Lostin us

because i want to be there for her,when she need me,and not be far away feeling i have nothing to do,because i know no one else can feel her pain but me,my reason for leaving there,is not the US,but only to be sure everyday,that she is happy,crazy,but it is like that,and inside me,i have some hopes that if i go and meet her,things will be back,as her new BF feel insecure whenever she talk about me.

thanks for all your answers.you are all so dear

actullay my fiancee is the one asking me to come,for a visit and leave,she left because she couldn't wait that longer and i respect her wish,and i don't blame her,and being concerned about marriage with her,i spent more than a year planning for marriage and how it will goes,ceremony and where we will spend the honey moon,i still feel inside me she love me,but i can't push her to love me,we all deserve some happiness and you all been through the same long way,what will happen if your finacee tell you that she changed her mind,after you planning for all your future?and also,we had a really amazing beautiful love story,but everywhere,there is people who hate others happy.and i dont blame my friend for offering her help,after all it is something that only few,and i say really few people can offer.and thank you again for your concern.

thank you for your advice,and yes cdneh there is 3 posts like that because i didn't knew where to post this problem,thank you for your assistance,i will go through the short way and let it go.

thank you

hi everybody,well after a long wait i decided to share my probleme with visa jounery users,and i hope i can find any help,well i just got my fiance visa,iam a male,and my fiance decided to leave for someone else,iam still in my country,and i already got a ticket to leave to the state,and the news came as a break,i dont know why,how or when,but she decided so like that,she is a nice person and i always have respect and love to her,my question is,is there anyway to leave to the state and stay there legaly,a friend of me who she is citizen proposed her help by a marriage certificatre,she do work with the gouvernement as a police officer,my wonders are,if i go to the state and without over straying my period,i marry my friend,can i apply to adjust statut?is there any other way to do it?and i heard that if i over stay my period,even by 180 days,and i get banned for 3 years or 10,i have the right to pay for it,and get the record earsed by money,i mean legaly because i have read it here somewhere,i hope i get some info from you and if you need any other info i can provide,thank you.

hi everybody,well after a long wait i decided to share my probleme with visa jounery users,and i hope i can find any help,well i just got my fiance visa,iam a male,and my fiance decided to leave for someone else,iam still in my country,and i already got a ticket to leave to the state,and the news came as a break,i dont know why,how or when,but she decided so like that,she is a nice person and i always have respect and love to her,my question is,is there anyway to leave to the state and stay there legaly,a friend of me who she is citizen proposed her help by a marriage certificatre,she do work with the gouvernement as a police officer,my wonders are,if i go to the state and without over straying my period,i marry my friend,can i apply to adjust statut?is there any other way to do it?and i heard that if i over stay my period,even by 180 days,and i get banned for 3 years or 10,i have the right to pay for it,and get the record earsed by money,i mean legaly because i have read it here somewhere,i hope i get some info from you and if you need any other info i can provide,thank you.

hi everybody,well after a long wait i decided to share my probleme with visa jounery users,and i hope i can find any help,well i just got my fiance visa,iam a male,and my fiance decided to leave for someone else,iam still in my country,and i already got a ticket to leave to the state,and the news came as a break,i dont know why,how or when,but she decided so like that,she is a nice person and i always have respect and love to her,my question is,is there anyway to leave to the state and stay there legaly,a friend of me who she is citizen proposed her help by a marriage certificatre,she do work with the gouvernement as a police officer,my wonders are,if i go to the state and without over straying my period,i marry my friend,can i apply to adjust statut?is there any other way to do it?and i heard that if i over stay my period,even by 180 days,and i get banned for 3 years or 10,i have the right to pay for it,and get the record earsed by money,i mean legaly because i have read it here somewhere,i hope i get some info from you and if you need any other info i can provide,thank you.

now two week i have passed my K1 interview,and the answer was we will process your application more,need to check the documents again,the issue is,last year i passed an interview for a visitor visa to go and see my fiance and then come back,at that time i was divorced and this is what i filled in my papers,all the info's was right nothing to lie about,the office was a black women in casablanca,i don't know her name so no offense to all black people because iam too,and in my K1 visa,i was surprised by the officer telling me that iam already married to an American women and her age is 58 years,and asked me if iam divorced with her,then i was like wow what this bullshit (sorry for this word),i told her i never married an American and i never said so how you knew this,she told me this is what the officer wrote in her document to justify my visitor visa refusal,i told her that i never said so,and all i was asked about is why i want to go to the state,and when i got divorced with my ex,and i remember the interview like yesterday,i told a friend of me about it last day and he told me i could go after the embassy for this,and charge them,i don't want any problem but when he told me so i felt like if i was a dumb man,and what they do inside the embassy is far to be the real thing we see,what do you people thing?should i just wait?make any move you suggest or what?my interview was in casablanca,please i need to know,why the officer said so,and in case i want to fill a complaint how do i do it?

hello everybody:

now two week i have passed my K1 interview,and the answer was we will process your application more,need to check the documents againe,the issue is,last year i passed an interview for a visitor visa to go and see my fiancee and then come back,at that time i was divorced and this is what i filled in my papers,all the info's was right nothing to lie about,the office was a black women in casablanca,i don't know her name so no offense to all black people because iam too,and in my K1 visa,i was surprised by the officer telling me that iam already married to an emrican women and her age is 58 years,and asked me if iam divrced with her,then i was like wow what this bullshit (sorry for this word),i told her i never married an american and i never said so how you knew this,she told me this is what the officer wrote in her document to justify my visitor visa refusal,i told her that i never said so,and all i was asked about is why i want to go to the state,and when i got divorced with my ex,and i remember the interview like yesterday,i told a friend of me about it last day and he told me i could go after the embassy for this,and charge them,i don't want any probleme but when he told me so i felt like if i was a dumb man,and what they do inside the embassy is far to be the real thing we see,what do you people thing?should i just wait?make any move you suggest or what?my interview was in casablanca,please i need to know,why the officer said so,and in case i want to fill a complaint how do i do it?

thank you,

ps:if anyone know the name of the officer in casablanca please share.

well today i have passed my interview in casablanca consulate,the interview went okay,and everything was handled,until the officer told me last year i applied for a touriste visa,i said yes,and told me,who was the wife,i told her what wife?and she said that it is wrote in our database that i said i have an american wife who is 57 years,which never happened,all what the officer asked last year after reading i am going to visite my fiancee,she said,when you got divorced i said 2006,and said i can't accepte your visa because you dont meet the requirments,well the officer this morning said,well leave all the letters,the pictures and everything,take your passport and i will call you soon,she gave me a form and she checked a box that contain: other: review submitted correspondence,we will contact you when the review is complete.

plz tell me what all this mean?

thank you?and is this mean my visa is refused,going that all the question i did answer them,and all went fine.apart this paper.it have something wrote under : optional form 194/us department of state

is this an administrative processicing?

thanks for your answers,this is really helpful,i'am from Tunisia,the mistake was in my biographic form,not in the i-129 form,instead of putting a 5 it was 7,i believe it was the lawyer who did it,because my fiancée called me once and told me something wasn't clear in the form so the lawyer made it clear,and it was the date of birth of my ex.so all i have to do is,write the correct things,and if they ask me i say it was the mistake of the lawyer because he corrected the number without referring to me,he though its a 7 instead of 5?is this okay?

hi thanks for your answer,it seem not a lot are interested in giving some advice,thank you dear Eric and Teresa,we did fill for a k1,my ex was from united kingdom,and she was the one asked for the divorce not me,i have a British divorce decree with only names nothing else,and the divorce is accepted by my country court,so i have the acceptance that the divorce is good in my country too,if i fill the real one,will they ask for a new process,and yet another one year of waiting?or they won't care about it?i have already asked for a tourist visa,and i did fill the real date of birth of my ex,so they would know if they want,so i am just worried about if they will ask for a new application,since the first was filled with the wrong ex date of birth,what do you suggest?

thanks

hello everybody,well here is the issue,when we sent the application to the uscis my fiancee made amistake in the date of birth of my ex,i'am divorced in 2006,the application was approved,and the interview is set,and i got the documents to fill,which contain the date of birth of my ex,now iam lost,should i write the real date of birth of my ex,or the one wrote in the uscis application,actualy if i wrote the real one it's gonna be a red flag,because she was older than me,and she was living in another country,VJs users and expert i need your advice as long as the interview is soon,so what do you suggest,i want a smooth interview without complicating,iam sure they gonna ask me about my ex,why we divorced,and why marrying here even if it's not about her,i already set answers,i hope everything go fine,so what should i do in my case?

hello everbody i have an interview of k1 visa next week,and as it was a hurry my fiancee sent me documents using the internet,i printed them all and all is fine,will this be a matter for the consulate and will ask me for the original documents?iam divorced,with a women who live in europe and we did divorce after some families issue,will this be a red flag during the interview,what do you suggest me to say or do befor the interview,and thanks,i only have the support afidavite original,bank doc original,copies of tax return,copies of payslips,the letter of intenet was sent by the internet,and the employer doc is original.i have the rest docs,we only communicate using emails and phone call as long as we do always have a busy shudle,so what do you suggest?plz help

thank you so much,i have just checked the list and i have all what they say,even more,i have the hotel recipes and also can have a signed paper from the house we were renting,i have the car rental paper (well this one i should get it hh) and also have train tickets,what you think about this?

mox,do you think what i have said wont be helpfull?

what kind of evidence i should have as a proof,oh when she came,she didnt came alone,she came with her family,mom and sister,and both family met and did agree,and also took pictures all together,we have email,phone calls,boarding ticket,and also letters,and presents sent to each others through the post office,will this help or need more?if so what kind?

hello all mena visajourney member:

my question is,iam divorced from a british citizen,now about two year,got all my divorced decree and free to marry,will this be a probleme at the us embassy or no?as for the age diffrence,iam 24 and my fiancee 40,will this be a probleme as well?if anyone been through the same,share the question plz,iam in casa blanca.

thanks

sorry for this confusing thing,here is the situation,iam a tunisien citizen,i have met my ex,after nearly a year,we got married,and this was against her family wish,which i didnt know until later,i was 20 and she was 45,she is the british citizen,we was in a serieuse relation,while we applied for a visa under the waiver at the british embassy,we waited 3 months,at the interview,they asked some question,my ex wasnt a person who earn a lot and didnt have her own location,so she was living with her brother,after many question they told me that my visa is denided,because of age diffrence and also because there is no accomodation for me when i go,after we dicided to apply again,but as probleme started to show with her family,she decided to go for divorce,i didnt hear for several weeks from her until i got the divorce decree,after thinking i found out that beeing together can be almost impossible,so we went for the divorce,iam divorced now two years.

now me and fiancee did apply for a k1 visa,and looking forward beeing together,the age diffrence between us is 19 years,but we love each others so much,the only concern i have is,will the us embassy take in consideration my first divorce,will it affect my application,the divorce was for hardship,i mean because of the family,so what you think?

thanks

hhh sorry yuanddan,it seem so,mox my visa was refused because of the age diffrence,british embassy are so strict in this point.

Well first hi to everbody,

here is the issue,iam divorced from a british citizen now two years,and now i just applied with my fiancee,to a k1 visa,my first marriage didnt last because we wasnt able to be together as the british embassy refused my entry,so sa it seem impossible she took the easy way and asked for her divorce and got it,well now when the us embassy will call me,will this affect my actual application,what kind of question they may ask about my preivous marriage,may they deny my visa for this reason,or am i beeing just so nervous.

plz reply and thanks