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I am not sure, I just think if Kris did really apply visa k1 for me, maybe at this time before uscis send any files to start the next step, when he cancels the case, he can get the $455 back. So I can not agree someone says he paid $455 meant he was serious. And he tried to ask me to send him money for his rent after he sent me the copy of I-797. If I sent, he would get more money than $455. just I did not have dollars to send to him. I have money that can only use in my country and can not be exchanged easily out of my country. I am not sure if uscis will really return him $455. If uscis return him money, I think he is so clever to play uscis and play me.

No matter if he can get $455 back, I think if someone thinks paying $455 can show his good purpose, I will have to say you make good purpose so cheap. $455 can not pay for my broken heart and can not get back all the time I have wasted for him. 2 years! Do you think 2 years are short for a woman who is over 30 years old? I am not young anymore. I really do not have much time to waste for such play and game.

Before he wanted to engage with me, I asked him again and again if he was sure. He told me he was sure. I asked him why. He said he had known me for a long time and he had talked a lot with me, so he thought he was sure. Now he changed his mind. So I wish no matter whom he will try to marry next time, the woman should be careful that he is the man who changes his mind anytime.

I think Kris does a favor for a man. The man I will get married in the future. If Kris did not dumped me, I might not so long to be a wonderful wife. But now I promise to myself, I will be a wonderful wife. I will try my best to make my future husband happy and will not divorce. I will have a great marriage to make Kris jealous. (If Kris really wants to get married, he will be jealous. But if he only wants to cheat and play games, I think he will not care if I make my future husband so happy.) No matter what, I will show him what he gives up. I will not only be a wonderful wife, but also be a very rich woman. I am sure he wants money and he wants his wife to pay for his rents. I will show him that he not only loses someone who can pay his rent, he also loses the big house in the very expensive beach and the great company. From now on I will pay attention to my business to make a lot of money and to build a great company and I will share all of these with my future husband.

The man who dislikes and doubts why I post the personal info and name in public, can you tell me who you are and why you dislike I tell the truth? I tell the personal info because I tell the truth and I do not fear anyone to follow the personal info to find out the truth. Why do you dislike it and doubt it? Do you fear? Do you do some bad thing that you fear other people will publish? Maybe you are the bad man Kris Matthew Lebeau who hides yourself here.

I asked if this case would trouble my fature just because I may marry another American. I love American movies and TV. So I have made a lot of American friends to talk about American movies and TV. I have more American friends than the friends from my own folk. So I will have more chances to marry an American man than the man from my own folks. Kris has the same hobby as I have. He and I both love American movies and TV. So I fell in love with him because he and I had so many topics to talk and to share. He was one of my American friends. No matter what happens, my love of American movies and TV will never be changed. They give me so much happiness that can make the dark night bright. I really want to forgive Kris but he does not give me the chance. No matter how I apologize to him for he and I quarrel with each other recently, he just became so cruel. Maybe he finds someone better there, so he does not want to marry me anymore. I never think I am the best woman in the world. I am sure there are a lot of women who are better than I am. If he dumped me before engagement, I would never be so sad and never post a message here. I can understand if he dumped me before engagement. The engagement on the paper in law for visa k1 is very serious as marriage. If it is not serious, why does American government give the visa k1? I think American government believes in the engagement and it is the culture of the USA. He ruins his own culture and does not respect American laws. Yes, he can cancel the case without any punishment from laws but I do not think laws appreciate such doings.

Now I think engagement is so trustless. Now people divorce a lot, even marriage has not be respected, how can I hope the engagement can be respected? Maybe American government should think about abolishing visa k1 and correlative laws, because more and more people treat engagement as a game that can be played for fun. In the future, I will not apply visa k1 anymore, even if another American wants to marry me. I will get married in my country and hope my future husband will stay with me in my country. My country is also rich and nice. My country is safer and people can not have a gun in my country. And my country never worries about the terrorists because my country loves peace and never forces other countries to follow our ways to live.

I tell the personal info here because I think no matter if he is a liar or not, at least, he is the man who changes his mind without any responsibilities. He treat engagement as a play, a game. Even if the case is real, I still hope other people will be careful. He plays game this time, he will play game next time and maybe some other foreign girl's heart will be hurt in the future. If this case is not real, maybe this case it someone else, and they may find here that their case has been stolen and they should be careful and talk to uscis at once.

I tell truth. So I do not fear to tell the personal info. The uscis does not ask people not to tell personal info to others. At least, I do not read such warning on the copy of I-797 paper. If the WAC0727553311 should not be told to other people, uscis should warn it on I-797 and give the password to check the file. But uscis does not do that. So I think the case name can be told in public when people ask for help. Before I can find the proof to prove the case is not mine, I have to supose it is my case, so I have the right to publish the case when I want.

He does not tell me any good reasons why he suddenly does not want to marry me. So I have to suppose it is his fault. Maybe he is not a faithful man and he has find another woman in his local. Yes, he must have a very good reason to stop marrying me. But the reason does not come from me.

About true love. I did believe in it. But now, I really doubt it. He said love to me too many times, but suddenly, every love has gone. I give his name here, because I do not fear you people to question him why he suddenly changed his mind. I believe he can not give a good reason. His surname is French. Now I have to warn every woman who loves romantic dreams, France and Paris may mean romance, but after all the romance, when you want the commiments and responsibilities, you may have nothing. Love is not only sex and romance, love means a lot of responsibilities and the commitments.

Thank you for all the answers, especially for AZ. You are so nice to me. Now I feel better after I read all the replies. Yes. on the copy of I-797, there are his name Kris Matthew Lebeau and my name. But it is just a copy. He refused to send me the original paper of I-797. I know it is easy to make a fake copy. Computer can make a fake copy very easy. The bad thing is I can not find his name and my name with WAC0727553311 on uscis website to make sure. I do not know what is NAO2? I never heard of NAO2 before. He did all paper work for me. He told me I just needed to sign my name on the forms that I needed to fill and sent the forms to him, he would fill the forms for me because he thought he could write in English better. I followed his idea to do everything. I really do not understand why he suddenly told me he did not want to marry me. The following is the email he sent to me to tell me he did not want to marry me after he and I engaged more than half a year.

Dear Lily,

sorry it has taken me so long to write to you, but I've been trying to think about the best way to tell you this. I'm happy we met and have become great friends but I can not marry you, it is not right for me. I understand any choice I make could be the wrong one, so I hope this is the right one. This decision affects two peoples lives, that is why it has been a difficult one. You are a beautiful person and I hope you won't hate me. I think you will be sad and angry with me and I'm deeply sorry for any pain you will feel. I'm so happy you have found good work, I was confident you would... Please stay in touch with me.

your special friend,

Matthew

I feel very sad that he treats such serious engagement on federal files visa k1 as he plays a game. When he came to my country in May 2007, I was busy for work, so he asked me to quit my job to travel with him in my country. So I quited my job to be his free guide to make him have a happy travel in my country, even I paid some fee for his travel. That was why he said in his email that he was so happy I had found good work. I think I find another job might reduce his guilty feelings. I refused to keep in touch with him as his special friend. I think sooner or later I will meet a good man and get married, there will be no man who would like to see me to keep in touch with the man who had relationship with me.

Now it is hard for me to sleep very well. I know there must be some right man waiting for me in the future. Next time, no matter who I will marry, I will not apply visa k1 again. I will get married in my country.

HOw long have you waited?

Hi guys,

I have very good news, my husband has his interview date schedule for March 3rd. I am so happy, I cant believe after all this waiting we are finally going to be together forever

Liz Leija

Last week my American fiance suddenly sent an email to tell me he did not want to marry me. After he came to my country to visit me in May 2007, in September 2007 he told me he applied visa k1 for me and he sent me the copy of I-797 with the receipt number WAC-07-275-53311 to show me that he truly applied the visa k1. Then he started to talk about the rent of his apartment would rise and he wished I could help him. I thought he tried to ask me to send him money to pay his rent. I refused to send him money because I did not have dollars to send him. After he suddenly told me he did not want to marry me, I have to wonder if he truly applied visa k1 for me and if he faked the copy of I-797 to fool me. I can find WAC-07-275-53311 on uscis website but I can not find his name and my name relating WAC-07-275-53311 on uscis website.

Could anyone tell me how and where I can check if WAC-07-275-53311 is truly about him and me? How can I know if WAC-07-275-53311 is real?

If WAC-07-275-53311 is real and if he does not cancel it after he does not want to marry me, what will happen? Will this make trouble to me when I want to get married with another American man in the future?

My oral English is not good, so I do not think I can call uscis to talk to them. Please help me. Now I feel I am fooled. I feel so sad that I have wasted 2 years to keep in touch with him. I feel I was so stupid to trust his sweet words about love and I was so silly to pay some money for his travel in my country.

belong to california center. have to wait for a long time!

I just checked http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/men...0004718190aRCRD

And it is really a bad new that average processing times for certain application types may grow longer. In particular, naturalization applications filed after June 1, 2007 may take approximately 16-18 months to process.

Now I want to ask how long an I-129F will really take? USCIS received my paperwork of I-129F and some other files and noticed it in September 2007.