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  1. kaya siguro sila online parati sa ym kase bz sila chatting with their families and closed friends sa PI. i know some people na ganyan din. i got disappointed at first but now i just ignore them kase may sarili na din akong buhay and i'd rather talk with people na pinapahalagahan yung friendship na inoofer ko kase sa mga tao na binabalewala ako.

  2. I used to like Vallejo, CA when I first got here because of the many Filipino establishments but now my husband and I are thinking of moving somewhere else. You probably heard that Vallejo filed bankcruptcy and that tremendously affected the service you get from the city government especially the police. The crime rate is growing and the city government is planning to lay off more policemen before the year ends. I do like California though and if ever we move somewhere else it will be a city close to Vallejo like Benicia so that we can still go to Island Pacific every weekends. You won't really feel that much homesick when you are in Vallejo because almost everything from PI is here but I just hope that one day Vallejo will be a safer place to live in.

  3. alam mo yung asawa mo he reminds me dun sa case na napanood ko dati sa crime and investigation channel na yung lalake nagnanasa sya sa sister ng gf nya. kasabwat nya yung gf nya tapos they put the girl (sister) into drugs, raped her and eventually killed her. i know masyadong extreme yung example ko pero sa utak ng pervert at sira ulong tao anything can happen. tama yung sinabi ng mga tiga VJ na mas maganda dyan ka na lang sa pinas kase mahirap talaga dito lalo na pag nag-uumpisa ka pa lang tas makikisama ka pa sa ganyang klaseng tao. it will take a while bago ka makatayo sa sarili mong paa and during those times na nakadepende ka sa asawa mo you'll have limited choices. kahit na may friends or relatives ka pa mahirap pa din kase may mga sarili din silang buhay. yung mga tulad natin na nag-asawa ng tiga US importante na yung taong makakasama natin dito is somebody na supportive at hindi yung ilalagay tayo sa alanganging situation. it's good na habang nandyan ka pa lang nakita mo na yung totoong kulay nya kase pag andito ka na mas mahirap. mag-isip kang mabuti gurl kase hindi biro ang pagpunta dito. one more thing, dapat wake up call na din sa iyo yung paghingi nya ng naked pics ng mga sisters mo. since asawa ka na nya dapat itrato nya yung mga kapatid mo na bilang kapatid din hindi yung pinagnanasahan nya. nakakatakot nyan baka pag nagkaanak kayo ng babae one day baka pati yun galawin nya.

  4. Oh to be fair to someone's comment about "marry a filipina or filipino who is 25 years old or above" earlier. In the philippines, the age considered by law as the rightful age to marry is 25 years old. Before that, one needs parents' consent. It is so as there is no divorce in the Philippines. If we get married outside of our country, we are required to report our marriage to the Philippines embassy or consulate. Although i dont think age matters, emotional and mental maturity and readiness to commit to marraige is more important..... but those "usually" comes with age. :)

    tallcoolone: And oh theres nothing with working in Walmart or any grocery store. Its a good decent paying job. I dont know about your wife finding any job she wants considering the economy right now.... not that i belittle your wife... i hope her the best as a fellow filipina. Its just that your claims are unfounded. She is under 25 years old. She isnt a lawyer or a doctor. Its likely that she finished college... prolly a 2 year masters degree (hmm?!). Im sure you do know that she has to go to an accreditation office in here to gauge her college credits on how much that diploma is worth in the US. But even so, she just lacks the years of necessary experience.

    Let me correct you some:

    Age 18 - 21 needs Parental Consent, 22 to 24 needs Parental Advisement - If I remember correctly.

    Being a Lawyer or Doctor and coming to USA doesn't do you much good in USA. You basically go back to sqaure 1 with those degrees in USA.

    Accreditation Office - Are you trying say to get her College Transcripts Evaluated to see if her degree in PI is comparable to same degree in USA, if so That was taken care of when she was still in PI, I had it evaluted by CGNFS before she ever stepped foot on US Soil.

    I agree there is nothing wrong with working Wal Mart or Grocery Store, But for me and my personal goals it doesn't fall into what I am looking for in a lifetime partner......

    What if your wife came from a poor family and she is not a RN will you still marry her? I have no right to question your relationship with your wife but I really hope that you married her because you truly love her.

  5. I dont get it why i never got my greencard..I am absolutely frustrated now...I dont know how long it takes before i get it or what and why??

    I filled my AOS october 2008 and i had my biometrics on oct 29..unfortunately i had to re take finger print for my AOS so i did it on nov 14..I received my noticed mail regarding on my EAD last dec 23 together with a notice for an interview schedule and finally i got my EAD dec 26..My interview was january 22, this year ..i was wondering why i never got any notice from them since my interview..at first I called them 6 weeks after my interview they only said that i have to wait coz my filling is on the normal processing..but i wait so long so my husband called them back 3 weeks ago, the one who entertained us said that they never decision yet regarding on my case and we have to wait for 48 days and if we never received any mail from them we have to call them back again..so disappointed i left hanging answer..I dont know if there is problem and why they dont have decision yet..it makes me crazy wondering why and what is wrong..I am beyond already of the normal process..

    I hope i will find any answers here..

    why is my processing so hard? how long does it take maximum to get greencard? why i never got any notice from them? Do i still need to call them as many times?

    is there someone here same on my problem??

    try infopass. that's the best way to get the status of your case since the ppl who answer the 1800 number are not immigration officers.

  6. nung unang uwi ng asawa ko dapat yung first meeting namin kasama tita ko at parents nya kaya lang hindi na kami makapaghintay na magkita so a day before ng dapat ng "first meeting" namin nagpaalam ako sa tita ko na may over time sa work ko pero hindi talaga ako pumasok. few days after that akala ulit ng tita ko na papasok ako and all.....nakaoffice attire pa ako pero pagdating ko sa greenbelt nagbihis ako kase nagpunta kami ng hubby ko sa isang resort sa cavite tas umuwi din ng hapon then bihis ulit ng pang opisina para kunyari galing ako sa work......sorry auntie

    hehehehehe pinoy_pinay pareho tayo hehehehe

    Ako nung dumating si hubby ko di ko sinabi samin hehehehe Nagpaalam ako sa parents ko na going out of town with friends heheheh pero kasama ko lang si Hubby. Sinundo ko sya sa aiport then we enjoy for a week without istorbo :lol::devil::luv: After a week umuwi kami sa province nmin kasama si Hubby heheheh gulat mga pipol. katakot takot na explaining ang ginawa nmin pero di nmn nagalit kasi tapos na hehehe kaya hayun enjoy ulit yung time sa haus. First time kong ginawa yung ...exciting pla hehehe

    mas crazy naman yung sa iyo noh lalo na sa province pa kau umuwi after that tas pati mga kapitbahay nyo nalaman.....ako din first time yun and first bf ko pa sya so nakakaguilty talaga na nagsinungaling but oh well....may ginawa din sya na kapraningan.....nagvisit yung boss ko from HK tas yung team namin nag outing sa san juan, batangas. hindi talaga ako sumasama sa mga outing pero since mabait ung boss ko sa akin nakakaguilty naman na hindi sumama. pag-alis pa lang namin sa makati tawag na sya ng tawag hanggang pagdating dun. nakadating kami dun mga 4PM na tas gusto nya umuwi na agad ako kase he doesn't want me to spend a night there. so mga 6PM dapat uuwi na ako only to find out na pag ganung oras wala ng sasakyan na nakakalabas dun so in short i was stuck there. so nagwawala na sya hanggat malobat ung cp ko. madaling araw na sa US nun pero gising pa sya at tawag ng tawag. tumigil lang nung nalobat cp ko tas the next day i called him using my friend's cp tas ayun parang tanga na umiiyak kase akala nya baka may nangyari na sa akin na nirape na ako ng mga officemates kong lalake or something tas pinanood nya ung mga video namin sa pinas tas hindi sya natulog sa whole night. para lang tumigil sya pinilit ko yung mga kasama ko na umuwi. since 2 lang sila na may dalang sasakyan kami ng ibang kasama ko nagcommute. dun ko lang naexperience sumakay ng isang oras sa tricycle. natahimik lang sya nung nalaman nyang nasa bahay na ako. sobrang drama talaga yun na hindi man lang ako nakapagspend ng time with my office mates kase i was on the phone with him the whole time.

  7. nung unang uwi ng asawa ko dapat yung first meeting namin kasama tita ko at parents nya kaya lang hindi na kami makapaghintay na magkita so a day before ng dapat ng "first meeting" namin nagpaalam ako sa tita ko na may over time sa work ko pero hindi talaga ako pumasok. few days after that akala ulit ng tita ko na papasok ako and all.....nakaoffice attire pa ako pero pagdating ko sa greenbelt nagbihis ako kase nagpunta kami ng hubby ko sa isang resort sa cavite tas umuwi din ng hapon then bihis ulit ng pang opisina para kunyari galing ako sa work......sorry auntie

  8. i met my then fiance through my cousin and i did not have any problem at all. the CO asked me how i met my fiance then i told her that my cousin introduced us. then after that she did not have any follow up question. my interview lasted less than 2 mins. i believe that every cases are handled differently so it doesn't necessarily follow that if you met your fiance through relatives or friend then you might be taken to the fraud unit. just be confident and consistent with your answer.

  9. i've been reading this "bangayan" for a while. i find it entertaining at first pero minsan sumosobra na din kase parang below the belt na yung mga palitan nila ng salita. nakakamiss din yung dati na pag pupunta ka sa philippine forum walang mga away at payabangan kang mababasa kundi yung mga topics puros lang sa immigration process. ayoko na sanang magcomment pero nakakalungkot lang na halos ganito na lang mababasa mo parati. sana magfocus na lang tayo sa immigration or mga encouraging topics hindi yung payabangan or pagcriticize ng grammar ng iba or kung ano pa. better yet let's just focus on our own lives. kung gustong mang-inis ni tallcoolone pabayaan na lang natin sya kase malamang baka pinagtatawanan lang nya tayo pag nagrereact tayo sa mga sinasabi nya. isa din ako sa mga nagrereact sa mga comments nya before pero eventually naisip ko baka nga ang purpose nya is mang-inis lang talaga. magfocus na lang tayo sa mga sarili nating buhay. kung gustong magyabang ng mga iba hayaan na lang natin sila. in the end hindi naman tayo ijujudge ni God based kung anong natapos natin or trabaho natin and kahit RN ka pa or housekeeper it doesn't really matter. ang importante may dangal ka, takot sa Dyos and wala kang inaapakang na ibang tao. we may have the best husband/wife or best job in the world but we should always remember to keep our feet on the ground. all that we have belongs to God and anytime pwede Nyang kunin lahat yun. "For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted" Luke 14:11

  10. I have grown tired of this topic

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    why is it so hard for some people to give good comments on topics such as this and so easy to brag about how pretty their wives are.....whatever it is fireproof is a must see movie for every couple since it basically teaches us how every marriage should be......that is God being the third strand in the marriage.....

  11. GREEN CARD RECEIVED 3/13/09!! 3/6/09 Approval Date :dance:

    USERNAME...........SENT.....RECVD....NOA/s....BIOM.....VSA..RFE..CSC.....EAD.....AP......INTERVW...APPRVL

    BexandAlan....... .OCT.27...OCT.29...NOV.7....NOV.28......................A

    gabriela ......... OCT.28...NOV.3 ...NOV.7....DEC. 5......................A......A

    anven............. OCT.29...NOV.3 ...NOV.10...NOV.28......................A..............

    jack&anais ...... .OCT.31 ..NOV.3....NOV.14.......................

    Jon.n.Michelle... .NOV.3....NOV.5....NOV.15...DEC.5...............

    alizeyah ......... NOV.3 ............NOV.13...DEC.9....K1.................A......A.......APR 21

    sertina .......... NOV.3 ...NOV.5....NOV 13...DEC.4....K1....1...........................APR.7

    Pisces221 ........ NOV.3....NOV 5....NOV 13...DEC 9....K3.........

    jego ryu ......... NOV.4 ...NOV.7 ...NOV.17 ..DEC.17......................A......A.......March 5

    Southern_Canadian..NOV.5 ...NOV.7 ...NOV.14 ..DEC.10...K1.........*

    drl............... NOV.5 ...NOV.7 ...NOV.17 ..DEC.10...K1.................A..............FEB.17

    stacey2008 ....... NOV.6....NOV.9....NOV.19...DEC.18...K1.................A

    phoenixwine22 .... NOV.6....NOV.9....NOV.15...DEC.09.............................A.......FEB.05

    Pinoy_pinay....... NOV.7.............NOV.18...DEC.9....K1.................A..............APR 16

    LikeALadybug...... Nov.7....NOV.11...NOV.18...DEC.8...............

    carmie and aldo .. NOV.7....NOV.11...NOV.18...DEC.9....B2.................A..... A.......FEB.24

    marash ........... NOV.7 ...NOV.9....NOV.18...DEC.12...K1.................A......A.......MAR.06

    clolita .......... NOV.7 ...NOV.10...NOV.18...DEC.11...VWP...1............A..............MAR.10

    jonbless ......... NOV.7....NOV. ....NOV.11...DEC.11..............

    khurramseraj...... Nov.10...Nov.12...Nov.22...JAN.09...K3.........

    gatita............ NOV.11...NOV.12...NOV.19...DEC.12...K1....1...DEC.18...A......A

    metinil .......... NOV.12...NOV.20...NOV.28...DEC.17...B2.................A......A.......MAR.06

    dave&evan ........ NOV.12 ..NOV.13...NOV.20...JAN.29...K1.................A

    Roselinda ........ NOV.12............NOV.25...DEC.17..............JAN 29..A.....

    chris.lei ........ NOV.12...NOV.16...NOV.29...DEC.17...K1.................A......A.......APR 20

    jhunjhun ......... NOV.13...NOV.17...NOV.25...DEC.18......................A.......A......FEB.11

    ANA............... NOV.13...NOV.14...NOV.26...DEC.12...K1........DEC.15

    Mrsjeffs.......... NOV.13...NOV.16...DEC.08...DEC.12..............1

    mrsartis.......... NOV 13...NOV.17...DEC.01...DEC.18...K1.........

    Sal and Jay ...... NOV.14...NOV.17...NOV.28...DEC.13...K1....1....

    abranch .......... NOV.14...NOV.17...NOV.25...DEC.18......................A..............FEB.12

    cassi9879 ........ NOV.15............NOV.24...DEC.11...K1........JAN.27...A.....N/A

    Mitchamy ......... NOV.17...NOV.19...NOV.26...Mar 3....K1........DEC.16...A

    CODITZE........... NOV.17...NOV.18...NOV.28...DEC.19..............A......

    livelong_prosper.. NOV.17...NOV.18...NOV.25...DEC.17...K1........DEC.11...A......A...........MAR.06

    marryme........... NOV.17...NOV.19...NOV.26...JAN.23...K1.........

    map1map........... NOV.17...NOV.18...NOV.28...JAN.29....................

    Brian and Jenn.... NOV.18...NOV.20...NOV.28...DEC.19...VWP........

    Martin&Nat ....... NOV.18 ..NOV.20...NOV.28.......................

    mymee ........... .NOV.18...NOV.19...NOV.26...JAN.27...K1.................A..............APR 28

    CBR ...............NOV.19...NOV.20...NOV.28...DEC.19...K1........DEC.11...A......A..

    Brian.Charisma.... Nov.20...NOV.24...DEC 12...DEC 24.............JAN.20

    Eshansmommy....... NOV.20...NOV.24...DEC 08...DEC 26...VWP...1............A

    Candyace.......... NOV.21...NOV.24...DEC.08...JAN. 5...K1........................A.......MAR.19

    Petersons......... NOV.21...NOV.25...DEC 12...JAN.02...H1....1............A......A.......MAR.29

    sarah n robbie ... NOV.22...NOV.24...DEC.12...DEC.27...K1.................A......A.......APR.29

    theonlyjess ...... NOV.22...NOV.24...DEC.8....DEC.23...K1.....JAN.30...

    KatieplusChris.... NOV.22...NOV.24...DEC.8....DEC.17...L1.................A......A.......MAR.11

    Derek & Yun ...... NOV.25...NOV.26...DEC.8.............K3.........

    lenonlmp.......... NOV.26...NOV.28................................

    aravis227......... NOV.28...NOV.30...Dec.9....JAN.02...K1.........

    nicksNbrian....... NOV.28...NOV.30...DEC.9....JAN.06...K1.....DEC.23......A...........

    adding our interview schedule

  12. We're not expecting an interview since we were transferred to CSC. Who knows what they're doing out there.

    I was referring to those whose cases were not transferred to CSC. i did not receive any RFE and I have the same local office as the girl who filed in January but now have an interview date so I really don't know what's going on. i know that every cases are handled differently but it sucks when you have to wait this long and see other people who filed way after you get their greencards but oh well.....

  13. are there people who are still waiting for their interview dates? i'm starting to worry about my case because i saw a post from a girl who has the same local office as mine and she filed late january and now she received her interview letter. she is also adjusting from K1. i really don't understand what's going on. i know that cases are handled differently but it's frustrating when people who filed 2 mos. after you have already interview dates. i would understand if we're from a different local office. i feel so unlucky with these immigration stuffs. during my K1 days lots of ppl who filed after me have been approved while my case is still pending. i'm thankful though that i have an EAD already and that I have a job now but hey i also want my greencard.

  14. I was wondering if anyone knows what my fiance has to do to get a drivers license in Calif ? We are getting married Monday. She arrived on Dec. 23rd. We just came from the DMV and were turned down. She already has a SS#. I have looked through the DMV web site and there is nothing noted about validity along with the I94, the guy said she had to have approved Adjustment of Status before she can get a drivers license ?

    Thanks for any advice.

    her I-94 is about to expire that's why you were turned down. wait til she gets her EAD then go back to DMV and show that as a proof of legal presence however you might have to wait for over a month til she gets her license because they still need to verify that document. i originally applied for ID last Nov and they accepted my application but they put it on hold because my 1-94 is valid for 90 days only. I went to DMV again when I got my EAD card.....that was last Jan. 28 and until now I still don't have my ID. I went the other day to follow up the status and they told me that it's pending due to verification of my legal presence but they gave me the # of the legal presence verification department in sacramento so yesterday I have been bugging them about my id but unfortunately they couldn't read the document that I faxed them so I have to call them again next week.

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