Hello,
I’m a bit confused about some parts of the adjustment of status process. I recently married an au pair who is here on a J-1 visa, and we’re preparing to file her I-485 amongst other documents. Since she is still required to live with her host family under the au pair program, we are not fully living together yet — although she stays with me frequently when she’s not working, and we live very close to each other.
A couple of questions I’m stuck on:
For household size/income, how should I calculate this when completing the forms?
For the current address, should I list her host family’s address (where she physically resides as part of the program) or my address (where she will live permanently after filing and once the J-1 ends)?
I’m also a bit concerned that listing different addresses might look unfavorable.
Has anyone gone through this process while their spouse was still working and living with a host family as an au pair?
Thanks