daisonga

thank you. I'm trying to do the right now, but without backfireing myself...does that make sense? Thank you for your comment aobut my son. He is what keeps me going every day

I am not sure what you should do - I hope that some other members have better insight, but I just wanted to say God be with you and I'm sorry that you're going through all of this! I hope that it works out in the best way for you and your son! He's sooo handsome!!!

So I know my card wont expire for almost another year. But i was looking at the i-751 application and had a lot of questions.

My husband and I were happily married and had already had a child before I applied for my green card. Everything was going fine until he slipped and decided to cheat on me. I left him for a month and then he plead and begged me to come back and I did. I tried to work on the relationship but he started playing this games. Saying that he didnt love me, and the only reason he married me was because he felt sorry for our son (which he only said that everytime i would bring the subject of marriage counseling up). He is very selfish and my condition to moving back after the cheaing incident was that we should go to marriage counseling. (he agreed)

Then his family started getting in his head, saying that I used him to get my papers. That that was the only reason I was with him and got pregnant....and the whole nine yards. I have known him for a loing time and dated back when i was in high school for a couple of month and then we broke up and 3 years later we got back together, had a baby and nice beautiful wedding (my parents paid for it all) and then he threw everything away by cheating. So NOW according to him and his family I USED him.

So needless to say I had it, with the threats of him taking my son away from me and saying he was calling immigration to tell them i used him. (of course he would apologize later saying he didnt mean it, it was out of anger). My son and I moved out to our place, we share custody of our son. Have not filed for legal separation or child support becuae his family told him to tell me, if i screw him over (money wise) they will make sure he will screw me over (those were their exact words).

I dont have any feelings on going back. Since I've been on my own with my son. I have no stress. So there is no chance of reconciliation.

Loooking at the form i-751 there is plenty of choices to check as for what happened after the marriage. Do i be honest and tell them the truth or do I act like nohthing has happened and file like a normal marriage. In alll reality when he is around his family he is somebody else but when he has spoken to me about the final step (form i-751) he said he won't do anything to affect our son. and that he will fill it up like normal and no more threats, have been made since he is a FREE from his responsibilities. (me and his son)

Please I need advice in what to do in this situation?

So I know my card wont expire for almost another year. But i was looking at the i-751 application and had a lot of questions.

My husband and I were happily married and had already had a child before I applied for my green card. Everything was going fine until he slipped and decided to cheat on me. I left him for a month and then he plead and begged me to come back and I did. I tried to work on the relationship but he started playing this games. Saying that he didnt love me, and the only reason he married me was because he felt sorry for our son (which he only said that everytime i would bring the subject of marriage counseling up). He is very selfish and my condition to moving back after the cheaing incident was that we should go to marriage counseling. (he agreed)

Then his family started getting in his head, saying that I used him to get my papers. That that was the only reason I was with him and got pregnant....and the whole nine yards. I have known him for a loing time and dated back when i was in high school for a couple of month and then we broke up and 3 years later we got back together, had a baby and nice beautiful wedding (my parents paid for it all) and then he threw everything away by cheating. So NOW according to him and his family I USED him.

So needless to say I had it, with the threats of him taking my son away from me and saying he was calling immigration to tell them i used him. (of course he would apologize later saying he didnt mean it, it was out of anger). My son and I moved out to our place, we share custody of our son. Have not filed for legal separation or child support becuae his family told him to tell me, if i screw him over (money wise) they will make sure he will screw me over (those were their exact words).

I dont have any feelings on going back. Since I've been on my own with my son. I have no stress. So there is no chance of reconciliation.

Loooking at the form i-751 there is plenty of choices to check as for what happened after the marriage. Do i be honest and tell them the truth or do I act like nohthing has happened and file like a normal marriage. In alll reality when he is around his family he is somebody else but when he has spoken to me about the final step (form i-751) he said he won't do anything to affect our son. and that he will fill it up like normal and no more threats, have been made since he is a FREE from his responsibilities. (me and his son)

Please I need advice in what to do in this situation?