PM's here on VJ?

I DONT KNOW HOW SHE GOT MY CONTACT INFO. for 2 years, i have been getting messages from her, it started on friendster, myspace, and now my yahoo sn. i have been changing my addresses and info's too. she loves me eh? pfft.

When you make a new account, make sure to use a secure password and use the security features, like blocking mail from specific people. There are ways to stop this crazy b!tch from harassing you electronically.

I did. and she will message me using diff. sn. and uhm, she even messaged me once, pretending to be my fiance..lol how sick is that?

Okay baby you're right, the best way is to ignore it, :-|

Keep blocking the new Yahoo Msgr messages (sn? whatever that stands for). You can set your messenger to only allow people to send you messages who are on your friend's list. She can try and add you to her list, but needs your approval. I don't mean to sound harsh, but really, it's not that difficult to stop her from harassing you.

You guys can PM me, if you need help on how to do it.

Thank you, but believe me, I already did that .. if you are talking about "ignoring people who arent on my messenger list. lol. and until now, its preference is set to that, but she somehow discovered a way to message me., hmp. so i think i just have to ignore it,in any possible way.

How did this mysterious person get your fiancee's email address? Or are you saying she's sending her PM's here on VJ?

I DONT KNOW HOW SHE GOT MY CONTACT INFO. for 2 years, i have been getting messages from her, it started on friendster, myspace, and now my yahoo sn. i have been changing my addresses and info's too. she loves me eh? pfft.

When you make a new account, make sure to use a secure password and use the security features, like blocking mail from specific people. There are ways to stop this crazy b!tch from harassing you electronically.

I did. and she will message me using diff. sn. and uhm, she even messaged me once, pretending to be my fiance..lol how sick is that?

Okay baby you're right, the best way is to ignore it, :-|

How did this mysterious person get your fiancee's email address? Or are you saying she's sending her PM's here on VJ?

Oh this has been going on for awhile my yahoo account got hacked into a while ago...So I think its the same person. Or its someone she knows!

WHAT? she doesn't know me... according to her she loves you and she hates me. blah! ithink i did hit a nerve!

How did this mysterious person get your fiancee's email address? Or are you saying she's sending her PM's here on VJ?

I DONT KNOW HOW SHE GOT MY CONTACT INFO. for 2 years, i have been getting messages from her, it started on friendster, myspace, and now my yahoo sn. i have been changing my addresses and info's too. she loves me eh? pfft.

More Filipina Drama!

Hell yeah! Friggin filipinas!!!lol haha

Well it happens, on the internet trust noone, and never give your personal accounts....

Very true!

I AM Not too dumb to give out my personal info.. thats why i think i am being stalked. i dont even go to chatrooms, my networking sites are privates, and i dont talk to strangers (lol. well i do but not over the net) ..

and if i am going to share every friggin messages of this (these) stalkers, you're going to hate me. but im sure you're going to have a good laugh. let me know. lol

and by the way.. Im pretty sure, the stalker is an american. (lol) can we call it American Drama?

thank y'all. God bless you all.

Hi everyone. I really need Help with this topic and i hope someone will enlighten me with these. it will be much appreciated, thank you,.

I am (was) married to an American. we didn't work out so we had to seperate.I asked him to file an annulment, so we can both be free and go on our own, but he filed a Divorce instead,in his state, so now, I am divorced. the problem is, i cannot use it in the philippines, and it still appears that i am married.how can i be able to have it recognized here?

,,and if i file it to the court, can my fiance start the K1 while the case is in process?

Also since there is no divorce in the Philippines, What status should i put in the form? Single or divorced?

Please help me.. thank you.

Mhay