stevevp

Hi Guys,

I'm new around here and posted awhile back to announce my engagement to a wonderful lady from Bangkok named Guitar. This is a woman I've known for 8 years and visited many times before deciding to get hitched.

After sending her the paperwork and many emails back and forth about her family details, etc., I didn't hear from her. While I was expecting the paperwork, nothing arrived. Emails sent, but not returned. I thought, "what the heck is going on here?".

When I finally did get ahold of her she came clean on a failed business venture down in Phuket. A costume jewelry store she opened but never did well and she had to shutter it. However, she was sidled with bills including a lease on the store and employee back payments. This totals around 500,000 THB (+-$14,000). She feels she has to pay this debt before leaving Thailand. Although it's not a huge amount, personally, I am not in a position to bail her out.

So, she's the one that called it off. She feels bad for not telling me earlier as well. This is devastating for me and I'm trying to sort out my feelings. I think I'll have to let go of my idea of being with her for now.

Walk away from the whole thing NOW.

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can anybody out there in Thai VJ land share info about timelins that once the embassy recieves P-3,

how long did ittake tot he interview? 6 weeks, 2 months, 4 weeks?

Our NOA2 was just approved on the 7th. I am in Thailand now visiting her till the 18th and want to prepare the P-3.

we are K-3'ers, by the way. I need some estimated timeline help with the emabssy in bangkok.

1- what, when, where can somebody point me to the tracking method of the papers leaving NVC to and arriving in BKK?

2- after filing the p-3, what is the time frame of sending the p-3 in to the interview date?

I ask these as I am trying to time sending the p-3 in to her getting an interview date about march 1.

any help and/or thoughts would be appreciated.

thanks

I think if you view other peoples time lines you can get a rough idea...... Once things are in Bangkok the time line s seem to be close for everyone if there are not any problems with the paperwork... hang in there, you are almost done !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

guys, a really dumb question. My girl is going to have her medical and she is scared to death of the whole process. Needles, doctors, the whole thing. What do they check for, how do they check for it, do they pull blood, etc? If I can sooth her it would really help.

I appreciate your answers and help !!!!!!!!!