As for a handgun, I have owned many, and my personal favorite is my Glock 23 (it's a .40 caliber Smith&Wesson). It's powerful enough for great protection (more powerful than a 9mm), but small enough to carry concealed. When I holster it under a sweater or a loose shirt, you would never know.
That is not what I said.
Promiscuous?? Having sex at some point prior to giving up your life and moving to a foreign country to marry a man who speaks a different language is promiscuous? Gimme a break.
I would not trust a woman who is not willing to be intimate with me, yet is willing to drop everything in her life, leave her job, family, and friends, and come to America to marry me.
To each his own.