Hi everyone,
My fiancé and I have filed for the K1 visa several months ago, now we're waiting.
Last week I suddenly needed emergency surgery that could have been fatal and I realized that my son wouldn't have anywhere to go if something would ever happen to me. I have full legal custody and his father is out of the picture.
My son sees my fiancé as his dad. We've been together for 8 years so he's my son's dad really, even from a distance.
I'd really like to make my fiancé my son's legal guardian, in case of emergencies my son will be taken care of by my fiancé, like we all want.
My question is, if my fiancé can be my son's legal guardian in the Netherlands, does that mean it's legal and counts in the US too?
Final question, will there be consequences to our K1 visa process if we do this? Since on the form we had to fill in my son's name (and he would like to take my fiancés name instead) and how many kids my fiancé has.
We don't wanna jeopardize our visa process but I'd also very much like my son to be taken care of by my fiancé in case of emergencies, instead of someone who doesn't know or like.