child is 11, nobody has custody there was never an order made. nobody never sought custody because i wasn't ness or affordable in jamaica. i was never married . Child has been living with mother(me) and grandmother all her life. Father is in USA on visa, he calls her and gives money. I got married in us and now trying see whats going. on. Dad knows whats going on, but embassy never gave us any instructions for getting a custody order or formal affidavit from father.