saran

gosh...

i will never step into a pool ever again.

lol

well i dont piss in any of the places mentioned

No to first

Yes to second

No to third

is the ocean not "outside"?

not if you're in the water.

cute baby

don't use terms of endearment towards my wife.

have trust in ur wife fool.:-))

i didnt know she is your wife.

and it wasnt using terms endearment towards your wife it was your child.

dude seems like u still hold a grudge.do you?

Even Nancy Pelosi was better when she was 30

Eh, I don't like the hair.

she looked hot.lol

I'm 57 and my husband is 23.

i find it amazing than funny

I'm 22 about to be 23 in Sep and my hubby is 21 about to be 22 on the 25th

aww

nice young couple awesome

I have always been curious when people give their ages and add the "going on x age", or "about to be x age" afterward. Unless one is skipping years or 20 going on some random number, say 31, why the need?

oo might be handy for leap year babies though

Well I will be 27 in just a few days, so there is no point of calling myself 26 for those few days. So basically giving an idea that even if I am technically 26, I won't be the same in a few days time. Oh well I am getting older and soon I will be 30

yea lol

i also do the same

everybody wants to get his age frozen in 20's.

myself 22 perviz 34

sara

this sounds like a large gap in your ages.

what do you think about it?

[b]not really.......when u can understand that it takes (most) men longer to mature than women, and then add that to the fact that he has never known anything but work and schooling we are about the same in age in emotions.

both of us are very religious, and try to live our life as good muslims in ever aspect of our life.

Intellectually we are well suited as well.

If i didnt feel at the time that it was a good match i would have refused it, it has worked out well.

sara[/b]

aww...

so nice.

may u get along like this forever

30, but i look 23

lucky

i always wish i look younger

30, but i look 23

38, but I look 50

dang!!!

nice analysis

i never knew it takes more time for men to mature than women

but looking at my dad i m sure it does.hahahahha

Poll doesn't go high enough for ages..

Myself 40+; Tim, 50+

lol you are so right Janet 50+ Carnell just turned 60

soo right.

i was expecting most people between 20-35.

43 me, 31 she.

Hi saran---- nice non-offensive poll for a change

well

i was really curious about knowing and i thought vj was a good platform but still some polls were not offensive at all.

wow those poles got me famous

hahaha..............

myself 22 perviz 34

sara

this sounds like a large gap in your ages.

what do you think about it?

30, but i look 23

lucky

i always wish i look younger

30, but i look 23

38, but I look 50

dang!!!

hi people just wanted to know what ages our vj members are

anything.

anything.

gosh...

i will never step into a pool ever again.

lol

well i dont piss in any of the places mentioned

No to first

Yes to second

No to third

is the ocean not "outside"?

not if you're in the water.

cute baby

with no more jobs to offer, professionel with degrees who had their jobs shipped to india now working McDonald's jobs, no health care for their citizens, the country going down with trillion$$$ in national debt. Unhapiness among the US population is skyrocketing compares to other nations. Over spending on luxuries we can't afford and greedy corporations who back us up with sub-prime loans, growing gap between the struggling middle class and the riches, the exhausting rat race for having more stuff than the Joneses now become a race just to stay above the water, broken families and children idolazing studid rock stars and models over their prozac filled parents who are drowned in credit card debt and over valued estates, China loaning us money so we can buy their own produced ####### at Walmart who hires illegal workers at discounted salaries.

Is it the end for our beautiful USA?

We are very lucky !! Their are many people in other countries that have nothing. Like the people in Pakistan, so many have left thier homes with only the clothes on thier back. Take a look at all the other countries before you speak of USA.

These comments are expected since this is an immigration forum and lots of people from defavorized country are posting here.

My point of view might differ from a little from these immigrants. I've been in the USA for 15 years now and I know what I'm talking about. There's a decline in the quality of life for a lot of folks happening right now in the USA and you don't need the media to tell you so...you just need to look around you. When I started this thread, I just wanted to point this out. I never said it is miserable to live here...I'm just saying that there's a shifting going on for the worst.

Peace all.

hahahahaha.....

i think canada should be the destination

lets go to canada people

actually with all the wars america has plunged into the economy is definitely suffering

and this was is now 9 years old and stilll no where near its end

hahahaha..........

thats my name

saran is definitely a type of plastic

nice picture collection dude

I got a 3-day or a 5-day in January and I wrote the moderator and told him to get a life and asked him if he got picked on when he was in high school....he wrote me back and said I earned myself an extended suspension! He upped it from 3 to 5 or from 5 to 10, I can't remember but it was a few days extra!

hahahahhahahaha..................

thats funny

No matter who you're. Some people are categorizing the person based on her/his nationality and belief.

If you're from Philippines, you're gold digger or a ho.

If you're from Thailand, you're a trans gender or a ho.

If you're a Muslim, you're terrorist.

If you're from Australia, you're butt fvker.

If you're from America, you're pot melter, or racist, or etc, you named it.

If you're from England, you're vampire.

If you're from Germany, you're killer.

If you're from Mexico, you're illegal alien.

If you're from Canada, you're a hockey player.

If you're from China, you imitate everything.

If you're from from Japan, you love Filipina prostitute.

And others. I can't think other stupid thoughts.

My conclusions: Some human being is stupid or they have disfunctional cognitive skills. I'm moron sometimes but I'm not bozo as they're.

is there anything particlarly associated to pakistani like the say you told??

what about russians and french??

i was banned i made another id to enter and randomly selected england

MODS????

MODS????

MODS????

Admitted statement to willful and deliberate attempt to bypass a suspension.

you should have made a nice cop or a lawyer.

i was banned i made another id to enter and randomly selected england

MODS????

MODS????

MODS????

Admitted statement to willful and deliberate attempt to bypass a suspension.

that was a different id - which was caught too.

well its not your cleverness that caught me

i used the same name and even told who i was.

honestly speaking

some people look good without it

and some look good with beards than having a shaved face

I vote 'no' because I think it will corrupt our youth and turn them into rapists, child molesters or (gasp!) other gay people!

Not only that but men might spurn their wives in favour of "attractive livestock", and our cities will turn into Soddom and Gomorrah - which God will wrinkle his nose at, and promptly turn to dust.

Are you serious with this comment? I'm giving you the benefit of doubt and hoping you are joking.

Satire.

in the great tradition of Jonathan Swift. Hungry? eat a child. Forget fiber, we all need a little for satire in our diet.

I wrote a great piece of satire on apartheid back in the 80's (if I may blow my own horn). It was my first attempt and it earned me an A and a love of the genre.

gay marriage sucks

replying to a post that is almost 3 years old.......

who cares

recession has hit every country in the world

usa in not the only one which suffered the loses.

It is legal in some states like Cali where I am from and I DID marry my first cousin...we weren't raised together and I barely saw him cause he was soo far away. We fell in love and never thought of it as disgusting-it was actually an advantage to us in soo many ways.

He turned out perfectly normal as his parents are cousins although I don't know to what degree

wow

it is a valid question and is legal...in some states and countries.and no i would not marry a cousin as they all have butter faces

what if they were hot and pretty like catherine zeta jones or angelina jolie or a celebrity you like?

ok. i confess. yes i'd marry a cousin. if he was clive owen

lol

It's not culturally or legally acceptable in USA and I think most people here would think it is strange.

I second the notion. it's just wrong, weakens the gene pool.

there are some states that it is legal in...i think new york being one of them.

26 states allow first cousin marriages; most people can marry their cousin in the US.

link

My maternal grandparents were second-cousins. Ok, maybe that explains me <--

Franklin and Eleanor Roosevelt were cousins. OK, 5th cousins once removed. Still it allowed them to keep the Roosevelt name in the family. Think of Eleanor Roosevelt: if she were on the VJ thread about "will you change your family name when you marry your husband?" she could say "yes" and "no" all at the same time!

too complex

Victoria and Albert were cousins, were they not?

I think its normal but still kinda wierd because they are considered your sisters and brothers.

Why have you changed your country from Pakistan to England?

i was banned i made another id to enter and randomly selected england

i got suspended because of some people who made a big deal out of a very reasonable poll.

the poll was supposed to be visited and voted and getting off

but people were hitting and making mockery of me and insulting my religion.

i was trying to get back at them

i still think i shouldnt have been banned because it wasnt me who started the fight.

and guess what the people who were fighting with me(some of them) have confessed they were banned in the past.

so, its in my favour they had a history of voilating the rules of vj.

Nope not me...don't even have a criminal record...*good thing!!! be awful at the interview*...

But then again...I've only been around since January....

wow but you are a gold member now

i have been around for almost one year

with no more jobs to offer, professionel with degrees who had their jobs shipped to india now working McDonald's jobs, no health care for their citizens, the country going down with trillion$$$ in national debt. Unhapiness among the US population is skyrocketing compares to other nations. Over spending on luxuries we can't afford and greedy corporations who back us up with sub-prime loans, growing gap between the struggling middle class and the riches, the exhausting rat race for having more stuff than the Joneses now become a race just to stay above the water, broken families and children idolazing studid rock stars and models over their prozac filled parents who are drowned in credit card debt and over valued estates, China loaning us money so we can buy their own produced ####### at Walmart who hires illegal workers at discounted salaries.

Is it the end for our beautiful USA?

Yup. Game over. Time to pack the bags and head on out.

#######.

great sense of humour.

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Here i would like to add something

my cousins one living in Misouri and one living in virgina are called terrorists by class fellows.although they were born and raised in america.

Then they should know they have the right not to be treated that way. Was it at school? They should have reported it to the school's administration - immediately. Was it elsewhere? Then they should have filed a complaint with the local police. If they did nothing about it but complain, the shame's on them. We teach people how to treat us and by doing nothing they taught their classmates it's okay.

the media i wiould like to tell you some events they exaggerated.

a few weeks ago

it was all over the media islamabad is going to go in the hands of taliban

talibans are coming close to islamabad

paksitan is about to go in the hands of talibans

all the speculations were on the t.v

there were analysts,debats and discussions on it

i m living near islamabad.its like 20-25 mins from where i am living.

there is nothing like the media is showing on T.V

there is one more propaganda that talibans are looking for the nukes of pakistan

they will capture the nukes of pakistan

i think this is a well planned propaganda to actually deprive paksitan of its nuclear weapon.

and before that america destroyed iraq saying they had nuclear weapons or so called weapons of mass destruction

more than one million iraqis died in tha battle imposed by america and europe and yet there were no eapons of mass destruction.

afghanistan used to be the home and head quarters of alqaida but now the american army officers say pakistan is home and head quarters of taliban and alqaida

as a matter of fact america and europe have failed in afghanistan

taliban are controlling most of the land in afghanistan

american troops are just limited to few bases in kabul and some bigger cities.

but the T.V is showing what some people want it to show.

its biased.

you can see on yahoo news and everywhere on the internet

media presenting fake things to the world without evidence.

Perhaps you should take issue with the Pakistani police who are, evidently, creating videos in order to perpetuate the lies.

it was at school.

there are so many people fighting in swat(pakistan) who claim they are talibans but they are not

evidence in that favour is that they are mostly not cicumcised.means they are not muslims

talibans are considered hard liners why would they not get their children cicumcised??

its really complicated there in swat.

those fake talibans are beheading muslims

in islam the sin that wouldnt b forgiven is killing muslim brother

they are fake muslims

i hate them

anyways i say good luck to my army.

do americans specially non-asian.non south asians more precisely i would say show bias towards muslims?

especially after 9/11.

is it hard to live in america and listen to irritating remarks against muslims??

or one has to get used to it?

i am from pakistan

and these days it seems america and western and american media is busy spoiling the image of pakistan and presenting situation in a way it looks more grim and uncertain.although its not true.

media is not presenting the true pictture

i can say with confidence because i belong to pakistan.

its just a propoganda against paksitan

I am a non-Asian. I was born in the USA of German decent. Whether it is a Pakistani Muslim or a Muslim from another country, what I see is Muslims that claim the USA is against them. The reason they see that I believe is for some reason the Muslim belief sees the religion as the state or as their government. In the USA we have differentiated between the state and religion. There is also a problem with a religion where it is ok to kill a non-Muslim. Then Muslims claim the USA is at war with the Muslim religion. No, this is not true. The USA is at war with terrorists without a differentiation of whether they are Muslim of non-Muslim. Yes, there is a hesitation toward Muslims, because the religion wants to kill non-Muslims. I am sure the attitude against this hesitation toward Muslims would change if the non-militant Muslims would disavow the actions of the militant Muslims and make a differentiation between the two. Of course Americans would have irritating remarks against a group of people that want to kill them. If you are a Muslim and wish to live and work in the USA in a peaceful manor, I welcome you.

This forum is not for bashing Muslims or complaining about the mistrust of Muslims in America, This forum is for those seeking a visa to bring a loved one to the USA. If you live in the USA and are an American citizen and have questions about bringing a love one here through a vias and have questions please ask the questions. If you are in Pakistan and someone is seeking a visa for you and you have questions, please post your questions.

but i am moving to america and i have the right to know everything that gets in my mind

No matter who you're. Some people are categorizing the person based on her/his nationality and belief.

If you're from Philippines, you're gold digger or a ho.

If you're from Thailand, you're a trans gender or a ho.

If you're a Muslim, you're terrorist.

If you're from Australia, you're butt fvker.

If you're from America, you're pot melter, or racist, or etc, you named it.

If you're from England, you're vampire.

If you're from Germany, you're killer.

If you're from Mexico, you're illegal alien.

If you're from Canada, you're a hockey player.

If you're from China, you imitate everything.

If you're from from Japan, you love Filipina prostitute.

And others. I can't think other stupid thoughts.

My conclusions: Some human being is stupid or they have disfunctional cognitive skills. I'm moron sometimes but I'm not bozo as they're.

If you are Indian, you stink curry and you drink cow piss

hahahahaha.............................

yea i have heard

indians consider the piss of cow very sacred.lol

and south asina are often called fobs(fresh off the boat) when they immigrate.

thanks to all the people who are giving their opinion i now understand a lot things keep this thread moving its so helpful and encouraging.

My take on not just muslims but all religion

Hmm just about every war in history has been fought over religion. I'm not saying all but most. Lets break this down some. It's muslim this, Christian that, lets take away the religion and what do you have left...plain ordinary people. If the world's masses were not religious we could come together as the human race and accomplish great things. Religion is the altimate evil plain and simple. Religion makes to many people narrow minded in their beliefs to stop and try to under stand their fellow human. I'm going to touch on the bible,quran or what ever its called and any another other "bible" type of book for a minute. Who is not to say one cold night in the desert these people were cold,hungry and lonely. They found some bushes and mushrooms growing and wala they had a merry feast.

Un-known to them the bush they were burning was marijuana and the mushroom made them "trip" and wala religion was born. I can tell you, I am not religious in any bone of my body but my god I got ahold of some mj and shrooms a few times that had me freaked out. To this day I still have a hard time beleiving it was just a bad trip and not real. The point to this is nobody know if God is real or not yet more blood has been spilled in his name then any other reason in history...all based on some writings that may or may not have been a bad trip.

Personally I could f"n care less what religion someone is till they start telling me how to live my life then watch out, you going to get a ear full of language that would make a sailor blush. I take a person for who they are, how they treat me. Treat me well and I will treat you well. Treat others well and others will treat you well. You act stupid they you get treated stupid. You come to this country and start crying that people are not treating you well and well hmm my guess is your not treating them well. When in Rome....

i agree

religions are becoming a cause o hatred and discrimination