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i have been reading this ongoing conversation and i will have to disagree with Casie, just because we are immigrants doesn't mean we are not human! what do u mean we are at their mercy? everybody in this country has rights and they should be treated as such. if they suspect that this case is not adding up.. all they have to do is refuse to adjust status and the USA1234 can take it to another level. There is no need disrespect people, make them feel like dirt just so you can say you are getting your job done. This problem of immigrants being harassed has been around for years but we are normally so oppressed and scared that we don't date say anything because " we are their mercy" and they "owe us nothing". I have been to an AOS interview, which was tough and long.. but the interviewer maintained class and dignity at all time, he did not make us feel like we are convicts, he did not make us feel we are worthless and at his mercy he was professional and firm without being demeaning and condescending. So USA1234 if you feel that you were wronged, you have the right to file a complain... thats what it means to be American.. and thats why we want to live in this awesome land.. because you have the right to get justice no matter WHO YOU ARE!

Thanks for your support guys.. i have an appt with an attorney i will let you know what happens.. i think the way things are progressing now.. I will have to postpone the interview.. then file for divorce then file a waiver to remove the conditions without him. It is getting complicated.... i know he would be willing to come with me to the interview... but this is making me nervous because i might say something to him then the refuses.. you know what i mean.. i have to walk on eggshells because i have this interview hanging over my head and he knows that it is important to me so he is using it to ask for all kinds of ridiculous demands and i will not have it.. i know i married him for love and i have all our joint documents to proof it.. so I will be strong and do what i have to do but i will not be held ransom by him even though he is the cause of most of our marital problems

USA are you still around?, if you don't mind my asking.. your letter to invite you to the interview what did it say... did it say to report to the "special cases"officer? or just to come for the interview.... my attorney reckons if the suspect fraud they would refer you to the special cases officer , and thats why she was so vicious from the word go! but still i don't think they have a right to treat people like #######. I know they have to appear tough and all.. but it is not right to harass people... if they didnt like your story.. all they could have done is refuse to remove conditions

Yes, i would be the one filing for divorce.. i know the timing is unfortunate but pretty much has to be done.. my husband just told me that he his bi-sexual.... and yes he has been seeing "other" people, and also told me that he has a 5 year old daughter.... we have been married 3 years and he is telling me this NOW, so as you can see i am not too pleased.... I think he is sorry and would be willing to come to the interview with me.. but as i said i dont want to lie..... I am wondering can i take him to the interview and tell them our situation.. or is the prospect of a divorce a deal breaker with having to remove conditions. Thank you all for your empathy and advice

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Hey guys... Here is my story and i am hoping that i can get some insights from some of you that have been through this.

I will be married 3 years next Feb. My husband and I have been separated for a few months trying to work things out..although there are alot of issues we love each other very much but it doesn't em like we will be getting together anytime soon. There have been many bad things that have happened that cannot just be forgotten just like that.. I am sure many of you who have been married and divorced know what i am talking about.

Anyways, he is the USC and we both applied to remove conditions and then things got worse from there.... And to make matters worse.. i got a letter calling me to the interview ( I-175). I know that i can probably persuade him to come with me.. but i don't want to commit perjury during the interview in case they ask about our marriage, living conditions etc etc... Is there anyone out there with some insights.... Can i postpone the interview and the try to file with the waiver? how do i that, do i have to file everything all over again? If i do file for divorce now, it will probably be until June before it is finalised.. I am truly confused and i hope someone on this forum has gone thru this... please feel free to share your opinions and experiences.

Thanks you aa

i am so sorry that your interview was so horrible.... i have mine in december and i am just praying that they dont tear me into pieces....What kind of questions were they asking you for 45 Minutes? if you dont mind sharing.

GOODLUCK!

please come back and post your interview experience.

I have mine in December

hey i got the same letter, a few days later i got the interview letter from local office. let me know what yours says. the thing that is freaking me out abt mine is it says to report to the "special cases officer" on the day of the interview. let me know wg=hen u get yrs if it says the same thing

hey guys no fighting!,,,,

thanx for input.. i have attorney appt. soon

I am leaning towards telling the truth. My husband and i haven't lived together in the last 6 months but we are trying to work it out, we do not believe in divorce... before trying all options. We talk everyday, I am sure he will agree to go to the interview with me.. but the strain in our relationship is apparent, u cannot hide it.

Hey all

I just have a quick question

My Husband and I will be married 3 years in Feb. We filed for removal of conditions in april, and we separated ( unofficially) in June. I have now received aletter asking us to appear us before an officer for an interview at the local office in San Jose. What should i expect here?

1. can i go to the interview alone?

2. My husband and I are still talking and hoping to reconcile if he agrees to come with me.. should we mention we are separated?

3. I do not want to lie about our situation because i am sure they might sense some tension between us what are some of your experiences with removal of conditions interviews.

4. Should i get a lawyer and go with him instead?

5. Should i go with my husband and explain our situation?

If any of you have had this experience please let me know..

Thank you